Many people in China don't have enough understanding and grasp of love. It is easy to cause a sense of oppression and a kind of "bondage" to the other party. So that the other party feels that this kind of love is a kind of possession and persecution.
Therefore, the relatively negative and incorrect understanding and sentiment of "painting the ground as a prison" is derived. There are also many possessive people around us, who, to a great extent, have misunderstood and expressed love.
Let the other side have a kind of suffocating pressure. In fact, both sides of love need to give each other a certain amount of space and time, which will be more comfortable and spread in the world of love.
Besides, possessive people. To some extent, it is not to give love to each other. Instead, I hope the other person will give me more love. In the name of love, ask for love from each other blindly and excessively. It's easy to get out of balance.
Suggestions on operation: You can try to enjoy the things you like in your life without possessing them. For example, I would rather go to the bookstore and read all the books listed on the book list than pile up books and have no time to touch them. By analogy with this method, we can form habits in life and realize adjustment.