1. How to say the opening remarks? After adding a girl’s WeChat account, boys are generally required to take the initiative to start the show, so everyone needs to master the following points before the start: 1. Provide personal information 2. Provide personal confidence + ask questions 3. Praise + ask questions + provide personal value ① Provide personal information Message: When chatting with girls, don’t ask questions. Mention girls many times during the chat, such as: Where are you doing, where are you from? Did you have meal? This is all asking for value. We need to understand girls, but we must first let girls know us, so provide personal information first, indicate what your purpose is, or output value first, so that girls can let down their guard. ②Question: This is a way many people like to start, but it must be based on the girl’s interests. ③Praise: It’s just words to praise girls. Every girl doesn’t like to be praised. So what exactly needs to be done? We can start with the following points with girls: 1. Set up a suspense opening. In WeChat chat, rationally use girls’ curiosity and set up a suspense as an opening. Generally, girls will have doubts and want to know the answer. Get interested in what you say. For example: I discovered a secret of yours. You are awesome. Your circle of friends is different from others. There is a very special point. After seeing the message you sent, most girls will be confused about your words and ask you. If they want to To continue to guide the girl's curiosity, you can say: "If I tell you, I'm afraid you'll beat me to death." Instead of telling the girl the answer directly, you can try to trick the girl a little bit, because this matter is related to the girl, and she will continue to ask questions. , and you also become an exporter of value, a prize, and guide girls to chase it. 2. Cold reading and complimentary opening. During the chat process, only by seizing the initiative in chatting can girls gradually let down their guard, open their hearts to you, and provide valuable information for subsequent chats. Cold reading is to do this to girls. Simple guesses, such as: I think you should be a person who loves to laugh. I think you must not be able to eat spicy food. Your personality must be more outgoing. Vaguely describe some of the girl's personality and psychological state, regardless of whether what the girl said is true or not. As you guessed, you can continue to use cold reading to convince the girl or make the girl feel happy with your words, for example: Male: I think you are a person who loves to laugh. Female: But I am not a male: That must be because I have not met you. A person who can make you laugh. Girl: Maybe. Boy: You must be longing for happiness in your heart, so I appeared. Girl: Haha. Boy: I believe that girls who love to laugh will have good luck. 3. Open the game based on girls’ interests. You will be more conversational when talking about your own hobbies. If you ask for a small request at this time, most people will not refuse, but will sincerely recommend you. Talking about the things you like can also pave the way for future meetings and dates. We can learn about girls’ interests and hobbies through their friend circles, avatars and signatures, and use girls’ visible display to elicit topics that girls are interested in. For example: Girls often post photos about books, then you can Start like this: "You must be a person with a delicate heart." When a girl shares some photos of delicious food, she can start like this: "Looking at the photos of food you posted makes people hungry." When a girl shares some photos of travel, she can start like this: Opening: "Hello, freedom-loving little sister" 2. Small chat opening routines 1. You are late. The interesting girl will reply "just right". If you ask why, you can say: "I will tell you the answer slowly" 2 , It is said that those who reply instantly are true love. This sentence is risky, but it is very lethal. If the girl replies instantly, the relationship will be improved instantly. 3. Hi! Aquarius Girl: You don’t need to worry about the girl’s zodiac sign here. Just say a zodiac sign that matches your own. Guide the girl to tell her zodiac sign and start the conversation. 4. They say beautiful girls love to fantasize, so what are you thinking about now? Use cold reading to guess what some girls are thinking, which not only praises the girls but also opens up the topic instantly. 5. Has anyone ever said that you look like xxx, especially when you smile (analyze the specific situation. When praising girls, you must be distinctive and avoid "you look so beautiful/beautiful". First Opening remarks for adding girls on WeChat 2 1. Start with the other person’s information. People are always most concerned about themselves. Regarding the other person’s own topics, girls have the highest reply rate. For this reason, you need to be more careful and start with her avatar and anonymous name. , Moments updates, and personalized signatures to find topics. As long as the topic is appropriate, women’s response rate is very high. For example, if you capture a little cutie alive (the girl’s anonymous name on WeChat is called Little Cutie), you will definitely look good with short hair (girls now have it). Long hair), you were born in 1999, you should be a foodie (there are a lot of food photos in the circle of friends), and the girl’s appearance looks like a southern girl (start with the head portrait) 2. The question-type opening is to create suspense for girls. Driven by curiosity, the response rate of girls is extremely high.
