Phoenix Man is a popular word in the past few years, which refers to some rural origin groups whose family conditions are generally even poor and whose fate has been changed through their own efforts. Phoenix men have several characteristics, but they are usually sensitive and inferior to progress.

Because of their inferiority complex, they desperately want to pursue equality. But what is equality? In their eyes, equality means that after marriage, they hope that the two families can live almost the same life.

But think about it with your head. Besides trying to change the family conditions yourself, why should the other party help your family unconditionally?

1. Born in the countryside, but studying in the city.

In fact, Wang Kai is the Phoenix Man that everyone talks about.

Wang Kai's hometown is a small village in a remote village. There are more than 1 people in the whole village, but usually only women and children are at home. Most men go out to work together to support their families. Wang Kai's father is one of them.

When I was a child, Wang Kai thought this was a normal phenomenon. Adult men in the family went out to work, while women stayed in the village to look after the house, do some farm work and take care of the elderly and children. The children study in the primary school in the village, but most of them just graduated from junior high school and went to work in the city, because the tuition fees in the county town are really too expensive.

But fortunately, Wang Kai's family is quite open-minded and thinks learning is very useful. Especially, Wang Kai's uncle, who has been in the city for so many years, started from scratch, finally gained a firm foothold in the city and provided a lot of help in Wang Kai's study.

Wang Kai is a smart person, and he studies very well. After entering the junior high school in the city, his academic performance is still top-notch. But at this time, he still didn't understand why only he came to school in the village, while many children of the same age were at home to help with farming.

once, Wang Kai was admitted to the top ten in the school, and his uncle took him to the city center to play around, watch movies and eat delicious food. It was his first time to go to the movies, and then he realized that the world was so beautiful and prosperous. At this time, he knew that only by studying hard could he change his fate and live in a tall building. At the same time, he was very grateful to his parents, and he wanted them to live a good life.

2. Love that comes quietly.

Wang Kai of the university saw the gap between people in the world. Roommates eat, drink and have fun every day, pick up girls, go to bars, and have good conditions at home, so you don't have to think too much. Only he needs to worry about his future job.

But fortunately, everything comes to him who waits. After graduating from Wang Kai University, he successfully entered an internship in a big company because of his good grades, and because of his good performance during the internship, he successfully became a regular employee, becoming the fastest person among his classmates to find a good job.

When it comes to work, Wang Kai is even more afraid to relax himself. He knows that he is already a social person, and his burden has become heavier and his identity has changed a lot. If something goes wrong at work, he must pay for his own mistakes, so he is even more diligent and cautious, just wanting to let his parents live a good life quickly.

In the eyes of colleague Xiao Jing, Wang Kai is a very hard-working person. Although he doesn't talk much, Xiao Jing can see that Wang Kai is pragmatic and hard-working, and Wang Kai has a handsome appearance, so Xiao Jing gradually likes such Wang Kai.

because of the need for some cooperation at work, the two of them gradually got acquainted. In the end, it is impossible to say who broke the veil first. Anyway, the two of them are together.

After being together, Wang Kai discovered a shocking secret: Xiaojing's family is extremely rich.

3. It turns out that he is an insatiable Phoenix man.

Xiao Jing is a relatively low-key person, usually quiet and quiet. But after being together, Wang Kaicai knew that Xiao Jing's car looked ordinary, but it cost more than 5 thousand.

And after some time of understanding, Wang Kai also found that Xiao Jing actually lives in a small villa with her parents.

since Wang Kai learned that Xiao Jing's family was so rich, all his self-confidence was gone, and instead he became inferior. Xiaojing seemed to see Wang Kai's concern, and told him at once that he didn't value your family conditions, and my parents didn't look at this aspect. As long as we love each other, you are a good person and you are good to me.

But after all, how can Wang Kai's inferiority complex be eliminated like this?

two years have passed, and they are getting engaged. But when it comes to marriage, Wang Kai has a lot of conditions. He thinks that marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families. Since he is going to get married, as a son, he must take his parents over and live in the city.

Wang Kai thinks that even if they get married, their families will definitely look down on themselves because of their origins, especially if their parents are both rural people in their hometown. Only by letting their parents come to the city for a long time can we bridge the gap.

In this way, Wang Kai repeatedly proposed to take over his parents, and hoped that the old father-in-law could give him a suite.

but isn't this a joke? I didn't ask you for anything when I married my daughter, and now you ask for it again and again! Finally, Xiao Jing's parents can't stand it. At the beginning, if it weren't for her daughter's love and Wang Kai's good performance at work, they wouldn't agree. Now Wang Kai has put forward such excessive demands, and they are naturally angry.

However, after Xiaojing's persuasion, the two sides calmed down. After Xiaojing's lobbying, Xiaojing's parents agreed to let Wang Kai's parents live in the city, and they were responsible for the residence.

Wang Kai was very happy, but he didn't expect his parents to be placed in a small bungalow on the first floor when they arrived. It was originally reserved for the nanny aunt at home, but later the nanny aunt was taken home by her own children, so she stayed idle. Now Xiaojing's family has redecorated the small bungalow, which is actually quite good, with a large area and good decoration.

If you ask me, it's good to be here. My parents came to the city and their place was well decorated, but Wang Kai insisted, but he was angry with Xiao Jing: "Your parents live in a villa and have two suites under their command, but they let my parents live in a small bungalow?" Why, when I look at your family, I just look down on ours. Since I look down on us, why are we still married? Let's break off our marriage. "

After Wang Kai said these words, Xiao Jing was finally fed up with Wang Kai's unreasonable troubles. She thought it would be all right to arrange the residence of her in-laws, but she didn't expect Wang Kai to be adamant. Finally, Xiao Jing fulfilled him and terminated their engagement. When they got here, it was over.

Afterwards, Wang Kai became famous in the company, and everyone talked about him. Unable to stand everyone's comments, Wang Kai had to resign and change his job.

you said a good future, is it ruined like this?

Wang Kai's life was very legendary. I was born in poverty, but through my own efforts, I reached a height that most people can't reach, and because of my own efforts, I was attracted by a colleague with good family conditions, and the other party didn't care about the conditions in Wang Kai.

In fact, if Wang Kai can seize this opportunity, it will surely be better in the future. But because of his dissatisfaction, he repeatedly made it difficult for the other family. Who do you think can stand it? So, all this in Wang Kai can only be said that he had it coming, and no one can blame him. What do you think?