Lao Deng and his wife work in the same institution and distribute the difference. Although it is within the system, most of their performance pay is self-raised. In recent years, because of the industry downturn, both of them get a basic salary every month.
Lao Deng is a phoenix man and needs to take care of the young and old. Two years ago, because the old man at home was seriously ill, he not only spent what little savings he had, but also borrowed a lot of foreign debts from relatives and friends. Now my son is in the second grade, and my daughter just went to kindergarten. There are still many places to spend money in the future.
In the past two years, Lao Deng also wants to do something in partnership with others, hoping to increase his income. One is to pay off debts, the other is to accumulate some "capital" for children to study, work and get married in the future. However, he lost everything he did, not only lost everything, but also paid off old debts and added new ones. His family is quite complaining. Life is getting more and more disgraceful.
Lao Deng usually doesn't have many hobbies, but he likes to write. Publish a few short articles in newspapers or magazines from time to time. Therefore, I want to make use of the rise of the media to make my own efforts in this regard. Even if there is no result in the end, it will only take me a little time.
However, in "But Not Poor and White", Lao Deng not only felt great economic pressure, but also was "short of money" in time arrangement. The mountains and seas at work and the chicken feathers in life almost completely divide his personal time.
These days, Lao Deng's lover is still sulking, because he has been "doing nothing" all day, saying that he is busy writing useless things, and criticizing him for not washing and cooking, not letting his children take a bath and not playing with his daughter.
Lao Deng was annoyed, too, and tried to attack several times, but he held back. Don't he think he spends his time creating for the future of his family and children? But on second thought, I have devoted myself to writing for half a year, but I still can't produce any impressive works. That's not the same as fooling around. I'm embarrassed to say it myself.
However, Lao Deng carefully calculated an account. According to the couple's current salary, they really can't afford to raise two children, let alone let them receive better education in the future and provide better protection for their work and marriage ... Therefore, Lao Deng believes that writing is really the last straw to help themselves and their children live a decent life. ...
However, writing is never an immediate thing, and it takes a long time to improve your writing level. And even if you write a good work, you may not have a chance to see the sun. It depends on your luck to achieve it. Many famous writers in history became famous decades or even hundreds of years after their deaths. It's not easy for you to make a living by writing! ?
But it is because it is difficult that persistence is valuable. The realization of any dream, to a certain extent, is due to unremitting efforts, only to have an "unexpected" harvest. In fact, there are still some people who realize their dreams by writing and live a decent life by one or two bestsellers.
So Lao Deng wants to be that person, because he has no more choices. At present, the most important thing is to deal with the time of work, life and writing, even if he doesn't sleep at noon and stays up late at night. It doesn't matter if you eat more bitterness. Life is not bitter, and most happiness is bitter and sweet.
Lao Deng said that he didn't want to be a master, just live with dignity. May you endure hardships and finally live a decent life.
The fate of life is really hard to tell. Sometimes your efforts don't pay off immediately. But if you don't work hard, you will never get anything. The only thing we can do is to do our best for our ideals, and leave the rest to God. That is what we usually say, "Do your best and leave it to fate."
A few years ago, a little girl (let's just call her A) came to our unit for an internship. She works hard and has good ability, which is very popular with her colleagues. A I hope to have the opportunity to stay and work. However, her college degree is a serious injury. You know, at that time, the unit's open recruitment already required a postgraduate degree.
No matter how much you like this job and how hard you work, it won't help. A finally had to leave. She said that if she worked harder in high school, we would feel sorry for her.
Two years later, I accompanied my relatives to a new property to see the house, where I met A and chatted with her to learn that she had obtained a bachelor's degree and was self-taught. The little girl's efforts can be seen.
In addition to praising A's efforts, I jokingly asked her if she was still interested in coming back to work. She said that she would not consider it for the time being, saying that the unit is stable, but it is better to work hard outside, and there is more room for imagination. As long as you work hard enough, you can stand out everywhere and show your personal value everywhere.
I deeply agree with a. Later, I also learned that many friends have become her clients. It can be seen that her performance in selling houses is still good.
A year later, when she saw A's circle of friends, she had jumped ship to an insurance company. All kinds of overtime, business trips, going to the countryside, group building ... in short, I am very busy.
Three years later, I met her in the most expensive and best building. I thought she was selling the house again. Only after asking did she know that she and her boyfriend bought two suites there and just bought a car.
Now A has actually gone to work in a government department in the capital, and people are becoming more and more decent. Her growth over the years has really confirmed a sentence, "The harder you work, the luckier you are."
"I have suffered from not working hard, so I must work hard!" A said so.
