This is a film of healing in the heart. When watching it, it made me cry many times. It is adapted from a true story by Anwu Shingo, Anwu Qian Hui and Anwu Hua. The film tells a touching story between Qian Hui, a mother with breast cancer, her husband and her 5-year-old daughter Xiaohua.
Qian Hui is a graduate student in vocal music. When she went to a newspaper for an internship, she met a reporter and later became her husband. Soon after they fell in love, Qian Hui was diagnosed with cancer, but Anwu Xinwu still insisted on marrying Qian Hui. After marriage, Qian Hui got pregnant unexpectedly. Strong, she decided to give birth to this baby, Xiaohua, but this great move had to bear the risk of cancer recurrence. Later, Xiaohua had not been weaned, and sure enough, the last thing she wanted was to quietly come to this warm happiness. Knowing that she had only limited time to spend with her family, Qian Hui decided to teach her daughter Xiaohua miso soup, washing clothes and folding clothes.
On Xiaohua's fourth birthday, she didn't receive plush toys or Barbie dolls, which were favored by girls. Her mother gave her a flower apron and her father gave her a kitchen knife. So, from that day on, Xiaohua learned to make miso soup, the national soup of Japan, with the guidance and help of her mother. I still remember that picture, Xiaohua was cutting the tofu in his hand one by one, and Xiaohua's father was watching with wide eyes. When Xiaohua cut it, her father let out a scream. In fact, Xiaohua cut it steadily. A few days ago, my 6-year-old son cut garlic seedlings, and I was on the side to guide him. At that time, I really knew it, for fear that he would cut his finger. No wonder Xiaohua's father screamed, which was really refreshing. Nevertheless, Xiaohua's first miso soup was praised by his father.
Qian Hui not only teaches children to cook, but also teaches them to wash and tidy clothes. There is such a plot in the movie: when Qian Hui comes home from hospital treatment, she is very pleased to see that the house is in good order, the kitchen is clean and the washed clothes are neatly folded. From her expression, I read a person's calmness and optimism in the face of death, so she will cherish the present, live seriously and live a good everyday.
In her limited life, she chose something for her children to use for life, taught them the basic skills of survival, taught them to be independent, and pursued a true, simple and traditional taste of home.
Qian Hui loves life, pays attention to companionship, and likes to record her life in words. In addition to leaving Xiaohua the ability to survive, she also chooses to record her story with Xiaohua on a platform like Weibo. This is a bit like a parent-child diary. These words coded by Qian Hui are all permeated with a mother's love for her children. Imagine that Xiaohua will feel that her mother is around when she sees these words after leaving Qian Hui, and she will definitely feel her mother's little love. I think the parent-child diary will transcend the limitation of time and space and show the beauty of family ties.
Qian Hui, an ordinary and great mother, and her view of parenting and Professor Liu Lianghua of East China Normal University in China "love children, let them learn to be independent." The views are the same. The classic line in the movie: "When teaching children to do things, the most important thing is to let them think and experience independently as much as possible. As long as the child can do it, let him come by himself. " This passage deserves our young parents' reflection and practice.