How to catch up with the boy you like

How to catch up with the boy you like requires skill, and there are many different ways for us in different ways, and the pursuit has many meanings. So here is how to catch up with the boy you like. How to catch up with the boy you like 1

How to catch up with the boy you like

1. Show the charm of women

Create your external image, improve your connotation and emotional intelligence, show it in time and release your sexual attraction. Make him like you, and you act like you don't like him.

Then he will constantly determine your good feelings for him in the process of exploration. With the continuous investment of energy, he will get deeper and deeper, and finally love you.

2. Understand his situation

First of all, understand his family and life, starting with his family education, his parents, and then his friends and colleagues around him. Then ask about his hobbies and what he usually likes to do. If you want to chase a boy, you must first approach him from his hobbies, so that he won't think you are fake.

If you are already friends or have a close relationship, start with him finding more topics that he is likely to know, starting from his inner defense line, slowly let him have a good impression on you, and let him want to chat with you, and then euphemistically express his favorite feelings in the subsequent communication. If you don't know each other, approach him slowly through your friends or his friends, so as to enhance your familiarity. Finally, slowly develop towards your friends. Remember, you can't rush for success, and it's easier to lose his goodwill towards you.

3. Buy a small gift and spend more time with him and care about him.

When you walk slowly together, you can buy him a small gift once in a while, such as a razor, a belt and a scarf. Make him feel that you don't treat him like a meal ticket. At the same time, if your temper is not very good, try to converge and occasionally lose your temper, but pay attention to the occasion and be sure to give the boys face. Even if the boy you catch up with, some ways of doing things or living are no longer right, you can't be a crowd and criticize your boyfriend. If you are dissatisfied, you can communicate privately. Pay attention to the occasion and save face with a boy.

When your boy is sick or in a bad mood, you should take time out to spend more time with him. Make him feel warm and someone cares about him. It's been a long time, and he can't leave you. Attention, tolerance and forbearance are mutual. Don't let boys tolerate you blindly. When he underestimates, you should spend more time with him and encourage him. I believe you will go further. How to catch up with the boy you like 2

Do you know the routine of chasing boys? Love is one of the sweetest and most complicated emotions in human feelings. The most beautiful stage of love is when two people are ambiguous and want to talk. However, not every ambiguous paragraph can successfully develop into a romantic love in the end.

sometimes the relationship between you has come to an end without waiting until the last critical moment. Therefore, for the sake of everyone's beautiful love and happiness, in today's article, the teacher will tell you how to avoid the misunderstanding of love, use the correct love skills, and get happiness faster and better on the road of developing love with boys. (Don't worry, take your time, the focus will be later)

First of all, make a simple self-introduction: Hello, everyone, I am Zhang Zhe, a beloved team, who has been focusing on the emotional education industry for eight years, and there are more than 3 emotional counselors with psychological counselor qualification certificates. Mainly solve four emotional problems for friends: saving boyfriends, attacking true love, long-distance love, and how to chat, and teach you to save and catch up with boys you like through actual combat to get true love.

If your emotional intelligence is low, you can't chat and often can't find a topic; If you like boys, but don't know how to pursue them? Then please click Add Tutor (click and copy the tutor number, and add it in the search), and send me your current problem confusion at once, and I will directly help you analyze the situation and solve the problem! At the same time, my circle of friends also has a lot of chat skills and confession skills, which can be combined with learning.

Maybe you have been wondering why your relationship with him has never progressed smoothly despite your efforts. In fact, the root cause is that you have gone into some misunderstandings when you get along with boys. Next, let's talk to you about what you shouldn't go into:

Some fairies think that to have a love affair with a boy, it is necessary to "get on well with him" first. It is said that the first step in falling in love is to be friends with each other. But being friends doesn't mean that you are "brothers" and "sisters" with each other. If you want to have the possibility of development with each other, then remember to take care of your relationship with each other.

