Article | Chen Yuer

Today I write that you use words instead of tongue to speak, and ask your lover to use eyes instead of ears to listen. Such a gentleman, he is in Shakespeare in the era.

We are in a changing era, in this feasting night, boring men and women, whose bed did you go to tonight? It won’t be the same tomorrow. Maybe your lonely night is unbearable, so you sleep You have met one girl after another, but who can stay with you for a long time? Do you have a long-lasting night partner? Maybe the lights in the city are too bright, making you lost in the jungle of desire. Maybe the loneliness at night is too hard for you. You can't bear the loneliness of a person. You choose to sleep with the woman next to you. But, tomorrow will be another tomorrow cycle, my dear. Yes, please forget about me.

Dear, how many days can our love last in an era when you can go to bed at any time? Can you get out of the flowers of desire? Are you unable to bear the desolation of loneliness and are trapped in the jungle of desire?

When we are in love, two people are like one person. They want to hug each other and kiss and hug each other every day. Every day, the two people’s mobile phone calls are answered in seconds. He will run to work after work every day. He doesn't care how long he waits for you. Maybe he can wait for you for two hours on a rainy day. The passion of love makes him forget time because he doesn't get you. When he is chasing you, his heart is Really, he wants to shorten the time to kiss you, hug you, dominate you, own you. The hormones in his body are making him lose track of time as his testicles dance. "The first thing you say when you see her is, are you hungry? Are you in a hurry?" , don’t come so early next time, you look at him with a smile, he touches your head and says there’s no rush, I’m playing with my phone and I don’t feel the time has passed. At that moment, you will be so moved that one day if we don’t leave When you get together, you will feel like you have met the man in front of you. He is not feeling hungry. He jokes that he doesn’t want to eat and wants to eat you at night. You said it is really annoying! You will laugh and have a snack! We go to the street to have dinner together and go for a walk in the park. You lean on his chest and he wants to kiss and hug you passionately. He kisses you with such passion that he wants to eat you and rub you into his body.

Everyone is here. During the half year of love, you spent time together like this every day. From 6 months to 180 days, he would wait for you after work every day. He would also personally cook for you in the kitchen. You loved his stewed crucian carp the most. Soup, braised pork, curry chicken rice, he cooks all the meals you love. Every time you will sit on his lap and say, the rice is so delicious, you will be my chef for the rest of your life, I Fall in love with your food, fall in love with your passionate kisses, you love his domineering kisses the most, you kissed passionately in the park, you kissed passionately under the big tree beside the road late at night, and kissed you passionately downstairs when I sent you home. But, in the cinema, in his apartment, every inch of his kiss makes you breathless. He likes to hold you and sit on his lap. Two people kiss you and touch you face to face. He calls you a little sweetheart, I think. I hold you to sleep every day.

Perhaps every couple falls into each other's tender home during the period of love. It is sweet and romantic, and you are so inseparable that no one can separate you. You want to see him every day. Hug each other and fall asleep every day. He will be kind to every inch of your skin and treat your body tenderly. You will kiss passionately every time and lie on each other's chest after orgasm. You will fall asleep contentedly and sweetly. The two of you will be passionately in love. The light of love is in your eyes. There are kiss marks of love left on your body. They are a symbol of his love for you, which makes you crazy and greedy. The climax of passion will ebb, and the love between you will not always be sweet. , will enter the next stage.

Time, it is like a mirror that will break, so that the passion of your love will ebb little by little, and finally the fragments will remain. It takes two people to work together to piece together the complete mirror. , although there is a scar, it is the reconciliation after every quarrel, but it will also cut every inch of your skin, like the kiss mark of your passionate love, with passionate and climax after another, and the low period of separation will make you want to anesthetize yourself. , after your passion fades, it’s not that you don’t love deeply, nor that you fall in love too fast, nor does it depend on how long it took you to go to bed. Nor will it be that if your love is deep and strong, the passion will remain for a long time.

I don’t know how many days it was the fastest lover to go to bed, how many days it was after breaking up, and how many days the love passion between you maintained the highest record. I don’t know if you really remember the timetable of love and passion between you.

