People you like will have different feelings in life, such as expectation, protection, possession, etc. The courage to express one's feelings is stuck in many brothers' throats. Here is a detailed introduction of my experience, hoping to help everyone:
First, the real experience
There was once a pair of friends named Xiaoming and Xiaohong. Xiao Ming has been silently fond of Xiaohong for a long time, but he has never had the courage to express his feelings to her.
One day, Xiaoming heard a rumor that the school was going to hold a concert and Xiaohong was a member of the school choir. He thought of an opportunity to express his confession at the concert. So Xiao Ming began to prepare this plan.
He decided to express his feelings in the last song of the concert. Xiao Ming found a good friend, an excellent pianist, who helped Xiao Ming adapt a romantic and touching piano piece, and discussed it with Xiaohong's choir teacher in advance, so that Xiaohong could pause for a few seconds after singing.
On the day of the concert, Xiao Ming sat in the audience and waited nervously and expectantly. Finally, it's the last song. Xiao Ming's friend stepped onto the stage and played the piano gracefully. Xiaohong and the members of the choir sang with sweet voices.
When the song was about to end, Xiaohong's singing suddenly disappeared and all the lights on the stage went out. In the dark, only a spotlight illuminates Xiao Ming. He stood up, his heart beat faster, but he spoke his mind firmly: "Xiaohong, I have always liked you silently. Would you like to go through every beautiful day with you?"
the whole auditorium was quiet, and everyone held their breath. Xiaohong felt Xiaoming's sincere feelings, and a warm smile appeared on her face. She nodded with tears in her eyes and whispered, "I like you, too, Xiao Ming."
All the people cheered and applauded for them. The two of them hugged each other tightly, and happiness flooded their faces.
From that day on, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong became each other's companions, creating their own beautiful stories in the world of love. They experienced a lot of laughter and tears together, but they always supported and guarded each other.
This is an ordinary and warm confession story, which makes us believe that as long as we bravely follow our inner voice, love will bloom in our lives.
Second, confession suggestions
Love is not necessarily successful. Don't be blind. Adjust your mentality and lower your expectations, and you may get unexpected gains. With this layer of mental construction, you can go forward bravely. Here are some suggestions that can help you express your feelings smoothly:
Make sure that your feelings for this person are true and true before you confess. Think carefully and ask yourself if you are ready to face possible responses, including acceptance or rejection.
Choose the right time and place: Choose an appropriate time and place to create a romantic or comfortable atmosphere. Avoid confessing when the other person is physically and mentally tired or unwell, because this may affect the other person's response.
express sincere feelings: tell the other person frankly and directly how you feel and why you like her/him. Describe your feelings in sincere language and let the other person feel your sincerity and truthfulness.
Respect the other person's decision: Although you have special feelings for the other person, understand that the other person may need time to deal with and respond to your confession. Respect each other's decision, whether accepting or rejecting it, be mature and rational.
accept the response: accept and respect her/his feelings, regardless of the other person's response. If the other party accepts your confession, then cherish this feeling; If the other party refuses you, don't be too sad, give each other some time to deal with and adjust.
The most important thing is to be confident and brave before you confess. Even if the result is not as expected, at least you have tried and won't regret not having the courage to pursue your love. Remember, sincerity and frankness are the key to confession. Good luck!