Some men open their mouths when they are ready to eat, some men eat fast food with you, and some men may only say: remember to eat. There is also a kind of man who will put all his care and love into delicious food, which will warm your stomach and iron your heart. Food and treasure cannot be let down.

My friend Xiao Xi just attended a colleague's wedding some time ago. After returning, Xiao Xi, who had been idle for two years, suddenly told me that she also wanted to fall in love.

Xiao Xi said that she was really envious of her colleague for marrying a good man.

I asked Xiao Xi, what should I do?

Xiao Xi talked about the love story of her colleague Xianxian in a serious manner.

01

As the name suggests, Xian Xianren looks like a little fairy and has a lively and cheerful personality, without being pretentious at all.

Xianxian is a northern girl who works in Shanghai.

In 2012, Xianxian graduated from University and followed her first boyfriend Zhang Ning from her hometown in Shanxi to Shanghai. Xianxian worked as a translator in a foreign company and Zhang Ning worked in sales at a car company.

When they first arrived in Shanghai, although the lives of Xianxian and Zhang Ning were tight, Zhang Ning was very kind to Xianxian. Zhang Ning took the initiative to take on the housework and would take Xianxian to movies and parks on weekends. .

Every time she chats with her friends, Xianxian always says happily that she has found a good boyfriend. But friends teased Xianxian, "Zhang Ning has really made money by finding a silly person like you."

The immortal just smiled and did not answer. Although they were poor at that time, Xianxian never thought they would be separated.

However, things did not develop towards the ideal situation of Xianxian.

Not only did Zhang Ning’s work not improve, but his performance also declined for a time. He began to become anxious and decadent. During that time, Zhang Ning was addicted to online games and spent weekends either in Internet cafes or bars.

Xianxian looked at Zhang Ning, whose eyes were bloodshot and looked exhausted, and felt heartbroken. She comforted him and persuaded him to change jobs.

Xianxian's words were sincere, but Zhang Ning asked with an uncharacteristically cold face, "Do you think changing jobs is that easy? Do you know how difficult it is to find a job now?"

Xian Xian was stunned. This was the first time Zhang Ning had hurt him. Zhang Ning's face was full of indifference and ridicule.

That night, Zhang Ning stayed in the bar all night, and Xianxian had insomnia.

After that, Zhang Ning rarely ate at home, and often went home after having dinner in the company's staff restaurant.

Xianxian prepared dinner several times, but Zhang Ning ignored it.

02

Any relationship that undergoes fission will not last long, and it is difficult to reconcile a broken mirror, let alone a sensitive and fragile love?

Xianxian and Zhang Ning broke up on the fifth anniversary of their relationship.

Xianxian made a reservation at the restaurant, and when she mentioned it to Zhang Ning, Zhang Ning asked Xianxian with a confused expression, why did she suddenly think of eating Western food?

The smiling expression on Xianxian's face suddenly froze, and after a moment of silence, Xianxian bit her lips and said, "I just want to eat suddenly, will you eat with me?"

Zhang Ning was busy playing games and did not notice the change of expression on Xianxian's face. Zhang Ning shook his head and said impatiently, "I have eaten."

Xianxianqiang Holding back her tears, she pretended nothing was wrong and said with a smile, "Then I'll go eat alone."

That night, Xianxian ordered a black pepper steak at a pre-booked Western restaurant. The taste was fresh and tender, but Xianxian was crying very awkwardly, even her carefully put on makeup was ruined. At the same time, Liang Jingru's "It Will Pass" played in the restaurant, and even the music was so suitable for the scene, Xianxian burst into tears immediately.

When Xianxian left, the waiter gave her a bright red rose. Xianxian was a little surprised, but the waiter smiled and explained that he was just following orders.

Without much thought, Xianxian said thank you to the waiter and accepted the rose.

It would be half a year later that the fairy knew that the red rose was originally given to her by the restaurant owner, Mr. Guoke.

By that time, Mr. Guoke had become the immortal’s prospective boyfriend.

When Xianxian returned home from the western restaurant, Zhang Ning's face suddenly turned ugly when he saw the rose in Xianxian's hand, "You have a new love so soon?"

Xianxian heard the sarcasm in Zhang Ning's words. Xianxian sneered and said, "Do you think it's funny to be given roses by a stranger on your love anniversary?"

Zhang Ning was stunned for a moment, Xianxian thought it was Zhang Ning would feel guilty for this, but Zhang Ning's attitude disappointed the immortal.

Zhang Ning said, "We have been together for five years, do you still care about these details? Is it necessary?"

If Xianxian still had some hope for Zhang Ning before, When Zhang Ning said these words, Xianxian gave up completely.

Xianxian said, "In this case, there is no need for us to be together."

