The girlfriend broke up for her ex, but the man succeeded in saving her with the right information at the right time.

Xiaojie is a slacker who plays games all day and has no goals in his life. Although his predecessor loved him very much, he gradually lost his attraction, and the man didn't put too much effort into his feelings. When the girl's ex-boyfriend came to see her again, the girl chose to hide it. When Xiaojie found out, they had a big fight and the woman left him.

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Invalid redemption letter

Xiaojie kept pleading and pleading, and even wrote a long letter outside the apartment where the girl lived.

But this letter is not an effective redemption letter. In fact, the content of this letter is completely contrary to what I usually suggest. The whole letter is long and full of lack and loss.

Every time Xiaojie sends a message to the other party, the other party will reply, but they are all cold, and the woman refuses to meet him. About a month later, the woman went to be with her ex-boyfriend, who used to beat her.

Xiaojie decided to get back on his feet. He realized that he had to make many changes if he wanted to make it back successfully. He began to concentrate on his work, began to exercise and quit games.

After the change, he sent a message to the woman again, telling her that he had changed, hoping to give him another chance. However, the woman still responded coldly and refused to meet.

When Xiaojie came to see me, he said that he still loved her deeply and hoped to seize this opportunity

to save the wrong expression in the letter

We can find that although he has made these changes, he still forgot to change an important thing.

He is still full of sense of need and loss, and looks at her predecessor through the filter.

Because the woman lied to him about her ex-boyfriend is a big signal. If he still wants to save her, he can't show a sense of need.

I asked Xiaojie to do another month of disconnection and freezing, and do advanced self-healing work.

when he was ready, we began to draft a redemption letter.

He sent the letter to the woman by email. The woman replied positively in the back. They chatted for several days before deciding to meet again.

because the letter we drafted shows the change of the man's perspective and he no longer feels lacking, the effect is very remarkable. Let the woman feel his attraction again and be very interested in seeing him again.

When they met, Xiaojie's whole behavior, aura and self-confidence verified what his predecessor had guessed. He has really changed! Become a confident person who is no longer lacking and lost.

show the attitude that although you hope, you don't have to be with the woman. After the woman broke up with her ex-boyfriend, they got back together.

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How to write a redemption letter?

in most cases, I recommend writing a letter with a hand before starting a frequent conversation with each other. An effective letter to reconnect with your ex can greatly change her mind about you.

SMS can effectively build attraction with your ex. Because it is usually short and personal, you can be sure that your predecessor will see your information. If you really have no choice but to send a message, make sure you don't show a sense of need when sending a message.

Three principles to follow when sending messages to your ex

Principle 1: Don't pass on nonsense or difficult words

Principle 2: Never pass on any information with a strong sense of need, and don't keep saying that you want to get back together.

Principle 3: Don't argue or say negative words in the message

Remind him of some good memories you once had.

let the other person know that you are enjoying life and making new friends. There are many points that you can do by sending messages, but the general direction is the same, a little mysterious, positive and interesting.

After spending enough time texting and chatting with each other and building attraction, you should ask him out.

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Ask your ex out

Please don't call this a date. I repeat, don't call this a date. If you ask your ex out in the name of a date, make sure his defensive mentality is like a cat. You can't let the other person feel that you actually want to take this opportunity to get back together.

You should let the other person go out with you as a friend, and then you can rebuild your attraction by getting along with him. If you really do your homework, you must be radiant and charming when you go out.

The best way to ask him out is to call.

There may be some evasiveness, but simply saying

"How can it be ~ it must be interesting

" or "It's just a cup of coffee, it won't be anything" can effectively solve it.

but please don't force him!

Don't be like this.

"Come on, just go out with me once, please, I beg you."

"You hurt me so much before, just come out with me this time as compensation."

Remember, your predecessor didn't owe you anything, and treat your predecessor the way you want to meet friends.

once he agrees to the invitation, there is a great chance to get back together, because the idea of getting together again has surfaced in the other person's heart, but the recovery plan is not over yet!