1. There was a history of sexual trauma (rape, incest, sexual harassment, etc.) in the past or even in childhood.
2. Some abnormal body shapes in adolescence are afraid of being known and produce inferiority complex.
3. After falling in love or failing in marriage, they think they have been cheated, and even form a revenge mentality towards men.
4. Worry about the possible pain caused by pregnancy, curettage and sexually transmitted diseases, so as to avoid sexual contact.
5. Pain or discomfort in sexual intercourse makes them afraid of sexual life.
6. The woman only regards sexual life as her wife's obligation, not her own physical and psychological needs like eating; If coupled with the lack of sexual knowledge, resulting in lack of sexual skills, monotonous way, and even orgasm obstacles, sexual life will be no fun.
7. I expect too much from my spouse. After marriage, I find that my real husband is far from my ideal spouse before marriage, but I don't want to face the reality and adapt to it.
8. The husband lacks sexual attraction or has sexual dysfunction.
9. When the relationship between husband and wife is tense or bad, the wife will refuse sexual intercourse as a means of revenge or inducement. This is the stupidest means in the world, which leads to marriage change, affair and husband's impotence and premature ejaculation, and the ultimate victim will be the revenger himself.
1. Some acute and serious diseases, chronic diseases and the side effects of their therapeutic drugs can reduce sexual interest, or inhibit sexual desire because of worrying that sexual life may aggravate diseases and damage the body.
11. Being nervous at work, tired, addicted to alcohol or having too much mental pressure caused by something leads to apathy.
12. After giving birth to a child, she changes her posture, thinks that she has lost her attraction to the opposite sex, or shifts too much attention to her husband's children, (some of them satisfy her sexual desire because of the baby's nipple sucking), or loses her old passion for sex because of the cumbersome housework.
13. Some women have a sense of uncleanness in their private parts, and they are afraid to defile their spouses.
14. Influenced by traditional moral education since childhood, I think that "women can't ask for sex voluntarily, otherwise it will be lewd", "the husband and wife should have sexual intercourse actively, and the woman should cooperate passively", and "sexual intercourse is a shameless act", etc., even if they have sexual desire, they dare not express it clearly, and long-term suppression of sexual desire may turn into sexual apathy. In fact, these views are wrong. Since sexual desire is the same as appetite, they should be treated equally, that is, they should eat when they are hungry and eat how they want.
For the treatment of frigidity, it is mainly to deal with the above reasons, among which psychological guidance is very important. Re-learning correct sexual knowledge and learning to appreciate oneself and the other person's body will help to improve the pleasure of sex. Taking medicine to regulate the body function will lay a material foundation for overcoming frigidity. If necessary, female sexual AIDS can be used for treatment, or masters's sexy concentrated training method can be consulted with doctors. Co-treatment of husband and wife is a powerful measure to ensure curative effect, and the most important thing is to establish determination.