Xi Xi Ma Shuo education
Xi Xi Ma Shuo education
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2019 April 15 Creator in the field of quality education
"Oh, mobile phones harm people! Look at my son, who is only seven years old and wears glasses! "
"Don't mention it, I got up in the middle of the night yesterday and caught my daughter. Too bold, I am still chatting online at three or four in the morning! "
"Crazy crazy crazy! In order to keep the children from playing mobile phones, I beat and scold, but it's useless! "
"My son is worse, don't let him take his mobile phone to school, and even secretly take it to school! I am so angry that I am half dead. "
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It is a disease that mobile phones never leave their hands. In this information age, it is impossible to keep children away from mobile phones. So as parents, how can we control their children's mobile phone addiction? Xixima suggested that parents can follow the following steps, and the effect is really obvious:
To quit children's "mobile phone addiction", parents follow these five steps, and children are more willing to accept it!
The first step is for parents to stand firm.
Some parents want their children to quit cell phone addiction, but they are always not firm and easy to shake.
When the child is spoiled, the parents will be soft-hearted: "Well, go play with your mobile phone yourself and leave me alone. Really annoying. " When the child shed two tears, the parents felt distressed: "Come, give you a mobile phone to play with, don't cry, this makes me bully you again." When the child showed off his good grades with a report card, the parents immediately understood: "I know! Got it! I just want to play with my mobile phone. It's not that I don't know your mind. Come and play! "
Watching children become a low-headed family all day long has a great influence not only on their eyesight, but also on their cervical vertebrae and their study, because children always want to play and are always slack in their studies. Since parents are aware of the harm of excessive use of mobile phones to their children, they should stand firm and adhere to principles in helping their children quit their mobile phone addiction, and should not be shaken by their children's importunities.
To quit children's "mobile phone addiction", parents follow these five steps, and children are more willing to accept it!
The second step is to formulate strict mobile phone usage time and usage specifications.
Some parents use mobile phones for their children out of a completely random state. When in a good mood, it is no problem for children to play for a day and a night; When you are in a bad mood, even if your child wants to look up information on your mobile phone, you may think it is a heinous act yourself.
If you want to help your child quit mobile phone addiction, you have to work out a reasonable time limit and usage norms with your child. For example: Monday to Friday, how long can I play, when can I play, what can I play when I play, and what can I not play; Saturday and Sunday, how long you can play, what conditions you can meet before you can play ... all of these should have a very clear plan.
Everything is established in advance, and it is abolished if it is not foreseen. Parents should pay attention to this matter, and can't treat their children's time playing mobile phones as their own feelings, which will easily cause their children's dissatisfaction. but