One day, a former colleague sent a private message on WeChat: Quick, help me be the first to like the post in my circle of friends!

In the past, I would have ignored this kind of affirmation, not to mention that this kind of praise was unreasonable and boring, but the tone of his writing, without even a thank you, made me feel like I had no family mentor when I was a child. It doesn't taste like higher education anymore. But after all, they were ex-colleagues, and my finger, which had been liked countless times, was used to it, so I opened Moments to look for it. Didn't find it once, didn't find it twice. Forget it during normal times. I just happened to be fine that day, and I felt it was strange that I couldn't find the Moments he just posted, so I clicked on his profile picture and was confused: I couldn't open it! What they set for me is "Don't let them see my circle of friends"!

Please allow me to calm down. Not long ago, I left a message in his dialog box: "I'm sorry, I can't like it for you because I don't have the right to view your circle of friends. I also want to thank you for not blocking me and for not blocking me when sending group messages." , think of me."

I deleted him immediately.

Then I didn’t answer his call or text message. There was no friendship in the first place, but after this incident, it became even more dull.

But I still haven’t figured it out. I’m not such a bad person. We had a good relationship when we worked together. I didn’t reply with uncivilized language in his circle of friends. He used to You didn’t write anything that was not humane to outsiders, so why did you block me?

If you don’t let others see your Moments, why are you writing about them? If you don’t let me see Moments, why are you adding me?

We have entered the era of self-media, and anyone can speak for themselves. From the initial space logs, talks, blogs, Weibo, to the current Moments, public accounts, various post bars, websites, writing platforms, etc., there are too many to mention. In every circle, there are friends who belong to this circle. Everyone pays attention to each other and communicates with each other.

Looking at my circle of friends, they are basically the types that are popular online: original types. This is what I like best, we can learn and grow from each other; sharing type. There are several types of sharing types: sharing moods, sharing status, sharing food, sharing chicken soup articles; and sales type. Various online stores, WeChat stores, etc. I myself have original works, share them, and occasionally do sales. We communicate and communicate in the circle of friends, which is very happy and enjoyable.

There are also many friends who do not post in Moments. Sometimes I feel as if they do not exist or have blocked me. But whenever my gay friends ask for likes, I can always see him. They will also appear when my official account and WeChat store need attention. This kind of silent attention is also a kind of communication.

If I feel that a friend posts advertisements too frequently and the screen is refreshed, I will set "Don't look at his Moments". But I never block anyone, I even want more people to follow me. Because all my words and pictures in Moments are for sharing. Since it is shared, there is no privacy. Why post something private in Moments? In the circle of friends, there are many canvassers asking for likes, votes, and support every day. If it's not too much trouble, I will like, support, and vote according to my friends' requests. I can help others with just a little effort, and I am happy to do it. I generally don’t care about their wording. Being able to appear in my circle of friends without blocking me is a kind of trust in itself.

It is really weird to block other people and still let others like it like the situation I encountered. I think he not only blocked me, but also blocked many people whom he did not dare to face directly but was too embarrassed to delete. And after this group message asking for likes, there should be some of his friends who are as embarrassed as me, so he will lose these friends at the same time and leave a bad impression. This is really a big loss for him.

In fact, the circle of friends on the Internet, like the circle of friends in real life, has differences in closeness and distance. Just chat with those who are speculative, and don't chat with those who are not speculative. If you like the posts he posts on Moments, you can read them, and if you don’t like them, don’t read them. If you feel disturbed, just set it up so that you don’t see his friends. It's really annoying, just delete it. If you want to like it, if you want to like it, you can like it, if you don’t want to, please don’t. If you ask for praise, others will treat you the same way. This is the Internet and reality.

Why do you need to play with this kind of "shielding" in a pretentious manner, holding back your words while half-covering your face with your pipa?

Ridiculous!