Love can be romantic, but life is actually a very realistic thing. Love is full of water, but if the feelings between two people are like boiled water every day, it is inevitable that there will be no good ending. Good love must be a process of gradually shortening the distance between each other. At the beginning, you can only hold hands, which is no problem, but after being together for a long time, you can only hold hands, and anyone will be disappointed.
Some women always want to wait until a man has given his all before they are willing to give themselves to a man. However, love has never been a process in which one party only cares about giving and the other party only cares about taking. We must match each other's efforts and gains before we can call it love.
In other words, the story between two people, if it can't take the last step all the time, is doomed to be impossible to be lovers.
The reason why the first love is beautiful is that each other's emotional story is like a blank sheet of paper, but anyone who draws a pattern, even if it is ugly, can remember it for a long time and feel very beautiful. But after you've been in love for several times, or heard many love stories, can holding hands really make your heart beat faster for several years?
Not to mention years, months and days may not be able to do it. In the world of adults, even if they meet for the first time, they may hold hands as long as they have some good feelings. What's more, after a lot of efforts, you can only hold hands. Can it be called love?
Love in real life has its own detailed requirements. You can only watch from a distance, but you can't look at each other. Most of them can only be called unrequited love. No matter how beautiful the secret love is, it is just a person's shuddering. And the love between two people, even if there will be bumps and bumps, is still more worth pondering.
The most important thing is that they have become each other's exclusive, which no one else can replace or own. If love can be shared with a third person, if a lover can share with a third person, it is not love.
Different people will have different love experiences. But no matter who you are or where you are, you can't escape eating and sleeping. If two people don't have an appointment or have dinner together, whether you go to a restaurant, order takeout at home, or go to the supermarket to buy food and cook together, two people who can't eat together will eventually become passers-by in each other's lives.
Even if you are heterosexual, if your's love story doesn't even have a pillow in the same bed, then your's love can only be like a mirror in the water, and it is easy to break at the touch, or even never reach the point of talking about marriage. Because of the lack of the most important responsibility and the most practical concern, love is easy to break in the face of the temptation or blow of life.
The so-called love or marriage, in the final analysis, is actually two people eating and sleeping together for a lifetime. Without any of them, they will never be happy tomorrow.