The original author of the article also came out to refute rumors, not to debate the story's own lies, in fact, some words in the story are quite touching.
A lifetime is too long, really too long. How many decades does a person's life have? If you are lucky enough to live a long life, be healthy and have a partner around you, you are certainly ambitious.
But a few people can really live that long. Even myself, I think it is illusory. I am only 26 years old, but since I can remember, I always feel that it has been a long time and I have experienced too many things.
The friends beside me are divorced, not one or two, and their resumes seem to be timely and correct decisions. Instead of intimacy with people they don't love, it is better to start over and find the real soul friend.
If I spend the remaining decades with someone I don't love, I'm afraid I'll go crazy, and my life is really too long.
The day before yesterday morning, I received a message: read, I am going to go through the divorce formalities at dawn. After all, I have come to this step. Looking back, I think that my ten years of failure have been wasted.
I've learned about the A incident, and my experience is even worse than TV series. I don't think she wasted this decade. If she doesn't get to this point, the rest of her time will be really wasted.
A said that people, an animal, are the most greedy. If they have love, they want money. If they have money, they want love, both spiritually and materially. But when you get one piece of equipment, you always lose it? Another thing, life and livelihood will never open the back door for anyone, and there will be gains and losses.
When these two things meet the contact between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they become insignificant. The contact between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always interfered with A. I think not only a lot of married ladies, but also the eyebrows. The estrangement and hatred between the two generations will often breed more achievements if there is no husband hovering in the middle.
Many women marry my man, leaving their parents who gave birth to her and raised her for more than 20 years, and going to a family with no blood connection to give their youth to the person they love and have children for him. It is not easy.
The connection between the man and his family that he has to face, in his feelings, is someone else completely. And to change this impression, only men can change it.
A's ex-husband has a disadvantage that most men have, male chauvinism, to put it bluntly, straight male cancer. When A is with him, he makes A cut off all social circles, and A obeys his personality, which is certainly a cowardly identity, but I think this is also the same point of most girls.
Now that you're married and have formed a family with this man, it's good to be a housewife at home with peace of mind and be a husband and wife.
Until one day a year later, my mother-in-law said a very right thing on the spot in front of others and her, and when her son and A went all the way, she always opposed it.
What else did you say later? I don't know that a man can't tolerate such words, let alone a woman. Did the dog eat the payment this year?
Unfortunately, the ex-husband is a mother-in-law, who already has his own family, but he still listens to his parents and has no idea of his own.
Men are not afraid of having no money. If they have no money, they can earn again, fight and struggle, and always give the other half a good material life.
But what I am most afraid of is that I have no idea, no idea of my own, no understanding of right and wrong, and no talent for loving people.
Her ex-husband didn't shelter her, so she let her family say that. She thought that A's heart was also in this trivial matter again and again, and she was cold.
A The salary card is controlled by the ex-husband. It seems that the normal situation should be that the man's salary should be kept by the woman, so that she can buy all kinds of delicious and elegant clothes. This is the right thing. If the wife has a job, it will also support her miracle. Who let her rely on it as long as you can?
However, her ex-husband only gave A 200 yuan pocket money every month. Looking back, A felt funny. How did she spend those days?
A belongs to the constitution that is prone to abortion. She often bleeds when she is pregnant with her daughter. From beginning to end, she has a baby and a birth check-up. Even on the day of delivery, her ex-husband was not with her in the hospital.
The first time I was pregnant, when the nurse told her the twins with joy, I was so happy that I told the good news to my ex-husband and mother-in-law, but the mother-in-law got a blow: Don't be too happy, both of them must be women, and they will not be born! Four children will be born again. How much pressure should the son have? Have you thought about it!
Six months later, A accidentally miscarried in the hospital bed. As long as she was alone in her ex-husband's house, no one came to accompany her to shed tears and swallow all her heart hurts.
After the death of her chilling father, her ex-husband didn't go to the funeral, and he couldn't stand it any longer. This is her father! I'll forget about all the bleak events in the future, but how dare you be absent from such a big event in where will you go?
A broke out all the grievances, depressed, and fell into it.
How many heartbreaks and disappointments should a woman accumulate before she can summon up the courage to put the divorce agreement in front of a man?
Sorry, men don't understand.
B and her husband have been married for several years. After today's topic was collected, they responded in backup.
Over the years of marriage, the feelings between her and her husband have gradually faded.
In fact, it is not only this kind of affairs that exist in most families, but also how to romanticize the light life and livelihood every day.
Because of children, there is less time to care about each other and more time to hug children in their lives.
Without the pride before marriage and the concern in love, a man works hard every day in his mission and turns a deaf ear to her.
This marriage makes her feel irrelevant, just like paying too much attention to the child, the father of the child doesn't care much.
I can imagine him as usual. Every day, B gets up to cook, and when her husband goes to work after dinner, he takes the children to eat. Then he starts to do housework, and then prepares meals at dusk. After watching the men finish eating, he cleans up and lets the children go to bed. So the day has passed.