You know, a boy won't fall in love with a female creature named "buddy" around him, because doing so will cause their inner discomfort. If you introduce the relationship between you into the misunderstanding of friendship from the beginning, it will be difficult to reverse it later. The correct way should be to keep some distance and mystery while being friends.

A big difference between a good friend and a girlfriend is that a good friend goes on an appointment, but a girlfriend may not go on an appointment. You've become brotherly friends? It doesn't matter, there are ways to save it! You can guide him to pay for you, and it is different from the brother's righteous type.

the key point is that the motivation for him to help you is out of protection rather than loyalty. I have 3 tips for him to help you a little. Add me, reply to the keyword "guide to pay" and I will send you the information for free!

In love, if two people are strong, especially the girlfriend is stronger, it will give birth to a sense of oppression, and he will feel depressed all day and have no man's courage. For example, some women always investigate the whereabouts of their boyfriends. Where did you go today? With whom? How did you get there? What did you do? Why didn't you take me? A series of questions will drive boys crazy.

Boys are both controlling and conquering. Most of a man's sense of achievement comes from women. When he catches up with you, he will feel successful. But if the girl's momentum completely overwhelmed the boy, would you become a lover with such a girl if it were you? Boys always say they like girls without makeup, but they actually like girls with makeup and beauty. Boys always say that simple girls who like to dress up are actually girls who like to look good in body and clothes. So girls, don't be fooled by their words. Girls dress up not only to please men, but also to please themselves.

if you dress neatly, you will feel very sunny. If the girl looks too sloppy, not only the boys don't like it, but even the girls don't like it, don't they? Girls, if you are determined to make a change, you can click Add Tutor (click and copy the Tutor number, and add it in search), and we will help you carry out professional transformation and make you look brand-new in front of him!

After understanding the misunderstanding, the girls should try to avoid it in their future interaction with boys. Then, what the teacher is going to talk about is how girls can chat with boys with high emotional intelligence: foot in the door effect: First, make a small request, and then once people agree to the small request, it is difficult to refuse the latter request. Start with small requests and put forward higher requests in stages.

For example, it seems strange that we want to invite each other to dinner and a movie at first, so we can make a small request first. You can ask him to help solve a small problem first, or have a cup of coffee on the way together. After drinking a few small coffees, try to invite each other to lunch, and then you can go to the movies.

Of course, in this process, we have to choose something that really needs his help, or something that is relatively small. Of course, we also need to prepare some topics in advance during the dating chat. Don't make others feel uncomfortable in this process, then foot in the door effect's next request will probably not be able to come out.

If the girls really don't know what kind of "small favor" to ask for help from each other, or what to talk to each other when they meet, the teacher has prepared the Secret of Universal Chatting Topics for you. Click to add a tutor (click and copy the tutor number and add it in the search) and you can get it for free.

the so-called compliment is to give the other person recognition. Only when he is recognized and respected, will he be more comfortable, relaxed, trust you more, have more desire to express himself, and be more and more willing to open his heart to you. For example, foot in the door effect mentioned in the previous article, when the other party gives help to your request, you can compliment him at the same time as you invite him. You can say, "Wow, you are really good, and many people I know can't!" It seems that I have to ask you more in the future! "

For another example, if he gives you something about popular science, you can say, "You know a lot. It turns out that there is such a big article in it. Please tell me about it again when you are free. It's really interesting." Or if you go out to play, when, where and what to do are all his suggestions, then you must express your gratitude at the end.

You can say, "That store is really good. It's not only delicious, but also has a great atmosphere. How did you find it? Thank you very much today. I really haven't had such a good time for a long time. " No matter what the situation is, the other person needs a sense of accomplishment and identity, especially after your praise, which is enough to prove that all he has done is meaningful and his efforts have not been in vain.

On the other hand, when he praises you, you should skillfully reflect the praise on his body, respond sweetly with a "how kind of you" or "I didn't expect you to remember it in your heart, so happy", and show him with a bright smile that you enjoy and care about his praise.

