I am a boy (Han nationality) in Xinjiang, so I know a lot about boys here. Anyway, I'm not as weird as you say. I think the boys here are very nice, very manly and generally handsome. As for the one you said, be older, you are so cute, you are getting married, and you are so naive. Hehe, this thing has nothing to do with whether it is from Xinjiang or not.
Don't worry, what's wrong with Xinjiang boys? Typical good man. The question you asked is actually a stranger to Xinjiang. Now many foreigners don't know much about Xinjiang. You will know when you have a chance to come to Xinjiang. Urumqi is also a big city, a veritable good place!