1. If one person is full, the whole family will not be hungry. Eat a good meal every night. Put aside the fatigue of the day, have a good meal and reward yourself. No one loves her, so it would be a good choice for her to reward herself. Therefore, it is most appropriate to reward yourself with food, without putting in a lot of effort or spending too much money. Of course, she doesn't care how much she spends, because she has no living burden. When one person is full, the whole family is full. Generally speaking, single women have visited the surrounding gourmet restaurants and know the taste and price very well. Occasionally, I will make some delicious food by myself, but eating alone is very lonely and has no atmosphere. Go to a gourmet restaurant, at least it will be more lively. 2. She often watches Korean dramas and variety shows, and she is the best at following dramas. At night, watching TV alone at home, or watching TV on your mobile phone, is a good choice. No matter how late she saw it, no one rushed her. It doesn't matter if your phone gets hot and you don't put it down. You can even look at it while charging. She will pay attention to the TV program previews and know which day and time she can watch the TV. Of course, she often goes to the cinema to catch up on the latest movies. Even if there is no one to watch the movie with, the movie is very lively and the atmosphere is very good. In fact, when watching Korean dramas or movies, her heart feels quiet, because at this moment she does not think about all kinds of things, but focuses on the plot, very immersed in it, without any distractions. 3. Turn on your phone and chat with others on WeChat. You can chat with people you know or don’t know. When you are bored, chat with others on WeChat and speak in some groups. Among the classmates, she chatted most enthusiastically and could chat with anyone for a long time. If you meet someone you can chat with, you can turn it into a private chat, and maybe it can develop into online dating. If two people are chatting and find that they are not suitable, then just block the other person, since they are not very familiar with each other anyway. "Chat on WeChat with the same friend of the opposite sex every day, and you will fall in love with him." This sentence is really useful for single women. If she is used to chatting with someone and doesn't chat with him for two days, she will have random thoughts. Chatting is also a habit, and it can also become a source of emotional sustenance. 4. Post in your circle of friends and find some sense of existence. When you are bored, you can just browse online information or listen to music. If you encounter a good song, send it to your circle of friends and recommend it to everyone; when you see some If you have any weird news, forward it to your circle of friends and share it with everyone. Sometimes, she would also post photos of her daily life to let relatives and friends pay attention to her living conditions. If she has low self-esteem, then close her WeChat Moments, post her own WeChat Moments, show them to herself, and record her daily life. Of course, most of the time, you want others to pay attention to you and make your circle of friends more lively. 5. She also wants to fall in love, but there is no suitable partner. When she is bored, she will also dream about her future boyfriend and imagine how beautiful the moment they meet will be. Even if it was an illusion, she was still looking forward to it. She would also think of her parents urging her to get married, and feel that she had really done something wrong, and she felt a little guilty. Sometimes, I say to myself: "Where is my Prince Charming?" Women's imagination is always richer and more delicate than men's. If she had been in love before, she would have thought of it, and hundreds of emotions, beautiful and sad, would have flooded her heart. It's just that she thinks a lot and won't tell anyone. No one really understands her anyway. 6. Dress very casually, and no one will appreciate it anyway. On a night alone, it doesn’t matter how you dress up. Just take off your makeup and look bare-faced. Wear whatever you want, it doesn't matter if the clothes and pants don't match. The pajamas are very old, even torn, but you can still wear them as long as they are comfortable. No one will look at them or make irresponsible remarks. Women, dressing up is for others to see, not for yourself. If you don't meet anyone who appreciates it, then you won't bother to dress up, which is a waste of time and energy. A married woman, or a woman in love, is different. She hopes to dress beautifully all the time, to show her beautiful side, and to be praised by people around her. 7. She also calls her best friend, but she is often "disappointed". A woman who has been single for a long time sometimes has a lot of things on her mind and wants to talk to someone, so she thinks of her best friend. Just when she called her best friend, she said, "What's going on? I'm taking care of the kids. If you have anything to say, tell me, I'm cooking." Her best friend's words didn't mean to ridicule her, but she discovered that she was unmarried. My best friend is already married, so we are no longer friends. She can't help but compare herself with her best friends to see how other people's lives are and how her own life is. It's annoying to compare people to each other. It turns out that she, who is single, is really far behind others. The feeling of disappointment has been buried deep in my heart, and it is difficult to tell anyone. 8. Sometimes I sleep very late because I can’t sleep. I sleep very late at night alone. Sometimes, watching TV or playing with mobile phones, it’s late at night without paying attention. My eyelids were fighting, so I had to sleep. Some people feel sorry for a woman who says "good night" before going to bed, but she doesn't receive "good night" and doesn't know who she should be dreaming about. Perhaps, a person sleeps soundly because he has no dreams all night. Perhaps, a person can't sleep because he is a little lonely. Haruki Murakami wrote in "Norwegian Forest": "There are people who like loneliness, but they just don't like disappointment.

"We always refer to single people as "single aristocrats", but women who have been single for a long time are really not aristocrats, they just haven't found the right person. Even a woman who no longer believes in love, if she meets someone she truly loves, If she is a good person, she will still believe in love. What is the life of a single woman? 2. What is the top charm of a woman? It can be said that the top charm of a woman is no matter whether she is single or married, please never lose it. The ability to control her own life. With the power of being single, she can get stronger and stronger in the face of adversity. She can do what she should do behind closed doors despite the storm outside. The most important thing is that she can always have a clean heart. God will bless her life! There is a topic on Zhihu: Is it really miserable for a woman who is not married at 30 years old? 30 years old is a sensitive age for women. Women who do not get married at the age of 30 are called "leftover women". Most people in this society ridicule "What will happen to women who are not married after 30 when they get older?" However, modern women still confidently say, "I think. 30 years old is the best time for a woman, and life has just begun." Seeing the highly discussed topics: I finally bought my own house through my own efforts. The view from the balcony is particularly good, and the bedroom is spacious and comfortable. The surrounding environment is also great; I have solitude, space, music, photography, fitness, reading, growing flowers, no publicity, no crowds, no gossip; it is inevitable to get married as you get older, but there is no pressure... Years For a woman who is over 30 years old but not yet married, this answer is a bit unexpected, but very true. She must be financially independent, be independent in her thoughts, and not be too dependent on men emotionally, nor be too demanding, nor torture herself. , do not consume the other person, do not entangle, and do not entangle. A kind-hearted woman can often live her life as a beam of light, illuminating herself and others. In short, such an independent and outstanding girl can succeed through her own efforts. It’s really beautiful! Both men and women should have the ability to be independent. When we are young, we rely on our parents. When we grow up, we raise our children. When we get older, one person will always take the first step. At this time, women should have the ability to be single. Because you have no one to rely on, you must be self-reliant. It is better to rely on yourself than to rely on your children. No matter how old you are, whether you are married or not, you can live a prosperous life. Not only single, but also married women. It is even more important to have the ability to be single, because this is a state of independence in body, mind and soul. For women, in the emotional world full of variables, being beautiful is an advantage and living a beautiful life is independent and confident. Put your happiness on others. Life is yours, so why rely on others to get satisfaction? Let’s take a look at the "Milk Tea Sister" Zhang Zetian. She is less innocent than before and has a more mature and confident intellectual beauty! My sister is also frustrated with Mr. Liu. At the beginning, everything will be wonderful, but when it ends, let it go. There is no need to worry about it anymore. Careful netizens will find that Zhang Zetian is a smart person and takes more seriously. is Liu Qiangdong’s platform. Otherwise, you have to work hard on your own, appear alone in various public places, and strive for more creative opportunities for yourself. It is reported that due to internal needs and external rumors, Zhang Zetian went to the University of Cambridge alone to study for an MBA. Gold shines wherever it goes. We have seen Zhang Zetian’s vigorous and resolute actions when she puts her focus on her career, and she devotes all her energy to learning. After Zhang Zetian experienced a setback, she became mature and steady and became a strong business woman! When a woman starts to care about you, she no longer wants anything from you, she no longer relies on you financially, and she no longer relies on you mentally. When you are taking care of your children alone and working hard at the same time, you should realize that you are not far away. Many people think that Milk Tea Sister relies on Liu Qiangdong. In fact, after looking at her experience, she is by no means an ordinary little girl who just wants to marry into a rich family based on her beauty, but a model of a successful woman with very clear goals, beauty and wisdom. . Therefore, when a woman remains independent, she can hold her head up in front of men, attack and defend without being restrained or influenced by others. The so-called power of being single is nothing more than this: when someone asks me whether the porridge is warm, I can work hard to love; when no one is with me at dusk, I can also live my life into poetry. Only you can live well. If you bloom, the breeze will come. Being diligent in managing yourself will always be better than trying to control others. Many times, life is in a mess, not because of being single, but because of a lack of single power. A favorite saying: "It is better to live a beautiful life than to look beautiful. A woman without the ability to be single can only be left with sadness."

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