My cousin posted a nine-square grid photo on WeChat Moments. It was a wedding photo of her and her cousin-in-law. I went to like it and commented: "I wish you happiness forever."

Speaking of my cousin, she has an unforgettable love history.

During the summer vacation after my cousin graduated from high school, she got together with a boy in her class. Together they discussed which city to go to, which school to apply for, and what major to study.

The uncle wanted his cousin to stay in Guangdong Province to attend college, but the boy wanted to go to the province to see the wider world. So, the two people discussed and discussed, and finally decided to apply for a university in Gansu, and their second choice university was in Hubei. The two of them were very happy, thinking that if nothing unexpected happened, they would be in the same school.

Neither my aunt nor my uncle knew about choosing a school outside the province until the day they received the admission notice.

When my aunt saw that EMS, she almost fainted from tears. My cousin almost fainted from tears when she saw that the name of the school on the admission notice was the university in Hubei.

Unfortunately, the reality is that there are many more surprises than surprises. My cousin's boyfriend was admitted to the university in Gansu, which meant that they were about to face the test of their long-distance relationship.

The reality is before us, and we can only accept it if we don’t accept it. That's it, let's have a love spanning more than 1,300 kilometers.

Four years in college, even though we are not in the same place, it is still better than being together. Long-distance phone calls were expensive, so they chatted online; the boy would clearly remember his cousin’s period and remind her to drink ginger tea and boil brown sugar water; the winter in the north was cold, so the boy bought a thick quilt online. Send it to your cousin; when your cousin is sick and hospitalized, the boy will also travel more than a thousand kilometers to take the green train to his cousin...

At that time, they were both students, and their financial conditions were not the same. It's not particularly good, but they will still save the food money provided by their families or work as tutors or part-time jobs. They will save the money they earn. When they save enough to buy a round-trip train ticket, they will take the long green train. See each other.

The love in student days is as pure as a piece of white paper, without any outlines of colored pens. There is no money, no interest, and no reality.

Four years passed like this. After four years of long-distance relationship, they finally graduated and could finally start planning their future life together.

Many people say that if a relationship transcends long-distance relationships, it proves that it is true love, so get married.

However, the man who married his cousin was not the boy who originally said he would love his cousin for the rest of his life.

After the boy graduated, he went to Beijing because of family and work reasons. His parents introduced him to a girl who was said to be a good match. My cousin couldn't adapt to life in Beijing and went to a hospital in Guangzhou for an internship.

The boy said to his cousin: "I'm sorry, let's break up. Even though we have been here for four years, I can't bear to part with it. But I have my own future and I must stay in Beijing. My mother found one for me. A girlfriend who is better than you in every aspect."

My cousin was sad but didn't say anything.

In this way, they ended their five-year relationship and deleted each other's contact information.

The most painful thing in a relationship is that I included you in the future, and we even planned the future together, but suddenly one day, you left.

After her internship in the hospital, my cousin worked two shifts every day, living alone in a dark rental house with no signal or Internet, crying bitterly.

Until later, she met a boy who was very good to her, who is now my cousin-in-law.

At first, my cousin was still hesitant about whether to be with him or not. Should she try to take a walk? At that time, she came to ask me for my opinion, and I encouraged her to go boldly. What does it mean to fail in love once? Maybe she will meet true love after this try?

My cousin’s husband is a very honest boy who is not good at sweet words. My cousin said that he has never said the three words "I love you" and has never shown affection in the circle of friends. .

He embodied his love for his cousin in his actions.

At the last gathering in Guangzhou, my cousin-in-law invited us all to dinner. We went to a farm that was far out of the city, and the road was not easy to find.

When ordering, my cousin-in-law pointed to the dishes on the menu and said, "This is what Amin (cousin) likes to eat. Order more and she can eat it when she comes." A large table of us all joked about him: "She is so thoughtful, she even remembers clearly what she likes to eat."

My cousin got off work late and the road was blocked, so we were all waiting. My cousin's husband was afraid that my cousin would not be able to find the way, so he asked us to eat first, and he walked more than 20 minutes on the mountain road to wait for his cousin outside.

When they returned, the dishes were already cold. The cousin's husband asked the waiter to take the dishes back and heat them up. The cousin said it didn't matter, just make do with it. But my cousin-in-law insisted on hot food and said: "Eating cold food is not good for your stomach. If you often have stomachache, you must eat hot food!"

A large table of our relatives saw this and nodded. , my cousin found a significant other who understands the warmth and warmth of the world.

