With the development of society and the increasing pampering of parents, more and more children do not know the truth and do not understand right and wrong, but are messy and ignorant. Therefore, as parents, we should instill the correct concepts of right and wrong into our children, guide and inspire them to think and explore the right and wrong, good and bad, beauty and ugliness of things, and know what should be done and what should not be done. ; try your best to do what you should do, and resolutely don’t do what you shouldn’t do.
Only in this way can they become good children who can distinguish right from wrong. When they grow up, they will be more scientific and rational, less superstitious and blindly obedient, and form correct concepts of right and wrong and good behavioral habits. , and finally become a person who benefits society.
Now there is only one child in each family. He is not only cared for by his parents, but also doted on by his grandparents, grandpa, and grandma. There is nothing wrong with caring for and tolerating children, but tolerance is by no means unprincipled doting and accommodation. While giving love to your children, you should also let them know right from wrong and what is right and what is wrong. To improve children's ability to distinguish right from wrong, we must also cultivate children's sound personality.
The famous educator Suhomlinsky said, "A real educator not only teaches the truth, but also teaches the attitude towards the truth." That is to say, we are warned to be clear about the differences and not to be vague. , it is easy to learn bad things. If parents often educate their children with the traditional virtues of promoting good and avoiding evil, they will gradually improve their children's ability to distinguish between right and wrong, good and evil, and make their children become morally noble people.
When children are exposed to social practice, they are confused about some social phenomena, and parents should patiently help them. For example, when some primary school children are working in a shopping mall, they find that the salespersons are wearing makeup and jewelry, but the school prohibits primary school students from doing so. The children feel confused and go home to ask their parents. The parents reported this situation to the teacher, and the school held a team activity to analyze this social phenomenon and the various situations of primary school students. The children finally understood why primary school students should not wear makeup and jewelry. If parents pay attention to "guidance" everywhere and persevere, their children's ability to distinguish right from wrong, good and evil will not only improve, but they will also practice it.
Nowadays, many parents’ educational focus is on their children’s learning. As long as their children study well, other issues of their children are not important, such as the concept of right and wrong, sense of morality, sense of responsibility, etc., which are not considered by some parents. valued. The key to the formation of children's moral behavior is the understanding and discrimination of right and wrong, good and evil, and good and evil. Once children have the ability to distinguish in this area, they will have the foundation for their good moral character. Morality is the foundation of life, so parents should give top priority to cultivating good morals in their children.
When children make dangerous moves or hinder others, it is rare for parents to stop them. Parents’ indulgence and indifference make children mistakenly believe that those behaviors are allowed. Over time, children lose their sense of safety and self-discipline. Unable to distinguish between right and wrong, and unaware of the importance of respecting others. When an unexpected tragedy occurs, parents beat their chests and feel heartbroken, but it is too late!
In fact, every child is kind-hearted and highly malleable. Parents should help their children establish correct concepts and behavioral habits from an early age. Don’t make the mistake of thinking that it doesn’t matter if the child is still young, and you can teach it when he grows up. Wait until the child develops bad habits that are hard to get rid of, and then try to make up for it. Sometimes it is too late.
Children who know right from wrong are more likely to be self-disciplined. Because such children know what they should do and understand self-discipline and self-regulation, which is precisely the expression of self-discipline. Therefore, parents should not only pay attention to the power of teaching by example, but also pay attention to words and deeds, cultivate their children's ability to distinguish right from wrong, let their children consciously regulate their own behavior, and cultivate their children into children who "know what is right and wrong".
To cultivate a child with a correct view of right and wrong, words and deeds cannot be ignored. Parents should not only lead by example, but also supervise their children at all times so that they can naturally accept correct moral values ??and have a sense of responsibility. and sense of morality.