It’s not that you’re not suitable, it’s that no one teaches you what to do.

COPY I write about love, love, love, and marriage. I wish everyone in the world happiness!

1. Love and love:

Love has no reason, love is tolerance, love is willing to give and hope to gain, and letting go is also a choice of love;

Love is not asking, love is not a shackle, love is not giving and receiving, love is not possessing, grabbing the person's love but disappearing!

Love is about mutual respect and tolerance between both parties. Love needs a foundation, and love needs mutual responsibility!

Love has nothing to do with character, wealth, appearance, status, experience, education, ability, age, etc. but is often affected by these factors

2. Love:

How to fall in love: help with things when you have something to do, and chat together when you have nothing to do; help with mowing the grass (handling trivial matters) when you have nothing to do, and occasionally bring some flowers and autumn spinach.

Both parties who love each other will help each other and chat together about nothing (how parents and brothers and sisters treat themselves at home, how they treat parents and brothers and sisters, comparisons between colleagues, friends, classmates, relatives, etc. Gossip) can resolve differences in later life. Daily trivial matters are actually things that often happen in life, and romance is what you create.

The love rules I wrote: Source: The scientific nature of China’s blind date system is for reference only

1. Blind date: First check whether both parties like each other. I don’t like PASS (this is the feeling when two parties meet), the worst is tolerable

There is no reason to love, love is willing to give, love is tolerant, letting go is also a kind of love, love is for both parties.

2. Interaction: Let’s see if you can tolerate his or her friends. No, PASS (this needs to be understood through dating, sex, etc.) The worst is tolerable

Birds of a feather flock together, and people flock together. You can tell your personality, hobbies, etc. from your friends and their conversations.

3. Engagement: Let’s see if you can tolerate his/her relatives. No, PASS (you need to know this through meeting relatives at home) is tolerable at worst

Parents are their children's first teachers, and words are not as good as teaching by example.

4. Both parties are willing to give each other: spend the necessary money and spend the necessary time. Those who only spend time on the other person want to be included, and those who only spend money on the other person want to be included; those who only want to spend the other person's time want to be included, and those who only want to spend the other person's money want to be included. Spend less money and spend more time, spend less time and spend more. Find the balance by yourself.

If you love, you will be willing to give to the other person instead of asking for it, not shackles; if you love, you will change yourself for the better; if you love, you will love the house and the bird.

5. If you cannot live independently, there is no way to talk about happiness. If you can survive without your parents, you must at least be willing to work

If you can't even support yourself, there is no need to talk about love. Love requires a foundation in life.

3. Marriage:

There are several situations in love and marriage: if the negotiation is not good, the marriage will be bad; if the negotiation is good, the marriage will be bad; if the negotiation is not good, the marriage will be good. A good conversation leads to a good conclusion.

Marriage rules:

In one sentence: Learn to be husbands and wives, parents and children, father-in-law and daughter-in-law, brothers and sisters. Because everyone has no experience. Everyone needs to learn.

How to be happy: treat it as a family, and everyone is close to each other; if you don’t give when you ask for it, you won’t get close to your closest relatives! Don’t let love become a burden

What should parents and children do: be strict with each other and be kind in marriage?

Do you know that marriage requires management? It’s easy to write down, but do you really understand it? Ask yourself and your parents.

The marriage rules I wrote: for reference only

1. Treat parents-in-law, husband, wife, son-in-law, daughter-in-law, and the other party’s children as members of your own family.

Respect the other person’s parents. Think about the fact that the other person’s parents have raised their children for many years and have made you your husband and daughter-in-law today. Please call the other person’s parents mom and dad out of gratitude. I really feel sorry for each other's children. Think about the fact that the daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law are both treasures at home. Today I have made a son-in-law and daughter-in-law for your family. If you don't feel sorry for your family, do you want to make others feel sorry for you?

Think about it: Husbands and wives get married because they love each other. Husbands and wives leave their home and start a new home because they love each other. They must be willing to give, look at the advantages, communicate equally, tolerate each other, and encourage each other.

Think about it, regardless of whether they were born in wedlock, adopted, or step-children, they are all children that both husband and wife need to raise. Children must be treated with empathy, equal communication, timely motivation, and encouragement of dreams.

Think about it, regardless of biological, adopted, or stepparents, they are parents who raise themselves and need to be supported by themselves. They should also think from their perspective, communicate equally, be appropriately tolerant, and be appropriately filial to their parents.

2. Conflicts will inevitably occur in life, and handling them requires art

My parents and children can teach themselves how to quarrel, because they are the parents-in-law and sons-in-law and daughters-in-law for the first time. Including various blood relatives in the family, try not to quarrel with in-laws. For conflicts with in-laws, refer to Article 3.

3. When husband and wife have something to do, they go back to their own room to argue, make up their minds, and set rules. If you love, you will tolerate each other, tolerate each other's mistakes, and create a good life together

Conflicts may also arise between two people and their families. The two people must agree on the same opinion. For conflicts with the family, please refer to Chapter 2 strip.

4. The art of daily interaction: treat yourself as family

Calling each other’s parents and relatives are my parents and so on; calling your own parents and relatives is my parents and so on. Wouldn’t it be more intimate? It’s also clear.

5. Learn how to behave and should visit the elderly during the holidays

When you go to your own home, no matter who buys something, you must say that you are not allowed to buy it and the other person is not allowed to buy it. This way your parents will feel that you have found the right person. (No matter whose money is yours, it’s your money, one investment and two gains)