Although God will play tricks on you on many occasions, even playing hooligans, what I want to say is that all your efforts will count, but there may not be a return here and now, or it may be that the east is not bright and the west is bright, so all you have to do is work hard enough, irrigate silently first, and then wait for the flowers to bloom.
Recently, everyone is saying that Brother Chuan has become a millionaire. It turned out that he sold his own building10.5 million, which made everyone envious.
Brother Chuan comes from the countryside. Some land resources were sold when he went to the city to work hard in his early years. With his foresight and courage, he borrowed money to buy a piece of land that was not valued by people and built a six-story building. Two years later, a straight street was built in front of his house. Brother Chuan's building suddenly became a hot spot. He kept the upper two floors for himself and rented out all the lower four floors.
Everyone says Brother Chuan is lucky and the darling of the times. Even if he doesn't work for the rest of his life, he doesn't have to worry about food and clothing, just collecting rent. Now wait for the house to appreciate before selling it, so that Brother Chuan can become a millionaire again. Why is God so kind to him?
For others' ridicule, Brother Chuan does not admit or refute, but only responds with his usual calm and indifferent smile, which is both decent and atmospheric. In fact, no one will be decent for no reason, and no one can be happy once and for all.
Brother Chuan bought land in Gai Lou in his early years, but it was very risky, and most of the money was borrowed. It took the whole family five years to save money and pay off the debt and interest. Besides, selling the property now is not the reason why he wants to become a millionaire. It turned out that his wife had uremia A a year ago and had to do hemodialysis twice a week. Brother Chuan wants to give the money for buying a house and changing organs to his lover to alleviate her perennial pain.
It is said that tomorrow and accidents will not come first. Even if you are "lucky" in everyone's eyes, you will inevitably encounter misfortune and hardship in life. But suffering from these blows is not necessarily insulated from happiness. People's reaction under pressure often determines whether they can turn disasters into happiness or just suffer in vain. Brother Chuan is the former, and he is glad of his previous efforts. Otherwise, he can't afford to build this building, nor can he save his lover's life.
We usually only focus on the charm of others. In fact, all decent lives are hard-won. We should not only strive for our ideals, but also cherish what we have now. More importantly, we should be fully prepared for emergencies that may occur at any time, and then deal with them calmly.
Life is often unhappy, but it is no different from the speaker. Life has been full of hardships since ancient times. Only by truly understanding and accepting the fact that life is bitter, will we be relieved and will not suffer for what we have encountered, so as to usher in a new life.
In the Ming Dynasty, when Zheng Dechu was in power, Wang Yangming was beaten to death by the imperial court because of his brave words, and then he was exiled to Zhang Long, Guizhou Province, which was inaccessible and full of miasma. Being hunted and killed along the way, being shipwrecked, wandering in rivers and lakes, and being trampled on, life seems to be desperate.
But all this did not extinguish the bright light in Wang Yangming's heart. He struggled to save himself, realized the road of "unity of knowledge and action" overnight in Longchang, and completed his self-rescue in a desperate situation. Make friends with Miao people, associate with Tusi, and pacify the war disaster; Invited to teach in Guiyang, the once "despair" became a paradise. After eating all the bitterness, he finally became a cow.
There is a saying that is very good, behind all the awesome, there are countless hardships! Su Shi, a great writer, has tasted all the hardships of life, but he can still live with dignity and become an awesome writer, doer, lifer and gourmet. So decency can also have nothing to do with power and money. His song Dingfengbo is a true portrayal of himself, which has been sought after by the world for thousands of years.
"Don't listen to the leaves in the forest, why don't you sing slowly. Bamboo poles and sandals are more dexterous than riding horses. What's to be afraid of? A raincoat and hemp fiber, despite the wind and rain, still live my life. The coolness of spring breeze awakens my wine, and the cold begins to be cold, and the peak of the sun is the sun, but it is satisfied in time. Looking back at the bleak land, rain or shine. "
At the end, "Looking back at the bleak place, rain or shine." This is the crowning touch full of philosophy of life, which tells Su Shi's epiphany and enlightenment from the subtle moment of nature: the wind and rain in nature are ordinary and no different. What is the political situation, honor and disgrace in social life?
May you pursue your dreams, even if the road ahead is full of thorns and life is hard, you should take it for granted. The old story has already told us that before the hero can "live happily ever after", he must also fight the fire-breathing dragon and the insidious magician. ...
I hope we can accept all the arrangements made by Rainbow Yangming and Su Shi. Even though there are all kinds of difficulties and obstacles, those who can't beat us will make us stronger. As long as life is endless, we must struggle. Only in this way can we pursue a better state of existence, live a more decent life and firmly hold the initiative of our destiny in our own hands with a rational detachment.
Finally, I hope that every effort you make will not be owed, that every dream you have will not be disappointed, and that you will come back with dignity after half your life!