My boyfriend Anan, a native of Nanjing, is a doctor of vocal music. He studied in Italy, studied with celebrities, made a wide range of friends, loved food, loved fitness, loved traveling, and was also an enthusiast of music equipment. Living with such a boyfriend, you will never know what loneliness is, and you will never know what new leisure style he will recommend to me tomorrow. In short, life is like being with him.

Although, sometimes, I feel that there is still a big gap with Anan. For example, sometimes, when he says hi to his classmates studying abroad, Italian pops up, and I sound at a loss. For example, the last time he took me to Sanlitun to eat steak, God, the real steak with bloodshot blood made me feel hard to swallow for a while, and so on, which also made me very unhappy. But I really like Anan, so I quickly adjusted myself and shortened the gap with Anan as soon as possible.

1. Be willing to try and actively integrate into each other's life circle. As I have been studying in China, I am not familiar with many western styles of Anan, so sometimes I don't get along with him. However, I actively collected the delicious food and scenic spots in the city where he studied abroad, as well as the history and allusions of the school he attended, so that I could naturally join the topics they discussed at their alumni reunion. I even learned a few words of Italian from Anan, and occasionally popped up, which made Anan look surprised.

2. broaden your knowledge and cultivate your interests and tastes that match each other. As an art student, Anan has some petty bourgeoisie complex, such as what brand of red wine to drink when eating steak and what kind of white wine to go with seafood. What style should his music studio be decorated and decorated? Many of them are beyond my aesthetic ability, but I will read more books in this field, and at the same time, I will often communicate with Anan to know what he thinks. In this way, I can put forward my own reasonable suggestions in time and get Anan's praise during the whole decoration process.

3. Be good at learning and discover a brand-new self. I was born in the mainland, and my family is very traditional and conservative. Since I was with Anan, I have learned to ski, cook western food and go hiking with my backpack. All these are incredible things in the eyes of my family and friends, but I have done it. At the same time, I have discovered a lot of beauty in life and the convenience and happiness brought by new skills.