6 skills you need to master when falling in love.
1. Show her the face of a real man. Although women will like gentlemen with neat suits and polite manners, in fact, men are more attracted by the faint smell of sweat after exercise, the gorging on delicious food, and the lazy and leisurely look.
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Compared with handsome and handsome boys, women prefer real men who can go to the hall, go to the kitchen, repair water pipes, and fight off gangsters.
You know, what women need more than a warm and pleasant male best friend is a masculine boyfriend. Don’t always think about “being” a gentleman. The things you pretend often cannot stand the test. You will naturally
The masculinity that is revealed in the ground is the real gold that is not afraid of fire. 2. Compromise and catering cannot buy a good wife and loving mother. Many men will lose the ideas they used to uphold when they meet the love of their lives, and will even grovel to cater to their girlfriends.
Of all the requirements, "doting" on a woman is a very pleasant thing, but "getting used to" a woman is not so pleasant. Men who are always around her and don't have their own opinions and life circles are not attractive to her.
No, even though you think you may be warm, the fact is that your weight in her heart is constantly decreasing.
In addition to your thoughtful care, you can't bring her any passion in life, so what use does she need from you? 3. Love becomes stronger with a little jealousy occasionally. "Jealousy" is an emotion that is very destructive to a relationship.
Powerful, if you don't pay attention, your jealousy may destroy the love between you, but a little jealousy occasionally can make your life more interesting.
Women are very proud creatures. If someone pays attention to them but you turn a blind eye, they will think that you don't care about her at all, and then they will walk away with their heads held high to find a man who cares about them.
If you don’t believe me, you can try it. When you pretend to be serious and interrogate her why she was chatting and laughing with her male colleagues while waiting for the bus after get off work the day before yesterday, she will definitely laugh and scold you for being nosy, and then come over and kiss her sweetly. Give it a try.
Jealousy is a double-edged sword. Proper use of it can make your relationship closer, but remember not to go too far, otherwise it will burn out the connection between you, and your treasure will be in someone else's crown.
4. There will never be a counterattack for losers. It must be said that girls are sometimes very unreasonable: they are unhappy when their boyfriends are too busy; they are unhappy when their boyfriends are too idle; they are unhappy when their boyfriends work hard; and they are unhappy when their boyfriends socialize too much.
, they are unhappy... In short, as long as you don't treat her as the apple of your eye, she will be unhappy.
But there is one thing you must take seriously: if you really regard her as the sun and only revolve around her without even looking at other planets, it will burn you to ashes and then find other stars to fall in love with.
Your girlfriend also needs her own personal space, so don't hang around her all the time. You have to have your own life and work.
Isn't there a saying that men look sexiest when they work seriously? Your women don't need an unmotivated child, they need a man who works hard and lives an optimistic life.
5. Be lazy occasionally and let her protect you. In a relationship, both parties hope that they are an indispensable part of the other party and hope that the other party needs them.
But often in a relationship, men always play the role of protecting the relationship, which makes women unable to feel needed, so you have to create some opportunities appropriately and let your girlfriend take care of you and protect you.
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For example, you can deliberately not collect the clothes to dry, and wait while she collects the clothes while nagging you that you don't know how to do housework, or you can be coquettish and ask her to tie your tie. Such small things can make her feel that she is in this relationship.
It works, and being needed by you may sound silly, but this little trick can make your girlfriend feel that she is very important in your life.
6. Don’t let yourself be as transparent as glass. A woman is used to sharing her joys and sorrows with her best friends, so she will often ask you about the details of your daily work and life, and sometimes complain that she can’t guess what is on your mind.
In fact, she is not interrogating you and asking you to show her your heart, but she is used to this kind of sharing. If you confess without asking questions and give leniency, she may still think that you are not mature enough.
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You still have to maintain a sense of mystery so that she can't figure you out, and her interest in you will become more and more intense and will not fade over time.
When playing a puzzle game, looking at the guide is definitely not as fun as fumbling around. You might as well turn yourself into a puzzle game, give her a few important tips, and then let her guess the final answer bit by bit.
This will keep you attracted to her and make her fall in love with you.