< Let go >

Farmers in a certain place in the south like to catch monkeys. Monkeys are alert, but these farmers have a unique trick. They tie an empty coconut to a tree, and then dig a small hole in the coconut to put some delicious food such as peanut candy cookies in it. The small hole is only enough for monkeys to reach in empty-handed, but if they hold on to something, they can't take it out. In this way, farmers catch many monkeys who are unwilling to give up.

In life, isn't there someone who, like those monkeys, can't see the situation at the right moment, doesn't know how to let go, and still clings to what he thinks is the most precious when danger approaches quietly, only to be bound by it and captured by it?

A woman fell madly in love with a man. A year later, the man got tired of this relationship and broke up with her, but the woman refused to live or die. She cried and hanged herself with all kinds of weapons that women could use, and the man was still determined to leave her. Women are unwilling to accept men's contemptuous eyes and vicious words, and fantasize that one day men will come to their senses. However, women can't win back men's hearts except a heart with trampled dignity, and women are finally depressed and insane.

This kind of love has become a kind of paranoia and hysteria. Mencius and Ceng Yun, you can't have your cake and eat it. People always have to learn to choose what they need. Learn to let go at the right time, and there will be no such ending as the monkey and the woman.

learn to let go, which is an attitude of relief. In the face of career choice, marriage, family, etc., we often think in a fixed way, like a drowning man catching the last straw, and cling to it. In fact, sometimes what we cling to may not be an indispensable treasure in life.

There is a saying that when one window closes, another will open for you. But how many people took the initiative to close this first window? The scenery outside the window may be beautiful, and there may be bright sunshine to warm you, but it may also let the storm and haze invade. Learn to decide, learn to let go, when you can't afford it. Choose to close this window, find a new window and welcome the new dawn. Because people's obsession sometimes hurts others and makes them suffer.

Letting go doesn't mean losing, but adding a space to choose from. Letting go doesn't mean pulling away, just knowing that we can't control some things. Letting go is to admit that you can't do something, and whether things are successful or not is sometimes out of our control. Letting go is to realize that everything can't be satisfactory, respect the fait accompli and cherish the present.

to let go is to base ourselves on today and start from scratch, leaving regrets to yesterday and hopes to tomorrow. Letting go is not easier than persistence. It requires courage to face hard choices, wisdom to weigh gains and losses, and instant decision to choose.

letting go is a choice, not giving up; Optimism, not pessimism; Is to be less afraid of life and more loving; It's a turning point in the road of life. Get rid of unnecessary burdens and go into battle lightly.

we must learn to let go.

Learn to let go

There are some things in life that can't be grasped any more. If you let go, you will be free and free from pain.

when people are born, most of them are holding small fists. When people are emotional or afraid, they often unconsciously hold their hands into fists. It seems that only by grasping something subconsciously can they relieve their inner tension and anxiety, as if they had come to this world for nothing.

In today's world, there are all kinds of material desires, temptations and troubles. I often hear people sigh: "I am so tired!" The ancients said, "Take a step back and the sky is wide." I understand that to take a step back is to let go. Letting go doesn't just mean failure, but the wisest thing to do when you are tired of those hopeless wishes and undeserved satisfaction.

Some people are involved in Vanity Fair. Instead of being an official aboveboard, they always think that their hands are not enough and not long enough. They have to stretch out the hands they shouldn't, and they have to collect the money they shouldn't. What if they try their best to grab seats and tickets by hook or by crook? The soul has become a slave to fame and fortune. In fact, from birth to death, people should "come and go naked without care." Fame and fortune don't bring death, so why bother worrying about it? What lasts for a long time is the artistic conception when people live and a well-deserved death. Compared with fame and fortune, it is fame and fortune that is buried in the dust first and decayed into dust.

Although people who value their feelings are valuable, if they really cling to a relationship that has vanished, they will certainly struggle and cannot save themselves. Even if the fruitless flowers are gorgeous for a while, they will eventually fall, and only the empty branches can't bear to touch the wine, which will only increase the sadness. In the past, I once appreciated the phrase "pain is also a kind of enjoyment", but what kind of helpless pain it is. When the past is gone and the heart is difficult, it is still ugly to have no words and tears. Love, which is the rain that nourishes life, should come naturally and go in a drizzly way. Clinging to death will definitely turn into a flood of cement that floods the neck, and it has already been very uncomfortable to breathe. What's the use of grasping it with such feelings? Letting go in time is better than leaving when the heart is "enjoyed" by pain. Let go when it's time to let go.

don't just cling to yesterday's memories and refuse to let go, wallow in them all day, erode your limited life in them, and look for the bright spots and glory in them to get a little comfort. Let go of memories, that is, let go of the heavy burden, in order to get out of the past, people who are struggling to stay in the dusk are fools! Life always goes on, and the liveliest thing is the splendor that we are looking forward to. As long as there is breath in life, tomorrow is always the most attractive.

You should learn to let go in life. From then on, you will swing the reins and ride the horse, and your feet will fall, and your heart will be clean and your body will be light. What you will see is another broader world!