Remember the boy who said he would take you home? In the end, it was just a memory. In the end, it was just passers-by meeting each other without saying a word.

“I want to keep pretending to be stupid but I can’t bear the torture.” The first time I listened to Miriam Yang’s “It’s a pity that I’m an Aquarius”, I formed an indissoluble bond with Long Island Ice Tea. Maybe love is like Long Island Iced tea generally comes and goes in a hurry.

Regarding love, the most common image is the oath of love written by Zhang Ailing. Zhang Ailing wrote about love thoroughly throughout her life, but she was deeply involved in it. I think it was Miss Zhang Ailing's own experience that gave her various insights into love.

In "Half Life", Shen Shijun once said to Gu Manzhen: "I will snatch you away no matter what." But when Manzhen was imprisoned in Zhu Mansion, in the long dark years When he was suffering, where did the man who swore his vows under the moonlight go? Not only was he weak, but he also had no judgment. The moment he got their ruby ??ring as a token of love, he was filled with anger and completely ignored the blood stains on it. Within a year, he married Shi Cuizhi, a wealthy girl. If we have to say who caused their love tragedy, Shen Shijun's lack of firmness cannot be blamed.

In sharp contrast, Manzhen once wrote in a letter to Shen Shijun: "I want you to know that there is always someone waiting for you in this world, no matter when or where. Wherever you go, you know there is always someone like this. "Love doesn't matter whether it's worth it or not. Many years later, Manzhen was still filled with excitement when she met Shen Shijun, but she understood that "we can't go back" became the ending of the story.

Growth means gaining and losing at the same time; love seems to be losing and gaining at the same time.

I accidentally recalled that Mrs. Cui regretted her marriage to Zhang Sheng and Cui Yingying in "The Romance of the West Chamber", so that the two were considered brothers and sisters. Perhaps Mrs. Cui was not unreasonable, and Zhang Sheng just met Cui Yingying and fell in love with her at first sight. Pujiu Temple is just a place where Zhang Sheng lives, so isn't Cui Yingying a spiritual station for Zhang Sheng?

Thinking about it this way, it seems that Gu Manzhen became Shen Shijun's spiritual stop in Shanghai. He lost Manzhen but could not feel his pain, only anger and insult. Returning to the gentle hometown of Nanjing, even though he didn't love Shi Cuizhi, his heart was about to move. So what kind of tragedy is this love? It's just the best destination for both parties.

If Chinese love is too feudal and traditional, why is Western love not the same? Anna Karenina, described by Tolstoy, abandoned her husband and son to live with Vronsky without hesitation, but ended up committing suicide by wearing a black swan dress and committing suicide on the train. Vronsky does not want to spend time with Anna looking at each other at home. Anna's spiritual station seems to have become redundant. To free Anna, it seems that the ending is really the best destination for both parties.

There are thousands of kinds of love in the world, so why care about which one it is. It was my choice to let go at the beginning, and there is no need to say that I was waiting for it afterwards. If you wait for him, he will definitely take you home.