children are a burden. My sister gave birth to three children, and she can only stay at home and take care of them every day, so she can't go out to play, so every child is a burden!

You're just looking for someone to get married. I want Gao Fushuai!

On the evening of February 12th, I received a phone call from my parents, asking me to go back to my hometown the next day (Sunday). A matchmaker in my hometown introduced a blind date. I am in my thirties, and I am not married. My parents have been very anxious for a long time. They also told me to buy a suit and dress beautifully. When I meet the blind date, I will get a lot of points. Everyone knows that the first impression is very important. My father asked me to go to my hometown early tomorrow morning and asked me to come back with my uncle.

It was only seven or eight o'clock the next morning, and my uncle drove me back to my hometown. It was rainy, cold in spring and freezing. For the first impression, I went shopping everywhere and bought suits and leather shoes. I rushed to the new city with my uncle. My parents, aunt and matchmaker had been waiting for a long time. When they saw me coming, they didn't stay long. The group went to a community. On the sixth floor of a building, we met the blind date and her mother. This is an old residential area, and the indoor pattern is relatively simple.

The blind date wears glasses and a ponytail. She is thin, quiet and handsome. We talked with them for a while. She is a math teacher in a township primary school, and she is over thirty. Her marriage has not settled and her parents are very anxious! After chatting for a long time, at lunch time, we agreed to go out for a meal, and the blind date was a little unhappy. I said I was just an ordinary friend, and having a meal was nothing. The group went out for a meal. On the table, her mother said that she had three children, two daughters and one son, and the blind date was the second child. The other two children were married and had children, so she was worried about the second child's marriage ... We all added WeChat to each other and left our phone numbers to facilitate communication ...

As soon as I got back to work, my parents called and asked me to chat with the girl more. She also asked me to send her a 52 red envelope on Valentine's Day on February 14th ... On February 14th, I first wished her a happy Valentine's Day, and immediately sent her a 52 red envelope. She said that she couldn't accept it yet, and the relationship had not yet reached that stage. In my heart, I feel that this girl is not bad, and it is very rare not to collect money from others.

I went to work the next day. At noon, I opened wx and looked at my circle of friends. She sent a picture of riding a car with the words "Going out to play, riding Feifei's car for the first time, and I was a little nervous. . 。” I instinctively asked "Where are we going to play" below, and before long, she replied "Go to Nanchang". I didn't think much about it either. In the evening, as soon as I got back to the residential area, I received a phone call from home. My mother said anxiously, "That girl has gone to Nanchang, do you know? Are you still not sensible? " I look deceived. What is this? Then my aunt also said on the phone: "You are too ignorant. She went out to play, and you didn't accompany her. She was angry, and she was angry with her mother. She said that this man had another girlfriend, so she had the nerve to come on a blind date and step on both sides?" I look innocent, I have that ability? She went out to play with her best friend, I went to work, but I didn't accompany her, so I have another girlfriend? This logic is too that, right? So I apologized to her on wx and said a lot of nice things. She replied, I can't stand this sorry ... I apologized for a long time, and finally she forgave me by default.

on February 16th, when school started, she went to work. I asked her how she felt on her first day. She said she was depressed, didn't want to go to work, and didn't feel good about staying at home? Isn't this all the way in this society? Who wants to work? Later, I asked her about her hobbies and habits, and also asked her what flowers she liked. She said that she liked all over the sky, so I bought a bunch of them from Taobao. When I asked her the delivery address, she said that you had that intention, and you didn't have to really send them. What's a flower? Women say no, but they do. Isn't that how people in China receive gifts? Flowers must be sent, so I wrote the address where the primary school where she works. . . . Soon, she said that she received it, thank you and so on. . . .

It's Friday soon, and my parents have called, asking me to go back to my hometown tomorrow Saturday (February 19th) to play with her, spend more time with her and get to know her better. I told her on WX that I would definitely go back to see her on Saturday. She said, "You are too busy to disturb." I promised that I would definitely go. She also said that Saturday was too cold, and it might rain, so there was nothing to do. "I said that the weather forecast might not be accurate, and she said," Then you can do it as you like. " At 9 o'clock on Friday night, I asked her what she was doing. She said she was chatting with her best friend, and she specifically asked, you won't come to see me tomorrow, will you? I went back: I will definitely come tomorrow, and I am very excited to see you. "She said that she would go back to the country tomorrow and not come back until afternoon. I said I could wait for her at the gate of her community, and I was very happy to see her this afternoon. She also said, don't be so persistent. How can I back down when I say this distance?

