1. Attraction is obvious but also important. Smart women will not only be good to men, but also to themselves, so that they can always be at their best. A man is proud of his woman. Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. As long as you think she is beautiful, she is beautiful. 2. Respect This is very important. Your partner should respect you. In public and in front of your family and friends, you will not be ashamed. If you have any problems, wait until you are private. If she respects you, she will behave appropriately on most occasions. 3. No control. Don't be with people who force you to give up what you like best. A good partner will recognize the differences in preferences between men and women and make you comfortable to be yourself. 4. She makes you better. A great woman or wife will make her husband better. Of course, she doesn't need to say it. If one day you feel that the way you treat your family has become better and your financial ability has improved, think about the driving force of these changes, which may be love. 5, independence No man wants to be a woman's nanny. If you just lean on his shoulder when you are sad, he will definitely be willing; But if you can't do anything without him, it will make him want to run away. How to make your lover love you more? 2. Always be tender as water. No man can escape from a woman's tender arms. But don't just be gentle. When he is very good, you must tell him what you have recently, or ask for it at this moment if you need anything recently. In this way, a man will never refuse. Tell him that you want to eat ice cream ... But you should also remember to go to his study to pour him a cup of hot tea and send him a bowl of noodles and a poached egg when he works overtime, which is more effective than any housework you do. There are a few good dishes to learn for him. What I want to say here is no ordinary food. You may not cook tomato and egg soup, but you must cook braised pork that your husband likes. You don't need to cook delicacies, but you must cook several home-cooked dishes that your husband likes. In this way, when he goes out, he will say that this is not as good as my wife's, and he will want to come back to you as soon as possible, that is, the way you learn with recipes, and he will remember you. There is an eternal love for beauty. Ugliness has nothing to do with beauty, but you should accompany him as a beautiful woman. Remember that no matter how old you are, you should dress yourself in front of the mirror, and know the rules of dressing and his dressing style. You should pay more attention to your pajamas and underwear, because the coat is for others, and pajamas and underwear are specially for your husband! How to make your lover love you more? 3. I believe that don't always ask a series of questions, ask him where he is, who he is with, or keep reading his mobile phone messages. Men hate suspicious girlfriends, and these pressures will only make him feel more bored. However, if you find that you have been cheated again and again and you can't trust him all the time, then stay away from him! A man who can't be honest with you is definitely not your Mr Right. Try to believe him! Long-term distrust will only make love in crisis. 2. Humor writer Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "A sense of humor is a male harmony, so a woman with a sense of humor is particularly rare." Because it is rare, men especially cherish cute women with a little humor, and a sense of humor can bring different interests to your life. Of course, it may take some skill or even a little practice, but as long as you don't take it too seriously and try to play some stupid jokes on him, he will definitely feel your charming humor! 3. Honesty If he asks you what's wrong, tell him honestly and let him know what you think and need, instead of hanging him aside and guessing what the answer to the question is. Mutual honesty will affect each other. If you keep holding back on him, he will gradually lose confidence in you. Honesty can create flawless love, so speak up bravely! 4, try to communicate, reduce blame, don't always use the mother's tone, say that he is wrong, find him trouble, and nagging will only make your relationship worse and worse. Most importantly, he will never accept it. It's just a waste of your time and saliva. Maybe you can change your tone and words to let him know how you feel, and find a tacit understanding between you.