Both girls and boys will readily accept compliments from others. If girls don't know how to use compliments naturally in chatting with boys, you can seek guidance or help from professional teachers to speed up the progress of your relationship with boys. Click Add Tutor (click and copy the tutor number and add it in the search), tell the tutor your confusion, and the tutor will teach you how to do it.

compared with perfect people, people with weaknesses are more likable. Everyone will have the idea that those girls who are good-looking, capable, beautiful and in good shape are as perfect as the goddess, just beyond reach. Perhaps many people will admire such a girl, but they always feel that such a goddess lacks a little fireworks, which makes people feel inaccessible.

In contrast, those girls who are not so good, but are kind to others and occasionally expose some small shortcomings, will be more attractive.

Therefore, occasionally exposing your small shortcomings will bring you closer to each other. For example, send a sentence in a circle of friends: I couldn't control myself again today, and I had a big meal with my colleagues. Today's weight loss plan fell through again. Run 5km tomorrow! (With a picture of delicious food) Such a circle of friends will occasionally make you look more human in the circle of friends, and it will also make people feel that you have a good personality and are easy to get along with.

The ability to get along and chat can be constantly learned and exercised. If you want to know more about how to get along and chat with each other, click Add Tutor (click and copy the tutor number and add it in search), and send "Get along and chat skills", and the tutor will send you all the most complete tips!

At the same time, if you have other problems in getting along with boys, you can also ask your tutor for help in class, and the tutor will carefully analyze and give you the most accurate guidance.

Sister, if you can see this from the beginning, then Zhang Zhe believes that you must be the kind of person who wants to change the status quo and improve your love level quickly. Maybe you can't stand chatting with boys all the time. Maybe you don't want to go out and date boys without results. Maybe you want to improve yourself and make yourself better. These questions may be difficult for you who have no love experience.

But Zhang Zhe is very responsible to tell you that everything is not a problem. What matters is whether you meet the following three conditions:

1. You must make up your mind to change yourself and make yourself better

2. You are willing to invest in yourself, instead of pandering to men

3. You can cooperate with consultants, have execution ability and action motivation, instead of just saying that you can't do it.

It's actually a very simple thing to associate with boys. Why? Because as long as you are a normal person and have the ability to learn, then you can chat; You just need to learn love skills, learn to associate with boys, improve your emotional intelligence and improve your love ability.

Some sisters will also have such doubts. Is it okay that their financial ability is not very good? Is it okay to be ugly? Here, Zhang Zhe tells you that as long as you have a normal income and are willing to invest in yourself, that is, you are willing to use the money to invest in yourself, it is OK.

only lazy women, no ugly women. Don't always make excuses for yourself. In fact, as long as you can master the methods and make up your mind to study, you can still get the results you want.

after all, chatting with boys is not difficult. As long as you use the right chat method, learn the skills of getting along with boys, and add the guidance and operation of the tutor, then success is not far away. In fact, sisters, it is not difficult to get along with men, whether chatting or dating! As long as you master the right method and have a professional tutor to help you, then you can do whatever you want.

Don't worry about you chatting with boys, who suddenly ignore you; Don't know how to reply; I don't know where to play when I go out on a date with boys; And you don't know how to upgrade your relationship with boys, because you haven't studied systematically at all. Sisters, finally, Zhang Zhe asked, do you want to study? Want to change? If you confirm that you want to change, and want to improve your chatting level and love level, then follow Zhang Zhe's mentor to change!

Do you know the routine of chasing boys? If you are willing to invest in yourself, want to change yourself through learning, and want to take off your order as easily as my tens of thousands of students, and pursue a boy you like, then get a tutor directly, consult with your tutor one-on-one, and tell your tutor about your emotional problems. The tutor will help you with detailed analysis and guidance! Tutor Zhang Zhe will give you an all-round emotional analysis, recommend suitable courses for you, and teach you to be with your favorite man through chatting, catch up with your favorite male god, and solve your emotional problems quickly. I'm Zhang Zhe's tutor, including me.