For example: 1. "I heard that you are sick?" "Who can tell me?" "I heard that you can't eat from your plate or swallow your bowl recently" (humorous question) 2. "I recognize you!" "Huh?" "Aren't you the girl who eats three big bowls of rice at the fast food restaurant downstairs in my house?" (Interrogative ridicule) 3. "Why do you go out dressed like this?" "What's wrong with me wearing this?" " You look so damn good dressed like this!” (repetitive opening) 3. Detailed opening remarks When a girl takes a photo and posts it to her friends, she must have something she wants to show through the photo. This requires you to be patient and explore. It may be a newly bought dress, a special pair of earrings, or a newly learned makeup. Finding these details to praise her will make a woman feel that you are very attentive. For example, if a girl looks good in a pleated skirt, her peach-colored eyeshadow matches you well, and her earrings match you well, add 1 point. Never compliment a girl in a false way, for example, you are so beautiful, you are so good-looking, you are a real beauty. It will make a woman feel that you are careless, too hypocritical, and just praising her in a false way. 4. Humorous and teasing opening remarks. Many boys either dare not tease girls, or they tease girls too much and make girls resentful. The teasing should be moderate and must not make the girl feel that you are humiliating her. Here are some examples of joking opening remarks: 1. "I really envy you?" "Envy for what?" "I envy you for knowing me at such a young age." 2. "Don't take medicine when you are sick!" "Why" " I'll feed you." 3. "You look like a famous person from the European Middle Ages." "Who is it?" "A little match girl." 4. “Our childhood sweethearts have been playing together since childhood.” “Who has been playing with you till adulthood?” “Although you play at your house, I play at mine.” 5. Pretend to be an acquaintance to say hello to a strange girl on WeChat , the first thing to consider is to bypass the feeling of strangeness, and first make sure there is no sense of separation between each other. The best way is to pretend to be an acquaintance and assume that you know the person well. For example: 1. "Aren't you afraid of being caught by your boss and having your salary deducted if you play with your mobile phone at work?" 2. "When did you leave Jinan? Jinan is no longer beautiful without you." 3. "You stay up so late because you are waiting for me to say Good night?" 4. "It doesn't matter if the exam is not ideal. The school is divided into 985 and 211, but Internet cafes are all chain, and it is not fun to play wherever you go!" Opening remarks for adding girls to WeChat for the first time 3 1. Humorous opening remarks for girls about humor Boys have a natural affinity. Because chatting with boys like this is very interesting, easy to pass the time, and will also make you feel better. Therefore, few girls will refuse humorous opening remarks. ① Recommended opening remarks ① My phone seems to be possessed, and I can’t stop myself from saying hello to you ② The good-looking ones speak first ③ Is it because I’m shy when I add WeChat and don’t chat? 2. Curious opening remarks. It must be said that curious opening remarks can indeed increase girls’ response rate. The reason is that this type of opening statement can fully arouse a girl's curiosity and force her to eagerly want to know the answer. However, its shortcomings are also obvious. If it cannot arouse girls' curiosity, it will basically be useless. Recommended opening remarks ① I found that we have something in common. You don’t say it, I don’t say it ② Are you free? I want to chat with you one day ③ Can you take a photo with me? I want to prove to my friend that angels are Existence 3. Interest Opening Line When it comes to flirting with girls, it’s important to follow her preferences. If both parties have the same interests and hobbies, they can indeed quickly get closer and make each other have something to talk about. Therefore, the key to the interest opening statement is how to get a girl's interest. Recommended opening remarks ① It turns out you are also a foodie ② Capture a night owl 4. Opening remarks in the circle of friends When we add a girl on WeChat and don’t know how to open the conversation, we might as well try to find the answer from her circle of friends. The opening statement in the circle of friends is to sort out the information in the girl's circle of friends and find suitable content to start the conversation. Its disadvantage is that the girls’ circle of friends is invisible to you, or is only visible for three days, and there is too little information to use.
Recommended opening remarks ① Sorry, I secretly looked at your circle of friends without your permission ② Captured a workaholic ③ It turns out you are a selfie expert