We often hear parents and teachers say, "We should learn to care about other people's feelings." Therefore, in order to have this excellent quality, we often pay attention to the warmth and coldness of others, but forget one thing and learn to care about ourselves.

We are very concerned about whether something we have done will arouse others' resentment; When others ask for something from us, if they refuse, will others hold a grudge in the future, so that they can't even be friends? In order to care for others, we always wronged ourselves. Little did we know that if we go on like this for a long time, we will only get more and more uncomfortable and breathless.

why live to care about others? Before we care about others, we should care about ourselves first, and we can't really care about others until we have wronged ourselves. Learn to care about yourself and do what you really want to do. What should we do if we are unwell and our friends drag us to go shopping? In order not to sweep away other people's interests, I dragged my uncomfortable body, kept my nose and tears running, and pretended to have a happy smile on my face, which proved how happy we were to come out to play together! NO, we should refuse.

The exam is coming. In order to get good grades, we should spend all our time reading. My friend said that he wanted to buy some delicious food at the food stall outside and play badminton on the playground. Hesitantly, my friend said, "Oh, I haven't eaten or exercised for a long time, just once, just this once!" " Alas! Reluctantly, I nodded and put down my pen. The original idea of solving problems flew to the outside, and I ran outside like a friend ... Helpless, I played and didn't finish the book I should read, and the topic of the meeting was delayed. Why didn't the red fork on the test paper make people feel sad? Being ridiculed, the original performance is not very good, this level is normal.

learn to care about yourself! Caring for others is a sail, caring for yourself is a boat. Only by learning to care about yourself, the sail on the advancing boat will wish you a faster progress.