This trip is my first time at the age of 30, and it is also a reward for myself.
From 20 15, I began to pay attention to personal growth, and I also set many goals, hundreds of which I forced myself to accomplish every year. At that time, I also made a plan for myself-going to 10 cities every year, which is a reward for completing the plan. Many goals have been achieved in the past two years, and this year's travel plan will basically be achieved.
I will not give myself a gap year like others, nor will I go out as often as others. I look for opportunities more, or take travel as a reward for myself.
From 20/kloc to 0/6, I studied in Shanghai, during which I arranged my time nervously and fully. After class, I put on my sneakers and took my camera to a small place nearby. I can turn around several times at a time. I run in the morning and go for a night outing at night. I feel that this period of time is not so wasted, and it is very healing. At least I think I will still have these memories when I am tired, busy or even bitter.
20 15, Victory Day holiday, although it was only three days, I still went out because I had been preparing for two exams and did some tutoring during that time. I don't rest on weekends, and sometimes I have classes at night. After two or three months, I was very tired. When such a painful and happy process ended, as a reward, I went out on Victory Day, because Victory Day was to win War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression. Then I came to Shanghai, the site of the commemorative meeting of the First National Congress of communist party, China. Victory Day is inseparable from the Communist Party of China (CPC). In this reasonable and grand feeling, I went out. This kind of rest later supported one of the reasons why I didn't go out during the eleventh period. I was not tired of tutoring books every day.
Being able to travel and play is actually an ability. I once read an article by Yin Qing, who said that "playing" is a particularly important ability for a person.
Yin Qing is a famous anchor and psychologist. She said that in fact, many psychologists are very good at playing and love to play. When they meet, study and train together, no matter how tired they are at night, they will get together and play again. "Because from a psychological point of view," playing "is not just playing itself, it also has many psychological meanings-loving" playing "without feeling guilty because of playing is a manifestation of a mature personality."
Love "play" and know how to "play" are the abilities to be happy, to nourish themselves, to take care of themselves and to repair themselves. Aren't these abilities the abilities to love?
This time I went to the grassland, and I went with two excellent friends. One of them had his own career and family at the age of 25, but he always felt that life after marriage was a bit boring. This holiday is to relax and adjust yourself. In fact, this is very correct. She is a well-planned person with a high success rate. She can accomplish everything she wants. But the reason why she is unhappy is that she is too self-disciplined and always thinks about how to grow and progress without wasting time, but she has never thought about what happiness is. She can take play and travel as a reward and reward her efforts to achieve her goals, which will make her move forward more strongly.
There are many living families around. They can not only work, but also play. "I went to Japan in May last year and stayed in Tokyo for a week to experience the craftsman spirit. I got married in June+10 last year, ending my single life and starting a new family life. Then I went to Hong Kong and Fiji, not only diving in the South Pacific to see sharks, but also trying to skydive. Last winter, I learned snowboarding in the snow season, and I dedicated every weekend to the snowfield. In April this year, I participated in a rock climbing course and experienced the confrontation between man and gravity. " This is the state that Mao Juan Tong, a life player, mentioned himself. The key is that his life is diversified, not a single life. In a diversified world, he can travel, do training, do self-media and work without any mistakes. Recently, he also opened a photography course, earning more money than his job.
The same is true of Little Life House. She is always playing, skydiving, skiing, going to Nepal, and crowdfunding to Taiwan Province Province. The goal she sets for herself is to do 65,438+000 interesting things every year, but she can also play tricks and generate value. She cooks food, makes videos, studies photography, works in the media, works in the community and works as a freelancer, but she makes her life a poem.
I still have many friends who go out on weekends, or go outdoors, or go to different cities. In two days, he went to different cities to feel the local customs and experience life.
In fact, playing is also an ability, and playing can also be meaningful.
When you are at work, do your work well and beautifully. When you are at work, your time is the boss's, and you should be worthy of your salary. But during holidays or after work, your time is your own. You can make full use of your time to study, travel and experience.
The important thing is not to race against time. It doesn't mean that the more money you earn, the greater the meaning of life. The real effort is to know what the effort is for. In my opinion, working hard and making money is because we can pay for our dream list and realize our dreams because of working hard and making money. That kind of happiness is enough to compensate for the hard work in the process and will let us move on.
So when you are tired, you can stop and have a rest; You can make adjustments and have fun, as long as it helps you get on the road and continue to move forward happily!