Showing off babies has been around since ancient times.

Showing off your baby is essentially a show off. No matter how you explain it in terms of parents and children, or family ties, in the eyes of others, it is all about showing off a part of you: the ancients showed off their carriages and horses, calligraphy and painting, singers, and jewelry; modern people show off their watches and collections, but they are all similar.

It is very simple to make others not look bad.

For example, if a friend shows off a newly renovated big house to you, many people will think it’s none of my business and won’t let me live there; if you show off a newly purchased game console, you’ll feel happier: But that person has some emotional intelligence. , will invite you to play together.

When showing off, it is important to let others feel involved. Who is Hu Jun? In an interview, he said that Leslie Cheung would take off his watch and give it away when someone praised him. It's something like this.

But of course we can’t give away the child, so we have to think of other ways. For example, every time you show off your baby, ask the child to find a godfather?

This is called being able to speak. First I would praise him, but then I would criticize him and say he was too precocious. It's self-effacing, but he's much smarter than usual when he praises his son.

Su Shi once said in Duan Xuanzi's poem: "I hope that I will give birth to a child who is stupid and ignorant, and will be a minister without disaster." This is a self-deprecating way of making complaints, which is too sharp and reveals his intelligence.

So it is not unreasonable for the ancients to say that their sons were called Quanzi or Chier.

Jia Zheng took Jia Baoyu to write poems in the Grand View Garden, ordering him to write poems and scolding him all the way: evil obstacle! brute! ! Take a peek! ! ! Fork it out! ! ! ! What do you know! ! ! ! !

——This is the relatively correct way to show off your baby. In Chinese culture, you have to know how to laugh at yourself and show off your children, and people won’t be too annoyed by it.

Of course, the best way is this.

In ancient times, people paid homage to their mother in the hall, and their wives and children went out to worship. If you do this, no one will think you are showing off your wife, mother or baby.

Why? The first is to come out to worship. People come out to worship you, not to wait for you to praise them.

The second is rare. In ancient times, letting you meet your wife, mother, and children was an expression of enthusiasm for you. This kind of show-off has a social attribute.

So the ultimate way to show off your baby is: don’t show off at all and make the baby look mysterious and precious. In this way, when it comes to showing off the baby, it will not be annoying, and it will even make people feel rewarded.

For example, if you are trying to make friends with others and seem warm, then you will be cautious and act like a baby, and add a few words:

I usually don’t babysit for others. , we are friends. The child is not very good-looking, but at our age, that’s all we can rely on, right? ”

Such a show-off baby is precious, emotional, and has social functions.

So the correct show-off baby starts from not showing off the baby, and carefully showing off the baby. If you want to get it, Fight first, play hard to get. The ancients have long told us.