For girls may be looking for a like themselves, while the boys will look for a like themselves, because boys and girls are different, boys are more active, more like to pursue, will generally be with their own pursuit of success, while the girls are more passive, will generally be in the likes of their own people inside the choice of their partners.

I'm afraid that two lovers are what everyone is pursuing, it just so happens that the one you like, also likes you, this is definitely the best, but if the two can't be taken care of, in the end, whether to choose the one you like or to choose the one who likes you, this is a difficult problem for most people.

In the vast number of beings, to find a can be accompanied by a lifetime is actually very difficult, we do not know, we will end up and who will be accompanied by a lifetime, for the choice of marriage can not be a pour simple choice, but need to take into account a lot of factors, consider the three points of view, consider the habit, consider the respective hobby, so for some of the more entangled, the choice of the people is extremely difficult.

But the end result is usually that girls find one who likes them. Because girls tend to consider more problems than boys, this is only for girls, in the process of long-term development of human beings, women gradually formed a sense of protection of their own, women in the choice of objects, will consider whether the male is a qualified husband, whether a competent father, in the future together in terms of child-rearing will be how, these are the main, in terms of child-rearing, the male usually let the female In terms of child rearing, men usually let women get pregnant, but women have to face the October pregnancy, breastfeeding babies and raising adults, so it can be said that the rest of their lives are tied to their own children, compared to men almost do not count to pay, overnight to let women get pregnant when they can continue to do their own things, so women have to consider the male is not a good husband, a good father before getting married, if they can not do a good job for themselves, then the rest of their lives will be very painful, in view of this, the long human development so that women consider more, will generally choose to like their own as a marriage object.

Men are different, men like to challenge, more rich pursuit, for their favorite usually take the initiative to pursue, this is also due to the long human development, men are more prone to impulsive, for their favorite women more desire, the more they can not get, the more they want to have the sense of conquest, so for their own do not like the women basically have no interest in, get their own favorite to have a sense of accomplishment. I like to have more sense of achievement, is a symbol of success, therefore, men will be more inclined to choose their own favorite, as for the future how, men simply did not consider.