Yang Baoling

Comedian Fan Wei is a well-known "model husband" in the industry. Since his marriage in 1990, Fan Wei has been quite afraid of his wife. He has been afraid of his wife for 18 years.

He emphasized in public many times: "I want to thank God, the earth, and people. Thank God, thank the sky for having eyes; thank earth, thank the black soil of the Northeast for nurturing; thank people, I would like to thank Zhao Benshan and my wife Yang Baoling. Without their hard work, I would not be where I am today..."

"He is a kind person"

Fan Wei was born in 1962 in Shenyang, joined the Shenyang Folk Art Troupe in 1982 as a crosstalk actor. As he got older, he didn't even have a girlfriend, which made his mother very anxious. In 1988, relatives tried to introduce him to a girlfriend, saying that the girl was Yang Baoling, who was only 20 years old. She was a nurse at Shenyang Children's Hospital and had a particularly gentle temperament.

The first date was held in Beiling Park, Shenyang. After visiting the park and going to a restaurant for dinner, Fan Wei discovered that Baoling didn't like to eat meat, but only liked tofu, yuba, peanuts, etc. She was a "picky eater"! Fan Wei used his cross talk skills to "enlighten" Baoling: "What's the point of living if you don't know how to eat? I'm not a romantic, and I can't smoke, drink, or play mahjong, but I I like to eat. In the future, I will definitely train you to be a gourmet and make you fat!" After hearing this, Baoling smiled shyly and sweetly.

Once Gong Hanlin told Baoling an interesting story about Fan Wei: Once, he and Fan Wei went to Qingdao to participate in the National Cross Talk Competition. His wife Jinzhu won a grand prize, and he wanted to give Jinzhu some clothes to celebrate, but when he touched his pocket, he didn't have enough money, so he asked Fan Wei for a loan. Fan Wei readily lent him all the 300 yuan he had. Gave it to him. But when he returned, he forgot all about it. Fan Wei's monthly salary at that time was only more than 30 yuan, which was nearly a year's salary! Fan Wei wanted to remind Gong Hanlin to pay back the money, but he couldn't save face, so he spent more than 30 yuan to buy a toy Donald Duck and took it to Gong's house, saying it was a gift for Gong Hanlin's son. Gong Hanlin and his wife were quite puzzled: If it's not the New Year or the holiday, what kind of gift was this from Fan Wei? It wasn't until Fan Wei talked about borrowing money in a roundabout way that Gong Hanlin suddenly realized it.

This incident made Baoling see more clearly Fan Wei's kindness in dealing with people. She said to Fan Wei lovingly: "You are really willing to suffer as a human being. I like you as a kind person!"

"Eat something as a souvenir"

In 1990, Fan Wei and Bao Ling got married. There were a lot of bumps and bruises after marriage.

Both of them are the most favored youngest in the family. As soon as they got married, they had conflicts over household chores.

On the wedding night, there was an unpleasant quarrel over washing the dishes. Fan Wei was very chauvinistic: "To be a good wife, she should take care of her husband comfortably." These words made Baoling feel extremely aggrieved.

During the honeymoon trip, Fan Weiren was careless and careless. After washing, he threw the towel and toothbrush on the sink. Baoling was a nurse and had always cared about hygiene. She was very annoyed, but she was introverted and didn't want to talk about him. She couldn't help but get so angry that she started crying, leaving Fan Weizhang and Er Jingang confused.

When he goes out on the street, carefree Fan Wei likes to touch and touch wherever he goes. He always holds the handrail of the stairs when going down the stairs. However, Baoling thought that there were bacteria in those places and was not happy that he had this habit. The two had a quarrel over this...

Fortunately, Fan Wei "thought": Baoling hopes that I will pay attention to hygiene. It's for my own good... After figuring it out, Fan Wei began to pay attention to getting rid of his bad habits. Baoling also took the initiative to adapt to her husband, like a different person. Not only did she take good care of Fan Wei, she became more virtuous and capable every day, and she didn't like to make irresponsible remarks. She also won the love of Fan's family. Where can I find such a young, beautiful, gentle and virtuous wife? Fan Wei feels that he is really lucky.

After 1992, Fan Wei and Zhao Benshan collaborated more and more. They appeared in the Spring Festival Gala every year and became more and more famous. Baoling never doubted anything about him. But once, Fan Wei was aware of his wife's "jealousy". An actress who had worked with him came, and Fan Wei quickly introduced his wife: "This is your sister-in-law." Unexpectedly, the visitor actually made a joke: "Brother Fan, which sister-in-law is she? The one I saw last time was... Not this one."

Baoling's face suddenly turned red, and even Zhao Benshan who was present could see her displeasure. Fan Wei was uneasy. He knew that Baoling's life circle was small and her personality was introverted. How could she withstand such a joke? Sure enough, as soon as she walked out of the Zhao family gate, Baoling started crying.

Afterwards, Zhao Benshan asked Fan Wei: "Baoling is not unhappy, is she? You have to let her exercise, otherwise she won't be able to adapt to our circle." Fan Wei sighed and said: "She is just such a person, she can't exercise Come out."

Fan Wei always tried his best to avoid socializing outside and go home after get off work. When it comes to wedding anniversaries and Valentine's Day, he knows that his wife is not used to romantic sentiments, so he just asks her: "What should we eat as a souvenir?"

My wife is always in charge at critical times

< p>At the end of 1994, Fan Wei's mother was seriously ill and diagnosed with advanced lung cancer. The couple discussed taking the initiative to pay for their mother's treatment.

During that time, the money Fan Wei earned was sometimes beyond the reach of Baoling. Every time I come back from abroad. He didn't even leave home and went straight to his mother's hospital bed. Baoling never complained.

On New Year's Eve in 1995, Baoling and her whole family took her mother-in-law home from the hospital to celebrate the New Year, while Fan Wei and Zhao Benshan were performing the sketch "Uncle Niu "Lifting the Gan"" at the Spring Festival Gala. The old mother was so sick that she was weak even when she coughed. She asked her relatives to help her up and watch her son's skit. During these 13 minutes and 30 seconds, my mother coughed, laughed and shed tears while watching. After reading it, I lay down and never got up again.

Fan Wei regretted not being able to see his mother for the last time. On the day of the funeral, he knelt down in front of his mother's body and said, "Mom, my son... I am raising a son who will not die!" During that time, Fan Wei was in grief, but it was his wife's careful comfort that made him regain his sense of security. cheer up.

Whenever Fan Wei encounters setbacks, it is his wife who guides him. And when he gets carried away, Baoling always wakes him up in time.

In the spring of 2000, Zhang Yimou was filming "Happy Days" and chose Zhao Benshan as the male lead and wanted to ask Fan Wei to play the second male lead. Fan Wei was so excited that he immediately called from home to report the good news to his friends. Unexpectedly, Baoling stopped him: "Wait a moment. It will be true if it is staged. At that time, it will not be too late to tell everyone."

In the end, it almost happened. waist". Later, after careful consideration, Zhang Yimou replaced Fan Wei with Fu Biao. Fan Wei was very frustrated after missing out on a good film. But he had to admire his wife's stability and foresight in doing things.