Zhang Ning acquiesced in the breakup without saying a word.

03

Xianxian met Mr. Guoke half a year after breaking up with Zhang Ning. A western restaurant.

My best friend’s blind date was a very good man, and he left after finishing the meal without paying the bill.

When paying the bill, Mr. Guoke took a small book and walked up to Xianxian and said he wanted to do a questionnaire. Xianxian looked at the tall and handsome man in front of her with a serious look on his face and couldn't bear to refuse. Q&A After it was over, Mr. Guoke gave Xianxian a free bill.

Xianxian looked confused, but her best friend said with a smile, Xianxian, you are lucky!

Xianxian denied it, only treating it as a joke and did not take it seriously.

But within two days, Xianxian received a call from Mr. Guoke. Mr. Guoke invited Xianxian to attend the anniversary store celebration on the phone.

The immortal joked with interest, "Free food and free drink?"

Mr. Guoke laughed heartily, "Of course."

That night, Xianxian had a feast of food and drinks in Mr. Guoke’s shop.

In the middle of the process, Mr. Guoke brought a work meal and dessert. Mr. Guoke brought the dessert to the fairy, "I made this, you can eat and see."

Xianxian looked at Mr. Guoke and giggled, "Why are you so nice to me? Do you like me?"

"Yes, you have seen this."

< p> Mr. Guoke said as he sat opposite Xianxian. Xianxian's face turned crimson and he hurriedly lowered his head to eat.

A faint smile appeared on Mr. Guoke's face, and he ate his work meal by himself.

When Xianxian returned, Mr. Guoke gave her a red rose. Xianxian looked at the delicate rose and suddenly realized, "It turns out to be you."

Guoke The husband smiled and nodded, "You only ate less than a third of the steak that day. I thought it was too unpalatable. I originally wanted to make another portion, but I couldn't make you hungry, but I was afraid. This is very presumptuous, so..."

Xianxian pursed her lips and snickered, and her eyes suddenly became gentle.

Not long after, Xianxian and Mr. Guoke were together.

Unlike Zhang Ning, Mr. Guoke is a person with a delicate mind and knows how to cherish.

Immortals often say that after being together with Mr. Guoke, the happiest thing is to have dinner with Mr. Guoke.

Mr. Guoke knows what Xianxian likes to eat and what he doesn’t like to eat. Mr. Guoke, who learned cooking in France, can always catch Xianxian’s appetite and make delicious and nutritious food.

Xianxian has never had dinner alone. No matter how busy he is, Mr. Guoke will eat with Xianxian before doing anything else.

After two years of love, Mr. Guoke proposed to Xianxian.

In the huge western restaurant, Mr. Guoke got down on one knee in the presence of all the staff, looked at Xianxian affectionately and said, "I want to cook for you for the rest of my life, and you are willing to eat with me." ”

Mr. Guoke’s ingenious proposal made the always nervous Xianxian red-eyed. Amidst the blessings, Xianxian agreed to Mr. Guoke’s proposal.

Xianxian later asked Mr. Guoke why he liked her. Mr. Guoke said, "I have never seen a girl cry so miserably in front of delicious food. I guess you must have experienced a very sad experience." It would be great if delicious food could make you less sad. Fortunately, I have done it now."

04

In the movie "The Secret Agent of Ouchi", every time. After quarreling with Stephen Chow, Carina Lau would gently ask Stephen Chow, "Honey, are you hungry? Can I cook a bowl of noodles for you?"

This trick has been tried and true. In the movie, as long as one With a bowl of noodles, the previous fight can be turned into jade and silk.

In daily life, you will find that there are very few people except family members who always care about whether you have enough to eat and clothing, cook for you when you are hungry, and add clothes to you when you are cold.

People who really care about you will not say too many extravagant words. Most of the time, they just silently care about whether you have enough food and clothing.

When your lover starts to care about whether you have eaten and is willing to take you to eat, please believe that he really loves you and treats you as a family member.

Venus once said, "If a man feels sorry for you when you squeeze into the bus, complains that you don't eat on time, keeps reminding you to drink less and hurt your body, tells you to pay attention to safety when you go home from work on rainy days, and warns you when you are sick. Funny text messages to coax you... please ignore him, and then talk to the person who can drive you, stay with you when you are sick, take you to meals, pick you up after get off work, and tell you, "Stop doing this crappy job and come home with me." Together. "

If you truly love someone, you will subconsciously put yourself in the other person's shoes and do your best to help the other person solve their problems.

On the other hand, those men who only say affectionate words but never take action, please believe that his love for you is just words.

The girl who is as lucky as a fairy finally found the true love she can entrust to her life after experiencing a failed love.

What we spend our whole lives looking for is just a lover with whom we can eat together.