The next Saturday, that is, February 19th, I got up at dawn, put on my new clothes and hurried to the station to take a bus. Fortunately, it didn't rain, but it was really cold, much colder than winter. Usually, I don't want to go out in such cold weather, but it's hard to catch a gentleman's words, and I'll go to see her even if it's going up in flames. It's less than nine o'clock in the morning, and then I went to my hometown, and then I transferred to the city to go shopping and buy gifts. She said that she likes durian, so I asked the store if there were any durians for sale. The store said that it was so cold, there were no durians, and it was last year. I came to the gate of her community and sent her a message. She said that she had gone to the country and would not come back until this afternoon, so I waited for her at the gate of her community.

in the afternoon, I thought she might be back, so I sent a message to ask her if she was back. She said, well, she came back. I said I went downstairs. Are you in Room 63 on the sixth floor? She said, don't come up, you go down, I'll come down. I saw her downstairs. She still wore glasses and a black cotton-padded jacket. I gave her the fruit, and when she saw it, she frowned. Then she came to a white dz car, opened the door and let me put something in it. Then she suggested that we go out for a stroll. At that time, the weather was cold and the wind was swishing, and everyone could feel that feeling. To tell you the truth, I wanted to sit upstairs for a while, but she suggested going outside and went.

Through an iron railing door, we came to a shopping mall. As soon as we entered, there was a small playground where many children were playing trampoline. In this situation, I said, these children are so cute. She listened, casually saying: children are a burden! ! Suddenly shocked me, shocking the world? I said, how can a child be a burden? She also said that her sister gave birth to three children, so she had to take care of them at home every day, and she didn't have time to go out to play. Life was so hard. I should track, giving birth to a child won't be so bitter. She added that a child is also a burden, and it is best not to have any children. I didn't want to say anything after hearing this. I was surprised!

We walked around the shopping mall. When we saw the massage chair, I suggested to sit on it and have a rest. She refused. She walked very fast and felt impatient, which was not the feeling of shopping at all. There are bumper cars in the shopping mall. I said that children like to play this, and she said that she also wants to play, but she is an adult. I think she can sit with children and play. She said that she doesn't like children and only likes to play bumper cars alone. After walking for about ten minutes, I felt a little tired. She suggested drinking milk tea. My mobile phone should search the nearby milk tea shop. She said she knew where it was. Then I followed her from the third floor of the mall to the first floor. She walked very fast and refused to let go. I felt that if I was slow, I couldn't keep up with her. She seemed impatient. When we came to the tea shop, we all ordered a cup of milk tea and drank it. She said that she likes shopping and asked me what I like to do. I said that I like to go to some scenic spots. Then I said some places, but I didn't expect her to be familiar with these places, and she had been there before. Not long after drinking milk tea, she suggested going to eat, got up and went out of the milk tea shop. I quickly paid the bill and followed out. If I slowed down, I couldn't keep up.

on the third floor, she found a cooking restaurant by herself, and then said to me, "I'll treat you this time, and you all treated me to dinner last time." Then she smiled a sly smile. I refused on the spot, how can a woman pay the bill? Then find a seat, she chose a window seat, where the view is very good, you can see the scenery of the square outside at a glance. The waiter brought the menu, and I asked her to order it first. She ordered a hot and sour shredded potato and a preserved egg with green peppers, and then she asked me to order it. I wanted to order a beer duck, but she said it was too greasy, so I ordered a casserole, mapo tofu and a seasonal vegetable. I chatted with her. She said that her sister and her brother-in-law were separated, and her sister was taking care of three children at home. Life was so hard that she felt that there was no future. Children were a burden. I immediately refuted her, saying that it was still necessary to have a baby. Eyebrows are straight and inclined upward, without any bending. I asked her, and she said that she is so impatient, so her eyebrows are like this. When the food was served, we all drank milk tea, so we hardly ate any food. She ate some hot and sour shredded potatoes and preserved eggs, and I ate a few pieces of Mapo tofu. I have been chatting in the middle, talking about some things about life and work. Almost all the primary schools where she is located are female teachers, only one male teacher. She said that she works hard and her salary is low. She is too busy to go out to play every day ... When it comes to paying the bill, she offered to pay the bill and smiled, but the smile was unnatural and thoughtful. I flatly refused, and there was no woman to pay the bill, so I paid the money decisively. I'm going to continue shopping with her. She said it was too cold to go and want to have a rest.

At that time, it was almost seven o'clock. She asked me if I wanted to go back to Nanchang. I said that I would stay in a small hotel nearby for one night and continue to accompany her tomorrow. She refused. She said that she would go to play with some girlfriends tomorrow and made an appointment. I suggested that I would go with her, but she strongly disagreed and asked me to go back to Nanchang. She also said that she would drive me to the railway station and told me to buy a train ticket quickly. I had no choice but to agree, so she drove me to the train station. She seemed very happy. When I got to the train station, there was less than an hour before the departure time. I was not in a hurry, so I chatted with her in the car ...