The conversation between them is surrounded by children, and nine of the ten sentences are children, but no one cares about their events anymore.
Men won't ask what B did today, which dress he liked, or what TV series he was chasing.
B will not ask men, what progress has been made in today's mission, and how to get along with colleagues in the unit.
All the enthusiasm is in this refrigerator, and it cools down.
It's very tiring to take care of the children. Although I'm not married, I've taken care of the children several times, and I'm so anxious to beat him every time.
When b is tired, let the man's deputy ask the child, but the man never cares.
It's all the same with or without you, and you can take care of the children yourself, or get divorced. B thought, this kind of idea sprouted, which is very dangerous. After every struggle, every tear, and every disappointment, the bottom of my heart grows wildly, pushing their feelings to the abyss.
B I'm afraid to get there, and the shoes don't fit. Only I know, Dabai, after all, these shoes don't fit for a long life.
C's parents-in-law are overbearing, and everything must be controlled. Her ex-husband is also a mother-in-law man. Looking at her story, I wonder why there are so many mamao men now!
But after a little thinking, I know that these men are not mamao men, but they just don't care about you, and they don't want to care about your preferences and shirk all their tasks on others.
The man who really loves you, it's too late to protect you behind him, so it's impossible for his parents to abuse you and condemn you for perfection.
Every time an incident happens, C feels that her ex-husband is a real family, and she is just an outsider from beginning to end.
When giving birth to a child, she was in the hospital with her ex-husband, and C was about to give birth. Abdominal pains undoubtedly proved this fact to her.
But her ex-husband told her at this time that she was going to pick up his parents, and C felt cold. The round trip would take at least an hour.
What should I do if I have something to do and need to be named? C asked, but her ex-husband insisted on leaving. C endured severe pain and climbed into the delivery room alone.
After he had a quarrel, his ex-husband told mm about it. It was expected that besides saying that C was unreasonable, she might be given an unfilial title.
For his family, for his pregnancy in October, for his extremely cold operating table, endured severe pain and sorrow, gave birth to his blood. Even if I can't accompany you, I still say in front of people that you don't look and don't love your man. It's so horrible!
How can you blame him for leaving you alone to have a baby in the hospital? Also concerned about my parents! Ex-husband's mm heckled C.
C stopped backchat: after that, when you gave birth to a child, your husband left you alone in the hospital, and no one cared for you. Can you accept it?
I was disappointed when I thought she said this. Why did my own man tell others about it? Why did he make her so unreasonable in front of others?
Standing in the attitude of her ex-husband, parents should be taken into account when doing anything for future generations. C Blueprint is willing to accompany him in filial piety and support her in-laws.
But the same incident happened once, I forgive you for happening twice, and I endured it, but it was only three things, so I felt ashamed and couldn't bear to accommodate you.
C divorced her ex-husband, and Cindy didn't love her.
D told my partner E story that her husband is familiar with blind date. In a proper way, after several years, I can't remember the second best result after many blind dates.
In this small county, the small-scale peasant thought is widespread. Any 18-year-old Miss's family would like her to find a good husband's family to marry yesterday.
E has also fought, wishing to find someone she likes, but her family can't agree with the love she talks about. No matter the family premise or the height and appearance, there will always be something to be said by her family.
I think she can resist public opinion and survive moral kidnapping, but she finally lost the arrangement of her family and got married rashly.
I think, maybe this is the end of my life. Anyway, life has been hasty for decades, and it will soon pass.
Keren has grown very much all her life!
She gave birth to a son with her husband, who worked in the local area for many years, and basically ignored the two girls. After several years of marriage, she only sent her living expenses once.
It is possible to imagine that it is not easy for a person to bring up a child. At the moment of resignation, he must have dreamed. Since he can't get the love he wants, he can always get a care and love from his husband.
But no, absolutely no, these affairs are nothing more than hope. No matter how hard two unsuitable people try, the shoes will not fit in after all. The result of strong twisting is that the shoes will grind your feet out of blood.
It's reasonable to tear down ten temples rather than ruin a marriage. But for a loveless marriage and a hopeless life, why should we take on the humble role of connecting this marriage in name only?
Maybe you will say, because of the child, when the child grows up, go through the divorce formalities with him, and don't want the child to be called a child without a father.
Maybe you will say that divorced family members will be looked down upon by relatives and partners, and will be overwhelmed by the gossip of outsiders, and they don't want him to be scolded by people pointing at his nose.
Maybe you will say that divorce is terrible, and divorced women are worthless. They don't like being called second-hand and are afraid of that feeling.
So he was so disappointed and heartbroken that Lacrimosa tried to put the rest of his life behind him.
You must understand that leaving the wrong life can turn a new page. Who said that divorced women must depreciate? In this exquisite society where men and women are equal, women always hold up half the sky of men. How can men struggle and make a living outside?
Therefore, trust yourself, leave this wrong person, end this wrong marriage and boldly start a new career, and you will live better, happier and more beautiful!
It's lucky and happy to get married with the right person carelessly, but if you meet the wrong person, your life is too long and it's too difficult to tolerate.