There are 6 billion people in this world, and a person may meet 30 million people in his life. The probability of two people meeting is four in ten thousand, and the probability of falling in love is even lower. But so what? Someone will meet you at the right time.
Love is simple as long as you have enough courage. But it's hard to be together and it will take a lifetime.
Xiao Chun and her best friend Wang Xin have always had a good relationship. In college, Xiao Chun met a boy who impressed her deeply-Xiao Lei. But Xiao Chun was afraid that confession would fail, so she made friends with Xiao Lei. Naturally, every time she goes out to play, Xiao Chun will take her best friend Wang Xin and start a "three-way date". Many students also joked that Xiao Lei was lucky to be able to help her around, and she was accompanied by two beautiful women every day.
Go for a drive after college. Xiaochun and Xiao Lei became boyfriend and girlfriend. There is a saying: two people who are too familiar can't be lovers, because they are too familiar, and their relationship will not go smoothly. Therefore, after Xiaochun and Xiao Lei became lovers, their relationship was not as good as before, and they often misunderstood because of various things. Wang Xin has been doing mediation work for the two people in the middle so that they can ease their contradictions.
When they are reconciled, Xiao Chun will say that Wang Xin is the guardian angel of their love. Thanks to Wang Xin, their relationship can be better. Sometimes Wang Xinhui smiles back: "You see I know your boyfriend so well, aren't you afraid that I will take him away one day?" Xiao Chun never took this sentence seriously. During the period after graduating from college, Xiao Chun thought it was her happiest time. There is a boyfriend who loves her and a girlfriend who tolerates her everywhere.
These three people don't want to be separated, so they choose to stay in the same city and commute together. After working for a year, Xiaochun and her boyfriend Xiao Lei got married. They had a son soon after they got married. In order to take good care of the children, Xiao Chun quit her job and became a full-time wife. All the pressure of life falls on Xiao Lei. When the child was two years old, Xiao Chun felt that she couldn't let her husband work so hard anymore, so she enrolled the child in a remedial class and found another job.
Xiao Chun has been working hard, so she soon gained some fame. Of course, once the work is busy, there will be places that the family can't take care of. From then on, the contradiction between Xiaochun and Xiao Lei began. Xiao Lei always blamed Xiao Chun for not taking good care of his family, and Xiao Chun was helpless. They didn't go back to their hometown and their parents weren't around, so they couldn't take care of their children. If two people don't cooperate, the pressure will be very great.
Once Xiao Chun was in a meeting, her husband called her and said that the child had a fever. But the meeting in Xiao Chun is very important, so I have to call my best friend, Wang Xin, and ask Wang Xin to help take care of the children. After the child recovered, Xiao Lei had a big fight with Xiaochun because of it.
The relationship between them is getting more and more tense, but Xiaochun always feels that as long as she can get better and better in her career, Xiao Lei will certainly understand her. In order to get a quick promotion and salary increase, as long as the company has a business trip, Xiao Chun is definitely the first to sign up, and then Wang Xin will take care of the children.
Three years have passed in the blink of an eye, and the child is five years old. Xiao Chun will also leave the children with Wang Xin when she is on a business trip. This time, Xiao Chun finished her work well, so she ended her business trip ahead of schedule. After changing the ticket, Xiao Chun called her husband and told him to go home tonight, two days ahead of schedule. Xiao Lei, however, here just lightly well, and no happy performance. It was midnight when I got home. Xiaochun wants Xiao Lei to cook some food for me. Xiao Lei didn't say much, so she went to the kitchen to cook. My son may have heard something and woke up from his sleep. He casually said, "Dad, why are you making noodles again? Have you forgotten that Aunt Wang Xin said last night that the noodles you cooked were terrible? " Xiao Chun didn't think too much. After eating noodles, she went back to the house to get ready for bed.
When Xiao Lei lay down, Xiaochun smelled a perfume that she was too familiar with. This is the perfume that Wang Xin often uses. About what my son just said, Xiao Chun suddenly thought of something. Xiao Chun is going to talk to Xiao Lei. Seeing Xiao Lei's evasive eyes, Xiao Chun felt it unnecessary to ask any questions. Eyes sell everything.
"Shall we go to the Civil Affairs Bureau tomorrow?" Xiao Chun ended her love in this way, which made her proud, but in the end it hurt her the most. Xiao Chun chose this child and didn't want anything else. Xiao Chun believes in her ability, and she can take good care of these children. The 1 incident after the divorce was to blacken my best friend Wang Xin and cut off contact with them. Lost love and lost friendship.
There has always been a saying on the Internet: "Fire prevention, theft prevention and girlfriends prevention". This sentence seems like a joke, but in life, many feelings are finally defeated by girlfriends. Your best friend knows you like the back of her hand, so she can easily get involved in your affairs.
Marriage has always been a matter for two people. No matter how big the contradiction is between two people, husband and wife should solve this problem together, instead of letting girlfriends mediate in the middle. The word "love over time" is not groundless. Many people gradually develop feelings because their girlfriends know their boyfriends too well.
In this relationship, Xiao Lei betrayed the feelings between the two, but more responsibility still belongs to Xiao Chun. Xiao Chun is so powerful that she is so devoted to her career that even taking care of her children has to ask her best friend for help. It is normal for this relationship to be destroyed.
The most taboo in feelings is that both of them are strong. If two people can't compromise, they will stick to the end. Then one side will go to forever strong and the other side will have to retreat. Infinite retreat will cause irreparable cracks in the future.
Nowadays, there are more and more strong women, and they are all devoted to their careers. Of course, if you succeed in your career, you will naturally sacrifice your family. If you devote yourself wholeheartedly to your work, you will ignore your children and your husband in your life. Husband has a new relationship, which is not betrayal. Some people will not recognize this sentence, "She works hard in her career for her family!" " In fact, in reality, many people go to work under the guise of family members, but they often ignore one thing, that is, missing their families.
Communication is the most important thing. You must communicate with your family if you have an idea. After all, what you think does not necessarily represent what your family thinks.