At 9 o'clock in the evening, I sent her a message, saying that my time with you was short and I would come to accompany you when I had time. She replied, "It's nice to chat with you without talking about feelings, but we are only suitable for being friends" and so on ... I wonder if this blind date has been cancelled again? But the cold wind blows me cold, but my mood is even worse than this cold wind, and I am extremely depressed! I don't even know what I did wrong. Maybe she really doesn't have feelings for me, or we don't have fate. I've only been talking to her for a few days, so it's too exaggerated to say that I can't talk to her emotionally. Aren't feelings all about getting along? Anyway, I didn't understand it that night! If things go on like this, I just seem to think that she is a very picky person emotionally. But the ending is beyond many people's guess.

On Sunday afternoon, my aunt called me, and as soon as she opened her mouth, she said, "I'm so stupid. I looked puzzled. What is this?"?

she went on to say, how can you buy rotten bananas for that girl? Besides, walnuts are rotten, and the jackfruit you bought is also bad!

I said, "No, how is that possible? Everything you buy is good! "

Auntie also said that all the girls complained to her mother, saying that you bought some junk for her, and the restaurant ordered some cheap dishes, but there were no meat dishes. She liked to eat hot pot, but you didn't take her. You didn't want to buy durian, and your boy was too ignorant. Her mother told the matchmaker that you were not sensible ...

. Ten thousand alpacas in my heart ran amok, and I immediately questioned her on WeChat. She also said that she didn't complain, she just reported the situation to her mother, and then she said, we are not suitable and have different lifestyles! Later, I pretended not to return the information! What a reflection this is! This is obviously nonsense. Who will buy some junk for a blind date? Isn't that what fools do? Good things don't go out, bad things spread thousands of miles, and my reputation is gone. It is said in ten miles and eight townships that I bought rotten bananas for girls on a blind date and ordered some cheap dishes for dinner!

Her sly smile when she was fighting to pay the bill was all traceable. If she was allowed to pay the bill, I would be guilty of another crime, that is, this man actually asked the woman to pay for dinner on a blind date, but he ran away, so I couldn't wash it off when I jumped into the Yellow River! I really have mixed feelings when I think of her saying that children are a burden. This woman is 32 years old and still single. Of course, there is a reason. In her circle of friends, there are many photos taken with her girlfriends. If she gets married and has children, she won't have time to go out for sightseeing!

I read a blind date story. The blind date man told the blind date woman that he would be kind to her all his life. The blind date woman said, you are here to find someone to marry! This makes people speechless. Blind date is not about finding someone to get married. What is it? Do you want the Goddess Chang'e flying to the moon? People who don't understand think this woman's brain is not normal! I don't think so. That woman didn't say a word, that is-I'm looking for Gao Fushuai Diamond Male! Even if ordinary men give everything they have, they can't touch these women. They are just clowns in their eyes!

let's talk about it! Send goose feathers a thousand miles away, and the ceremony is light and affectionate! I am passionate and sincere, not to mention the earth-shaking, at least worthy of my heart! The cold wind only made my body tremble, but her cold words chilled my heart! I didn't get a good reward for my kindness, but the wicked complained first and spilled dirty water on me. It's all my fault, so let me bear all alone! Now people still feel at ease and are happy! There is a saying in person, which is emotionally inappropriate. We can only be friends! Tell me that the banana is rotten, the walnut is inferior, and the dishes ordered in the restaurant are all cheap! But didn't she order those dishes? Even if we do everything, others will not only be ungrateful, but also, in turn, slander you, take all the scum you said, and tell the wicked first, which will ruin your reputation! Keep saying that children are a burden. Those housewives take care of their children at home all day. Life is very boring. Of course, it's fun to have time to travel with their girlfriends! If you don't appreciate what others have done to you, forget it. Why do you have to fight back?

I spent more than 7 yuan before and after this blind date, not to say how important money is, but at least we were sincere and had a clear conscience, and as a result, people even made a fuss and threw dirty water at us! Later, I learned from my aunt and mother that this blind date wanted me to go back in a hurry, but the woman had been urging us to get to her quickly. It was raining and freezing in those days. It was really not a good opportunity to meet each other. It cost a lot of money for us to go there without giving gifts and having dinner. You can't ignore this sincerity, can you? If she really felt inappropriate, she could have brought it up when we first met, right? But she didn't say it directly, she just kept picking on me, first talking nonsense.