Dear WeChat group owner: Hello! I am fortunate to be a member of this group. It was the group leader’s appeal that brought together the handsome men and beauties of the time, businessmen Jia Xianda, and established a WeChat group. There were hundreds of people, and the exchanges in the group were lively and lively.
?The original intention of the group leader to establish the group is unforgettable, so that the brothers and sisters who have been laid off and unemployed for more than 20 years can have a place to talk and chat, so that everyone can keep up with the rhythm of the Internet era and sing A triumphant song of youthful vitality back then. When we meet again twenty years later, it makes people reminisce and remember us. The confusion, hesitation, pain and struggle we once experienced seem to be vivid in our minds, but we still grow and move forward together with the Republic of China. Moving on, are you still the handsome and upright young man you were? Are you still the pretty girl with beautiful face and beautiful face?
When I opened the WeChat group, I was attracted by the lively atmosphere. There were Master Zhang chatting with Master Li, Sister Hu asking Sister Chen how she was doing at work, and old superiors caring about their colleagues. Blessings and greetings are heard endlessly, making people feel like a spring breeze. Family is better than family.
? Everyone in the group is open to speaking freely. Maybe some people like to leave you messages in their own way, using local accents and Mandarin, letting the tide of longing blur their eyes; maybe some people like to upload a few photos that show off their individuality. Take selfies and show off your personal happiness index; maybe some people like to sing a Peking Opera a cappella to reminisce about their youthful and frivolous self.
But there are also a little bit of discordant voices, clamoring for the embarrassment of "rural popularization", and even a picture of a landscape has become a topic of discussion about right and wrong. These can't help but make people think that the conflict of online violent language is killing its original temperature all the time. It is always eroding our healthy body and penetrating every inch of our skin. This not only reminds me of Mr. Yang Jiang's quotation: " We once longed for the ups and downs of destiny, but in the end we discovered that the most beautiful scenery in life is the inner calmness and calmness. We once looked forward to the recognition of the outside world, but in the end we realized that the world belongs to us and has nothing to do with others. "
? Maybe many people appear to have unlimited glory on the surface, but behind the scenes they are immersed in extremely sad melancholy. Didn’t the famous singer Leslie Cheung suffer from depression and commit suicide by jumping off a building? Did the 28-year-old artist Qiao Renliang commit suicide due to depression? Maybe the true nature of our lives is made up of countless little things, and I may be that guy who hides from others and is secretly melancholy. I wonder why some people live in high-rise buildings, drive luxury cars, or hide their beautiful women in golden houses, while I He still lived in a bungalow and lived in a shabby house on foot instead of a car, dressed in commoners and blue shirts, supported by a poor wife, and even wandered around for a living, just being a marginalized person in the prosperous city. ?
?Because we have experienced a different life path from many people and seen many different scenery from others. This also reminds me of the handsome boys and girls who died young, Xiao Lin, You Ping, Qiu Yue, Qiu Hong, and the young talented factory deputy Yang. And we were so lucky that we did not fall into the hungry plight of the year. Here, I have not been swallowed up by the increasingly polluted environment, nor have I been drowned in the saliva of the world, but I am still strong in my heart, filling the small universe, and becoming a cross-border leader.
Colleagues and old friends who have been separated for twenty years have no reason to speak rudely in the group, let alone slander and ridicule each other. We must not only live healthily in a rich material world, but also live healthily in an elegant environment. in the spiritual world.
This also reminds people of Lin Miaoke, the little girl who sang songs at the opening and closing ceremonies of the 2008 Beijing Olympics. Some people maliciously attacked her on the Internet as "lip-syncing". Some people even used defamatory and obscene language to curse an underage child. Lin Miaoke's mother posted the following on Sina Weibo: "I came here to settle down, so I should be protected by Sina. Speech that is harmful to people's physical and mental health." He should be eradicated, he should not be allowed to exist on the Internet, and he should not be allowed to pollute the air on the Internet. You can do it on Sina." Later, it was forwarded by Kaifu Lee. Kaifu Lee is a big Internet celebrity. Isn’t this the doctoral supervisor mentioned by his grandson who studied in the United States? Is he also the idol worshiped by his niece studying in France? And the daughter of my family is just an undergraduate with a college degree. This reminds me of a couplet from Lingyin Temple in Hangzhou: How can life be so satisfying? Everything is only half-satisfied, and contentment is always happy. Let us have a normal heart and sit back and watch the flowers blossom and fade.
But at our age, mentality is the foundation for life-saving. You can enjoy your life with your grandchildren, you can cultivate your mind and character by raising flowers and grass, you can renew your poems and books with martial arts and ink. You can keep fit, believe in Buddhism and do good deeds, and you can even continue to work hard in the workplace and compose a new dusk prelude! Maybe you have some dissatisfaction, but you still have to live a good life, do it and cherish it. There is no need to live in the shadow of others, and there is no need to be sad about certain things. There are a thousand kinds of lives for a thousand kinds of people. There are a thousand kinds of wonderful life, why bother to stick to one way and one style? Why bother to cater to other people's tastes and look at other people's eyes? ?
I think: Be myself and continue to be a strong self. I am happy, happy and healthy! I am gratified to be able to share work opportunities and talk about work experiences with young people born in the 80s and 90s; I am even more gratified that working hard in the workplace has given us richer life experiences and feelings accumulated over time.
? I am proud that I am in line with the high-tech era. With the touch of a finger, delicious food will be delivered to your door to satisfy your hunger. With the touch of a keyboard, you can have a panoramic view of the changing world.
?I am proud because I grew up in this country that is undergoing reform and rejuvenation. The five thousand years of splendid culture of the Chinese nation has accompanied me through every stage of my life, even in my twilight years. ?
? I hope that the group owner will take advantage of the Internet platform to organize group members to go out for travel and vacation. They can climb mountains, gaze at the moon, swim in the sea, walk in the fields, reminisce about the past, and write poems and poems. How far is the distance from us...
?May the years be peaceful and peaceful as before, and be a civilized person who is sensible and polite.
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2018, 8, 19