When our passion slowly disappears, when we encounter real problems in life, what is left is to be picky, to dislike each other, to see each other as shortcomings, not advantages, and maybe there are others. Teasing, or perhaps you are both picking on the men and women in front of you, comparing them with others. You begin to dislike each other, and the passion of your love has faded away, leaving only a shelf life and a wear-out period

The time when everyone is passionate is defined as the time when everyone knows each other and can go to bed at any time, and men and women can go to bed with each other within three days of knowing each other. , the shortest period of their passionate love is one month, the first 72 hours is the passion time, the first three days of passionate night are the passionate blending, after the three days of ebb and flow, they review each other's acquaintance situation, consider family, background, work, and each other's emotions. History, past history, a woman will think about a man’s skills in bed, whether he pities her, takes care of her feelings, his family background, and she doesn’t care whether the man opposite likes her or wants to sleep with her. “In women’s concept, men are lower-body animals. , can't stand the temptation, and will like her as long as he goes to bed. Men fall in love with women because of sex." In the eyes of a man, the woman in front of him is just his lonely and unbearable recreational partner. It will only replace the temporary and unbearable loneliness, and will not stay with her for too long. , they will consider other partners. The lonely men and women who have known each other for three days are only partners who are physically hungry, lonely at night and need companionship. Their love relationship may last from 30 to 45 days, and everyone will lose contact with each other in the later period. If a man They feel good in bed, and they are completely cooperative enough. Maybe they will become sex partners for a long time, and they will occasionally go out for a party.

In this age where men and women in love can find partners at any time, they can have one-night stands at any time and form long-term partners. "Our love can last in an age when we can go to bed at any time." How many days of passion, can our love withstand her teasing at night? Others can accompany you but cannot give you pleasure. The passion in bed is exciting and refreshing. The person you like, do you love her and sleep with her, or do you want to experience it? Did you want to sleep with her because of sex, or did you get tired of each other later? If you find the feeling of love in someone else, and meet the woman you are attracted to, then you must tell her whose bed you slept with tonight. Is it a mistake or a temptation? , or do you like him, or did she seduce you, she seduced you deeply, and she gave you the long-lost pleasure and passion in bed.

The passion of our love disappeared. Because your sex life is weak, or you fall in love with another woman, or you start to dislike me, I can also change myself for you, I can change it, if you fall in love with someone else, you can't stand loneliness, someone else's Provoking temptation and falling into the flowers of desire, my dear, please forget me.

Maybe the shelf life of love is not a lifetime, and he will not love you for a lifetime. You cannot guarantee that day in the future. You change your mind and fall in love with a charming man, and that strange man will be deeply attracted to you. You also start to change your mind and fall in love with someone else. You can't prevent others from falling in love with your man. The man you fall in love with will one day Falling in love with others and abandoning your love is a question of unknown death. What we can control is to love desperately when we fall in love. If we don’t love you, don’t get entangled. It’s not that he doesn’t love you, it’s just that time kills the passion. , takes away the peak period of your love.

The shelf life between you is like an invisible line of life and death. Some people say that the shelf life of love is 6 months. Others say that the shelf life of love is 300 days. . Some people say it is three years. But in fact, the shelf life of love is not fixed, but is determined by both men and women. The shelf life of love is not determined by love itself.

The climax of the love between you, the time of inseparable bond is 3 days. You will love so much that you don’t care about your own life, you will love to want to betray your parents, you will love to fly away, you will want to live and die together, you will not be able to see others in your eyes. There is only the other person in your eyes. The one who loves wants to devote his life to her. The one who loves wants to be with her forever and protect her all his life. It cannot be denied that your love is not wrong. You are in love with her | him and forget yourself. Forget the time, forget who you are, forget the opposition of the people around you, forget the time to go home, forget to become enemies with your parents, you just want to elope with him, want to be with him|her all your life, depend on each other for life and death. , loyal to him|her for life.

Later, as time passed by, the climax of love slowly faded and entered the shelf life of three months. You still loved each other. You hugged each other and slept together every day, talking about tomorrow and the future. Talk about your children, your parents, your future life, your family, your parents, and your vision for your future life.

