My neighbor Xiao Hu is a knowledgeable person, and he is also very humorous when he speaks. He is very talkative in normal times. When it comes to blind dates, it will arouse your enthusiasm even more. Every girl on a blind date. They are all happy to be his girlfriend, but his vision is particularly high. He only fell in love with his current wife Yanyan when he was 30 years old.
Whenever the neighbors get together to chat. Some people will make fun of Xiao Hu again. How did you deceive such a beautiful little daughter-in-law like your wife Yanyan? Xiao Hu will talk endlessly about his love history. Before I even met Yan Yan, I had already added Yan Yan’s WeChat account through the introducer. In WeChat Moments. Xiao Hu saw that Yanyan particularly liked traveling. I specifically looked for some books about travel. Of course through WeChat Moments. I also know where Yanyan has traveled. I took Yanyan to places where I took photos and traveled. Made some bad corrections in the book. When I officially met Yanyan for a blind date. We started talking about the Forbidden City in Beijing. The Hall of Supreme Harmony is located in the diagonal center of the Forbidden City, with 10 auspicious beasts on each of its four corners. Vivid image, lifelike. The six east and west palaces are integrated into one. Each has its own palace gate and palace wall. Symmetrical to each other and in order. We also talked about the design concept of the Forbidden City. In ancient China, there was an emphasis on the unity of nature and man. He followed this planning concept. It corresponds to the plan of the stars in the sky. This is used to highlight the legality and supremacy of the yellow dog. It was built strictly in accordance with the principles of imperial capital construction: the former dynasty and the latter dynasty. As soon as these words came out. Yanyan especially admires Xiao Hu. Then Xiao Hu started chatting again. The roof of the Forbidden City is made of various glazed tiles. The main stores are mainly in yellow. Green is used for the buildings where the prince lives. Others are blue, purple, black, emerald and malachite green. Five colors of colorful glass including sapphire blue. Mostly used in gardens or on glazed walls. This suddenly shocked Yanyan. Yanyan opened up her chat box... and soon captured Yanyan's heart.
We know from the above blind date chats;
1. Be adaptable and chat about whatever the situation is. Don’t talk about awkward topics.
2. Start with the other person’s interests and hobbies. Learn something about the other person’s interests and hobbies. It can stimulate the other party's desire to talk.
3. Learn some speaking skills. Insert humorous language when appropriate.
4. Arouse the other party's desire to talk and introduce your interests and hobbies in a timely manner, so that the two parties can chat in a particularly harmonious manner.
In short, it should be based on the changes in the other party's expression during the chat. Change the topic according to your interests. Don't do it mechanically. In this way, you can have something to talk about when chatting on a blind date. No silence or embarrassment. The two of them had a very interesting chat.