I accidentally saw Arthur Allen’s 36 Questions. I was working out in my room while watching and asking myself, and my daughter came to my room to play. I asked her a few random questions. 18. What is your worst memory? Who knew that she would immediately talk about the conflict between her freshman year of high school and her female classmates in the same dormitory. We talked for half an hour. She was so sad that she shed tears. Seeing that she was sad, I quickly changed the subject and asked several other questions. 15. What is your greatest achievement in life? She answered as if I had forgotten and would ask again when I had the chance. 16. What do you value most among friends? She said that you can ask various questions about physics and chemistry. When I saw my daughter sad and crying, I just stupidly didn’t know what to do, so I could only write it down, hoping that my knowledge and wisdom would help her in the future so that she would no longer be sad. I thought again, if I hadn't seen this problem and hadn't talked to her about it, she wouldn't have been in a bad mood and cried.

The next day, I carefully read Arthur Allen’s 36 questions and gave answers.

1. If you could invite anyone in the world, who would you invite to dinner?

Liu Lihong.

2. Do you want to be famous? How do you want to be famous?

Don’t want to. There is a sunset and a mouth in the name, although Zhang Ailing has to be famous as early as possible. But I think a lot of people become famous later in life or even after death. For example, although Su Shi was famous while alive, he was still famous thousands of years after his death.

3. Before making a phone call, do you rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

No. If it is an important phone call.

4. What elements must a “perfect day” contain for you?

Exercise, reading, chatting, thinking, writing, taking selfies, meditation, food...

5. When was the last time you sang to yourself? What about the last time you sang to someone else?

A few days ago, a few days ago

6. If you can live to be 90 years old, if you can keep your mind or body in the state of a 30-year-old for the next 60 years of your life, Which one do you choose?

The body becomes wiser at the age of 30 and the mind becomes wiser

7. Do you have some inexplicable premonition about the way you will die?

None

8. Name three similarities between you and the person opposite you.

Sincerity

9. What are you most grateful for in life?

Health

10. If you could change anything that affects your growth, what would you change?

Start all over again

11. Spend four minutes telling the story of your past life to the person opposite you in as much detail as possible.

Go to school, work for 21 years, rest for 4 years, now I want to lose weight and become a yoga teacher or write

12. If this wish is granted to you, what qualities would you like to have when you wake up tomorrow morning? or ability?

Doctor

13. If a crystal ball could tell you the answer to your own life, future or anything else, what would you want to know?

How long can you live healthy and happy

14. Is there something you have dreamed of doing for a long time but have never done? Why hasn't it been done yet?

Go to a yoga teacher if you lose fat successfully

15. What is your greatest achievement in life?

Reduced from 142 pounds to 123 pounds

16. What do you value most among friends?

Sincerity

17. What is your most cherished memory?

I have been keeping a diary for four years, and I will read the diary memories when I have time

18. What is your worst memory?

There seem to be a lot of bad memories, mistakes made, conflicts with various people, all kinds of stupid things

19. If you knew what you would be like in a year If you died suddenly, what would you change in your current life and why?

Change yourself and see if you can escape the bad luck one year later

20. What does friendship mean to you?

Let each other become better people

21. What role does love and emotion play in your life?

Important role

22. Take turns to name the advantages you think the person opposite has, one or five.

I think you are willing to chat with me, which makes me feel so happy.

23. How close and warm is your relationship with your family? Do you feel like you had a happier childhood than most people?

It’s okay, just like my childhood.

Relatively intimate and warm

24. How do you view your relationship with your mother?

25. Each use "we" to correctly create three declarative sentences, such as "We are all in this room, feeling..."

26. Complete this sentence: " I wish someone could share it with me..."

27. If you and the person opposite you were to become close friends, what would he or she need to know most?

28. Tell the person opposite you what you like about him (her). Please be honest and say what you would normally not say to someone you just met.

29. Share with the person opposite you an embarrassing experience you have had.

30. When was the last time you cried in front of others? When do you cry alone?

31. Tell the person opposite you what you already like about him or her?

32. What (if such a thing) is too serious to be joked about?

33. If you were to die tonight and never have the chance to communicate with others, what would you most regret not saying? Why haven't you said it yet?

34. Seeing everything you own and your house going up in flames, you rescued your loved ones and pets, and now you still have time to rush in and save one last thing. What would you salvage? Why?

35. Among all the people in your family, whose death will make you sleepless the most? Why?

36. Share a personal problem with the person opposite you, ask for his or her advice, and listen to how the other person will deal with the problem.

In addition, ask the other person to tell you how your choice of this question reflects your feelings from his or her perspective?