Therefore, how to speak pleasantly, humorously and skillfully can not only solve the embarrassment, but also avoid the trap of others, praise others without showing traces, and make a strong counterattack against malicious words, which requires very high talent and requires us to keep learning.
Today, I will talk about a star Bo Huang, not a historical story. Look at how he talks.
1, the first is to face the praise of others.
In "An Appointment between Lu and Yu", Chen Luyu asked him, Do you feel particularly angry now?
He said, we are all in the "Lu Yu You Yue". Can we not be angry?
When others praise themselves, they always praise others skillfully. Hello, I'm good, so everyone can be good.
Step 2 face the trap
Journalists often compare interviewees with others to understand the reactions of the stars. If they don't respond well, they will be affected, and their relationship with the comparator will also be affected.
Someone asked whether Bo Huang would replace Ge You.
He said:
This era will not stop you from shining, but you can't hide anyone's brilliance. Because people created the world in the past, when China's films were like that, people were filmmakers who created the times. We are just a young generation that keeps moving forward, and we dare not expect anything from it.
Ge You is his predecessor, and he is also a big shot among comedians. Most people don't directly say who I want to replace and offend people. But you can't sell yourself short and say you dare. Very insincere, easy to be looked down upon.
So let's make an analogy first. All our talents are like stars. It's not that you say I'm excellent and shining that I will replace others, but that we have our own shining relationship together. Finally, I affirmed Ge You's status as an epoch-making filmmaker. I am just a junior.
In the face of other people's problems, we can't just follow other people's ideas. We can see his language trap and then break it and give appropriate answers. This is very great.
Q: "You have three movies to be shown on National Day, which one do you like best?"
Bo Huang: "Excuse me, which director is here today?"
This kind of question is really a trap. No matter which one I say, it will offend the other two directors. I just expose this kind of problem generously. I said that everyone will offend others, depending on who the director is, but it will make everyone understand and get a very funny effect. I can't help praising his wit.
3. How to praise others
(Speaking of Chen Sicheng)
People like you are just good-looking and have to act well; This is just a good performance. You must direct well. Do you want others to live?
(Speaking of Zhao Wei)
At first, you thought God was fair. Later, you found that God is unfair, which is why God gave a person such appearance and talent. Then this time, you realized her acting skills, so you think God is still unfair. I just want to pour out this dissatisfaction to her.
(Speaking of Guan Hu)
I said Guan Hu is an asshole, and you have to buy him a famous brand. What this brand of pants, that brand of shirt, shirt collar is still standing, and that side has to be rolled up. I said, is this still him? Slowly, you ruined the director. The original mixed energy in his body is actually his most precious creativity.
Never say coldly, you are good-looking, talented, and you have acting skills. It is very natural to praise others.
4. When you want to show humor and adjust the atmosphere.
People who can't talk are always joking with others, so that they are angry when they strike up a conversation. In fact, self-mockery and shame are always the best choices.
As we all know, Bo Huang's appearance is not handsome, so he often uses it to make fun of himself.
People always let me play the thief, but I can't help it. I look like a natural person.
I am actually a person who is not very confident, but I really dare not tell the camera that I am handsome.
Being hacked is also to prevent others from taking it as true, so don't take it seriously, write irony and use some interesting rhetoric to show that you are joking.
Reporter: "What is the current level of painting?"
Bo Huang: "Some people praised me. One day, our neighbor came, looked at the photos on the table and exclaimed, "Wow, this is great." Did your daughter draw this? I am very proud. "In this case, no matter whether my painting is good or not, it is boring and inappropriate.
5. When it's inconvenient to say the answer directly.
Start something else, and you can get away with it. Very useful.
But there are always some people who don't understand that others can hack themselves, but you can't hack others, and even individuals will be uncomfortable. Although cultured people often put up with or cleverly cover up the past, they certainly won't evaluate how high and good you are in their hearts.
For example:
Reporter: "As an ugly actress, what is the secret of success?"
Bo Huang: "The aesthetic level of the audience has improved. It turns out that we only look at the skin, and now we look at the stuffing. "
I can feel his inadaptability to this problem and turn his own problem into the improvement of the audience. No one will offend you or say anything useful to you.
Netizen: "Ma Yun said that a man's appearance is often inversely proportional to his talent. I don't know what you think of this sentence by Bo Huang? "
Bo Huang: "I believe this has always inspired you."
This is a direct counterattack against the other side, and the effect is great.
Chen Kexin: "Bo Huang's face and expression look very painful."
Bo Huang: "Director, you told me earlier that I didn't have to work so hard in this play. I have emotions when I look at my face every day. "
Q: "Who can't be a handsome boy or a beautiful girl?"
Bo Huang: "Who says I can't be a beautiful girl?"
When different people ask questions, they should have different ways to deal with them. Counterattacks and ridicule should be ignored.
I remember the dialogue between Bo Huang and Stephen Chow, and the humorous big coffees are in tune with each other