When you enter the 300-day period, it has 10 months, excluding the previous 3-day passionate climax period, and the three-month shelf life. You have spent 396 days together, and what you have entered is During the mutual running-in period, you start to hate and reject each other, find each other's shortcomings, involve practical problems, involve family, find that your life schedule is different, your three values ??are different, eating habits, financial disputes, daily life, you start to quarrel together. When it comes to problems in all aspects of life, the contrast between how you see each other and the women and men you met at the beginning is too great. The passionate life you started has slowly ebbed away, and the shadow of mutual liking has turned into an atmosphere of mutual dislike. You do not understand and tolerate each other. , entering into the disputes over daily necessities, all the shortcomings are exposed, the advantages are hidden, and the rest is a matter of contradiction.

We have entered a running-in period with each other. If two people do not decide to be together after a period of hard work, everyone will have to face a longer road, which will also cause many couples to be unable to go through the running-in period. As long as the first 10 months are over, they can really live together and break away from the perfect side they showed at the beginning.

Only when two people successfully get through the running-in period of love can two people in love truly accept the test. Only then can we enter the three-year running-in period. As this sentence says: If you only stay at the center of the circle, you will never find the radius and it is impossible to draw a circle. Two people need to understand each other, tolerate each other, and communicate constantly. They cannot let the conflict worsen and cannot have a cold war for more than three days. Men and women in love should not always be self-centered and only care about their own feelings, but should start from the other person's perspective. , tolerance and patience are the unchanging laws of harmony, communicate with each other when encountering problems.

In this era of having sex at any time, in this era of rampant temptations, many couples can hook up at any time, escape from problems, escape from the people who love them in life, do not communicate conflicts, and let things continue to deteriorate. , sleeping with one girl after another. Lonely men and women cannot bear to be indifferent to their partners, and they all fall into a state of doubt. Men and women fall into each other's jungle of desire. Everyone has a period of liking the new and hating the old. There is less sincerity, less communication, and love. I fell in love with the hot body, the stimulating pleasure and passion, and relived the old passionate dreams, but gradually I got tired of the bland taste. I found that the lover I had been with for many days became boring, unreasonable, unreasonable, and I ate one kind every day. Vegetable flavor. Everyone likes ambiguous words to each other, likes the warmth of strangers, relies on the warmth of others, likes the flirting and teasing of ambiguous lovers, falls in love with a night of passion, and cannot escape the fading of passion.

The relationship between us will go through a period of love, and when it enters a running-in period or a bottleneck period, we can't get through the running-in period, but you can't stand the temptation of temptation and passionate sex scenes. You are love. When I go to bed, I still feel the drama of greed and passion. Maybe we all start to lack the patience to tolerate each other's shortcomings, and we also lack the ability to keep the freshness period the longer we get along with each other. Maybe we are all stuck in the passionate period and cannot accept the dull period. Our mutual dependence also expanded the conflicts and frictions, and we lost communication and understanding, leaving only mutual dislike, mutual faultfinding, mutual dissatisfaction, and small conflicts began to occur frequently. But we have never looked at our own problems, and we may not have thought about how to spend or resolve this period. Do we really not love each other enough, or can't we stand her teasing?

Dear, should we forget each other? Let you relive the current period of passion, so that you can fall into fanatical passion every night. My dear, when you are with others, do you have the slightest reminder of the time we were together? The late night together, won't it be the same tomorrow? My dear, please forget about me, it is enough that we once loved each other deeply.

My dear, is the love between us not deep, or is it that we are not tolerant, understanding, and communicating with each other, or is your lonely night unbearable, and I can’t be by your side every day? You had the opportunity to let others get close to you, and it also gave you the opportunity to be arrogant. I did not communicate with you properly about the problems between us, and we did not properly maintain our relationship.

Dear, maybe our love lost to the climax, and let the woman who showed the shelf life win the passionate scene we had together, and made you fall into the flowers of desire. Our love is already dead. , because we didn’t hold hands together through the shelf life, maybe the city lights were too bright, and you couldn’t bear the temptation of loneliness, so you changed one woman after another at night, but ah, at that moment you still forgot my existence, who in the future Will stay with you for a long time. Accompany you through the shelf life of love when the climax of love fades, my dear, maybe one day we will forget each other. Dear, please forget me first