When I returned to my cousin’s house, I accidentally saw that September 28th was marked on the calendar: “Stupid Woman’s Birthday.” I knew it was written by my cousin’s husband.

I felt warm in my heart. My cousin finally found her happiness.

If you really love someone, you don’t need too many sweet words. The person who accompanies you through time and across thousands of miles may not necessarily be your true love.

We have all loved someone very hard and taken a relationship very seriously. In the long-distance race of love, one thinks that the end point is to join hands for this life. No one would have thought that during this long-distance race, someone would quit and the two would become passers-by.

But you should be glad that you are not bound by love, and he has not let you down in your life. Fortunately, it is only a few years.

After all, true love often goes around in circles until you meet it at the end. Only by passing through someone’s world can you become someone else’s world.

My good friend Shanshan broke up with her ex-boyfriend, Mr. Y, two years ago. The reason for the breakup was that her good friend Nana seduced her boyfriend, and the boyfriend said he would be responsible for Nana.

One day two years ago, Nana’s department had a party and Mr. Y was invited to attend. During the dinner, Mr. Y drank a lot of wine. After the party, Nana took Mr. Y to get a room, and while he was drunk, she gave him her body.

During that time, Shanshan happened to be ill and hospitalized. On the day I was discharged from the hospital, I received this news from someone. I went to the bar and got drunk alone. My mind was filled with the sweetness with Mr. Y, the comfort of walking with him, and being pampered by his parents at his house. I was as happy as a child... ready to graduate and get married, but suddenly it became like this.

She was sad and painful, but she knew that it would be even sadder and more painful if they continued to be entangled with each other. Instead of continuing like this, it's better to cut the mess with a quick knife.

She and Mr. Y broke up.

For this reason, she cut off her long hair that was about to reach her waist, saying goodbye to the past.

Mr. Y once said that he would marry Shanshan when her hair reaches her waist.

After the breakup, Mr. Y repeatedly approached Shanshan to get back together, and sent her voice messages and long texts, saying that he still loved her and that he could not have a future without her...

Shanshan was once ready to make a move, but just when she was about to accept it, Mr. Y disappeared again and went back to find Nana.

If he really loves you and cherishes you, why would he go to a party and drink with other girls while you were in hospital?

A person who cares about you will not be easily abducted by others. It’s not called true love if you abduct someone, and don’t want someone who comes back to you after someone abducts you. It’s like cheating. The first time will lead to a second time. This cycle is like smoking marijuana, it will become addictive. of.

For those who are stubborn and unable to extricate themselves from it, you can only bear the pain silently.

Fortunately, Shanshan is not the stubborn person.

Today, two years later, Shanshan met Mr. Song, who would spend her life hand in hand with her, and she was preparing to get a license to serve wine next year.

She said that Mr. Song was great. He knew everything about music, chess, calligraphy and painting. He could work in the hall or in the kitchen. He often cooked a large table of delicious food for her. He also said that he was both a teacher and a friend, like a brother and a father, and he constantly made her better.

You should be glad that you were resolute and did not look back. If you had not broken up with Mr. Y, you would not have met Mr. Song.

No matter how much you loved or how sad you were when you broke up, you must remember that if there is no need to retain love, please don’t look back, turn around, and move forward with bold strides, you will meet a better person.

I have experienced lovelorn love and heard many stories about lovelorn love. There are a lot of people who lose themselves in a relationship and are unable to extricate themselves. They feel that they have devoted time and energy, but in the end they are not the one who is included in the future. It is a pity.

Yes, if you pay but don’t get anything, you must feel sad and regretful, and especially unwilling.

But if you think about it, marriage is not a matter of whether it is a pity or not, but whether it is suitable and whether the three views are the same.

If you are bargaining with a relationship just because of the time cost, then even if you save the relationship and get married as you wish, you may not be happy.

There is really no point in trying every possible means to retain someone who will never look back at you. "When it breaks, break it off and don't let it mess you up." All you need to do is to make yourself better.

You have to remember, "If you bloom, the breeze will come." If you are decadent in a relationship, you will only reap the consequences.

For those who can quickly get over a failed relationship and walk away completely and freely, your self-healing ability must not be much worse, and people with good self-healing ability are often more attractive. .

We always have to meet some wrong people before we can meet the right one in the future. You have to believe that all breakups are making way for true love.

So, those of you who are still single, don’t worry, your true love is on the way.

The earth is round, no matter how you go around it, one day you will meet the right person and spend this life hand in hand with true love.