Baby:
Twenty years ago, you sneaked into your mother's body. At that time, her mother's work was stable, but she was still an 18-year-old girl. She didn't expect to take up the responsibility of being a mother so soon. Your unexpected arrival caught her off guard, unlike other mothers who were surprised and happy.
I remember that my mother had just moved into the brand-new small house arranged by the company for us. It is a teacher's dormitory in a local government primary school, with beautiful environment and trees. Every morning, my mother's mood is pleasant when she walks to the company with the students reading loudly.
I still remember when I first entered my new house and went to buy furniture with my colleagues. On the truck, we sat down and stood up for a while, and my colleague aunt teased: If a pregnant woman gets on this car, the child will definitely be knocked over. Unexpectedly, at that time, you had planted a root in your mother's body, and then the aunt kept laughing at her mother and laughing at you. Laugh at how careless your mother is, but she doesn't know anything about having a child. Laugh at how you are a little girl with strong willpower.
At that time, my mother was very old, and the doctor had known about my mother's previous situation. I didn't advise my mother not to want you anymore, and your father and grandmother were determined to keep you. Under the pressure from them, think again, at that time, my mother was fully capable of giving you a good living environment, so from that day on, my mother began to care for you.
When you were a baby, your mother always liked to hold you in her arms, slowly rocking you and gently humming the songs that grandma used to hum to you. Because your mother is always staring at you when you are nursing, you are often scolded by your grandmother. Grandma said that adults' eyes are poisonous, and staring at children so often will hurt them. When you sleep, mom starts staring at you again, watching your every move and every expression, and grandma will come and stop you. Grandma said that every movement of the child is unconscious, so don't disturb the child's sleepiness. Mom just listened to your grandmother, kissed you gently, and then turned her eyes away. At that time, I thought, you will be a clever and sensible girl when you grow up.
Mom is a mother for the first time. She knows nothing, doesn't know how to hold you, doesn't know how to nurse you, doesn't know how to change your clothes, doesn't give you a bath, and is always worried that it will hurt your little arms and calves, but she can't find out the reason why you are crying. Fortunately, at that time, her grandmother was around to take care of you, otherwise she really didn't know how to bring you up.
When you were sick, you saw the doctor stick a needle into your scalp, and your mother was shocked. I felt that the needle was clearly stuck in her body. At that time, you cried and your mother cried. My mother didn't know the meaning of your crying, but she knew that you must be very painful. Grandma scolded her mother for being worthless. She said that her children didn't get sick when they were young, so don't make such a fuss. In fact, at that time, grandma was distressed not only by you, but also by her daughter, your mother.
It's your 19th birthday in a blink of an eye. Although my mother had an argument with you about how to better cultivate you to be a better yourself, my mother did everything for you. Looking back on the past 19 years, you have brought more happiness and good memories to your mother! Because of you, my mother knows that she can no longer be willful. Because of you, my mother knows the hardships of your grandmother. You are my mother's lucky star, a gift from heaven to my mother, the most precious and none.
because of you, our warm home is complete. Because of you, when my father is not around, my mother who is accompanied by you will not be lonely. Because of you, there is another stylist at home who will patiently accompany her mother shopping and choose clothes and often give some advice.
Because of you, there is a good helper at home who will take care of my mother. When my mother is ill, you will bring her tea and water, which will make her feel warm and caring. In addition, when my mother and my father disagree, you always stand on my mother's side and give my father a strong counterattack, so that my father always likes to say that: Daughters are always for my mother.
because of you, my mother learned how to be a mother. I often hear you compare your mother with your classmates' mothers. I am glad to hear you praise your mother for being reasonable and open-minded, because she will respect you in everything.
Because of you, my mother became interested in reading. In order to share your opinion, my mother tried to read your favorite books. Because I read your fairy tales, my mother read good books that I didn't read when I was a child. My mother followed you to realize the beauty and strangeness of children's stories. Because of the people who read with you, my mother enjoyed the wonderful time of holding you in her arms and reading together. Influenced by you, my mother began to read books to kill time after work. Although the speed and quantity of reading are far less than yours, every time I talk to you about Sanmao, Xiaohong and Zhang Ailing, our tacit agreement makes your father envious.
Because of you, mom's life has become richer and more substantial. Every weekend, my mother thinks about what delicious food you want to get for you when you come back. Although my mother's cooking is really not good, she still enjoys it for your happiness. If you haven't come back for a few weeks, mom will think to herself, have you gained weight or lost weight recently? Although my mother has always been very strict with you, she silently keeps you in her heart and always loves you the most.
Baby, you are a grand coming-of-age ceremony given to your mother by God, which gives her a continuation of life. It is a great miracle. Forgive my mother for not hugging you with the greatest enthusiasm and love at that time, but since my mother agreed to keep you, my mother began to devote herself wholeheartedly. Later, when I met you, my mother realized that my mother could not live without you.
because of you, my mother began to cultivate excellent thoughts and moods, not bound by the past, not worried by the future, not bound by life, not influenced by reality; Keep yourself and don't change your heart; Don't care about malicious people, treat everyone around you objectively, don't ask for trouble, don't worry about the past, don't worry about the present, and don't worry about the future.
because of you, mom will put all the bad things in the past; Because of you, my mother has found her former self, and is grateful to everyone who has appeared in her life, and learns to be gentle and sincere, strong and lovely.
because of you, my mother learned to be selfish. She used to live for others and in other people's world. Now, my mother lives for you, for herself, for our small family and in our world.
Because of you, my mother has changed so much. What about you? What kind of yourself will you become because of your mother?
First of all, you should be a brave warrior, otherwise, how can you stay in your mother's life so tenaciously? Secondly, you should be a smart thinker, otherwise how could you choose me as your mother? You should also be a great man with lofty aspirations, because your character has the stubbornness of your father's studious mother; You will also like to travel across mountains and rivers, and you are a playful and adventurous traveler. You are very much like your mother. She is crazy about playing all day and doesn't come home. Otherwise, how can you have such an old mother when you are so young? You should also be a gourmet who can't stop talking about eating. Who let your mother say from an early age: "Adults eat ugliness, but children don't eat ugliness." If it's so embarrassing.
What's more, you should be a young man who loves literature and everything beautiful. After all, your mother was young, and she hasn't even taken off that fake coat yet. Seriously, my mother likes what you wrote when you participated in college students' teaching activities. The artistic conception is far-reaching and meaningful. Why don't you make more friends when you come back from tourism? Didn't you say that you are a young literary artist among science students? My mother really wants to see your literary model and your broadcast and explanation. Can you spare some time to say one for her?
In fact, all along, your mother's requirements for you are not high, and she only wants you to be happy.
Baby, today is your birthday, because it's too far away. Mom can't go to your dormitory to bring you a birthday cake as before, but she will bless you in her heart: