Now women's social status is getting higher and higher. In ancient times, women were husbands and godsons at home. Now you look around, almost all women are shopping smartly, and men are working hard to move things. Moreover, whether on campus or in society, it is much more common for men to pursue women than for women to pursue men. But in fact, many women are just bullish when they are in love, and they are still timid after marriage, mainly for the following three reasons.

0 1. Ms. Zhang was 29 years old and had a job before marriage. After marriage, she became a full-time wife and had no family status.

My husband and I have been married for three years. My husband and I met in college. At that time, he chased me very hard, bought me flowers and gave me small gifts. I chased him for half a year before agreeing. After we were together, he held me in his hand like a baby and did everything I was told. I thought I would live a happy life like a princess. However, after marriage, our relationship seems to have changed dramatically. Choosing to be a full-time wife after marriage, my husband's temper is getting bigger and bigger. Every day after work, he orders me to pour water and pinch my feet. In the final analysis, I still have no economic ability, so I will always suffer indignities.

For women, if they do not have their own independent economic ability, it is difficult to have the right to speak. After all, the social and economic foundation determines the superstructure. Men usually think so. I am exhausted every day, and my family's economy also contributes. What's wrong with going home and letting my wife wait on me? But women often think that when you are in love, you are so kind to me, and when you get married, you will be uncomfortable, so quarreling is inevitable.

02. Ms. Feng has a circle of friends before marriage at the age of 30, and can only take care of her children every day after marriage.

I was a very beautiful woman before I got married. My monthly salary is 7000 yuan. I live in my parents' house, so I don't have to pay rent. I'm a moonlight clan, too. I spend a lot of money on eating, drinking and having fun every month, and sometimes I find a free time to travel. I often bask in some delicious food and tourist scenery in my circle of friends, which attracts the praise and envy of my friends. But after marriage, especially after having children, I have become? Child slave? Not only did he quit his job, but almost all his energy was devoted to his children. Sometimes he is too tired to stand up, let alone make friends. My friend said I used to be fashionable. Did I? Die? .

As the saying goes, a woman before marriage is a princess, and a woman after marriage is a maid. After marriage, because of gender disadvantage and natural maternal love, women will focus most of their energy on family and children, so naturally they are not as comfortable as before marriage.

Ms. He, who is 03.33 years old, still has time to dress herself up before marriage. After getting married, she began to care about her appearance.

Last week, I was going out to buy food, and I happened to meet a female college classmate on the way. That female classmate looked me up and down, looked at me with an incredible look and said, Sister He, how did you become like this now? Say something unpleasant, as if you were five years older. ? I have no choice but to smile: I am not like you. I'm not married. I live a carefree life every day. Play whatever you want, whatever you want. When I was in college, I used to spend more than two hours making up every day. Now I have to take care of my children when I go home, and my husband has to wait on him after work, so I have no time to make up. It's normal to be old. ?

For women, their teens and twenties are the most precious youth time, because at this time, women are not only at the peak in appearance and figure, but also have a lot of free time at their disposal. However, after marriage, most women will return to their families, staying at home almost all the time and having no time and energy to dress up, which is also an important reason why women are completely separated after marriage.

The reason why many women are bullish before marriage and timid after marriage is nothing more than the above three reasons. In fact, women can be bullish before marriage, and even more so after marriage. As long as they don't give up their jobs, their circle of friends and their love for themselves, they can still be independent and confident beauties when they get married. They are afraid of a small pattern and a small vision, and will only focus on their husbands and children.