Some parents may not be too picky about their future son-in-law's appearance and family background, but they are more concerned about their academic qualifications and career development prospects. Therefore, when they visit you, they hope you can continue to study and improve and receive higher education. Or pursue something in your career and aspire to achieve something. If you are ambitious in these two aspects and really work hard, then they will think you are a useful material, have confidence in your future, and entrust your daughter to you, and they will feel at ease.
"Uncle, aunt, the body also good? A while ago, I went to work during the day and prepared for the postgraduate entrance examination at night. I'm too busy. I won't have time to see you until I finish the exam these two days. Won't you be surprised? " "Our Academy of Sciences is conducting a major technical research, and I signed up for it. When I graduate, I can join the technical research team. The members of this research group are the most experienced experts and technicians in the Academy of Sciences, and I think I can definitely learn a lot of useful knowledge and experience from them. Uncle and aunt, what do you think? "
Some parents are Mr. Nice guy themselves and will definitely nod. They are very satisfied. They don't ask for anything, even for their son-in-law, as long as he has a healthy body and a pure heart. Marry his daughter to him. I hope he can be considerate. Being a good husband can satisfy such parents. For parents of this psychological type, as long as you have enough words to express how much you love their daughter during the first visit, you will certainly take good care of their daughter in the future, so that they will have no worries.
"Uncle, aunt, hello!
"Although Pingping and I haven't known each other for 1 month, it seems a little presumptuous to visit you now, but I think Pingping is a very good girl and her parents must be very good, so I can't help visiting you. You don't blame me for not being sensible, do you? In six days, it will be Pingping's 24th birthday. This year is her birth year, so we must celebrate it. On Pingping's birthday, my parents and I are going to invite your whole family to have a potluck in the food city. One is to celebrate Pingping's birthday, and the other is to get together with your parents, so that we can always take care of each other and become more relatives. What do you think? "
The above confession seems too rash to invite the woman's parents to meet their parents when they have been in love for less than 1 month, but in their view, it is really difficult to be infatuated with you. Although in their eyes, you may still be a little childish, but your sincere and responsible attitude will make them like it, and at the same time, you also show your carefulness and thoughtfulness, and they generally won't make you too embarrassed.
For parents who have only one daughter or a daughter but no son, they are generally reluctant to marry their daughter and become someone else's family. They expect their daughter to provide for the elderly, so naturally they want their son-in-law to be their half son. In addition, there has been no heavy work on weekdays, so I hope my son-in-law is diligent, discerning and willing to bear hardships. If you don't have the conditions to live together, you'd better keep in touch frequently, so as not to make my parents lonely and helpless, so they often pay more attention to these aspects when choosing a son-in-law. If you take a fancy to the daughters of such a family, you must be psychologically prepared in this respect, and at the same time try to leave them with the impression of diligence, simplicity and calmness. If you can please them, you will benefit a lot, because they will regard you as their own son. Although you have made some efforts and physical strength, you will get far more than what you have paid, and you will be the real master of this family. Therefore, when visiting such a family for the first time, you'd better talk less and do more, observe your words and deeds, and try your best to display your skills in housework and manual labor. Let them fully feel that having you and not having you are different.
"Uncle, aunt, hello! I heard from Nana that my aunt was not feeling well recently, so I came back to see you with Nana. For people your age, if you have any diseases, you'd better go to the hospital for good examination and treatment instead of always carrying it on your back. My mother knows a good doctor. I'll take you to have a good check when I'm free. Don't worry. "
"Winter is coming, it is better to take nothing today. I'll buy you something warm. "
As can be seen from the above example, to visit such a family, first of all, don't be a stranger, treat yourself sincerely, and truly treat yourself as her family, and they will certainly welcome you.
Some parents are vain. They don't ask much about the talent of their future son-in-law, but only care about money. In their subconscious, they hope to make money for themselves through their daughter's "cash cow" to show off in front of their neighbors. For such parents, if you really have financial strength, you might as well satisfy their vanity. If you don't have strong financial resources, you can be generous and buy some gifts on your first visit. At the same time, you insinuate that although you don't have money now, you may have a lot of money in the future, which will make them look forward to your future economic strength. Plus, you are still young, and you may really get rich, so you won't flatly reject your daughter's association with you just because you are a poor boy. Therefore, you must be frank in this regard.
"Uncle, aunt, hello! Please accept a little token of my appreciation. I wonder if you like it or not? " "Mandy is a very good girl and I like her very much. Unlike other girls, she doesn't value her boyfriend's character, but only pays attention to money. I just graduated from college and am poor now, but this is only temporary. I will try my best to change all this. "
If you handle it this way, your girlfriend will think you are great and be proud of you. She has been on tenterhooks, but now she is finally relieved.
You can ask your girlfriend's parents before you meet them.