I got off work on Sunday, and I was preparing to tidy up the materials on the office desk in advance, and I charged 59 yuan to clean up the environment. When I ushered in the precious summer vacation, the phone suddenly rang and turned on. It turned out to be Cece, and the other end of the phone burst into tears: "After I fell in love again, whoa, whoa, what everyone said was all about cheat people, and falling in love was not happy at all!"

The result of Cece's "breaking up again" is basically expected by anyone, and even most people regard it as a common meal after Cece broke up, so because I was surprised, I gave her a word or two to comfort her.

learn to turn off the power _, I thought for a while, I have a very good relationship with Cece, and I often chat in peacetime, and I also have some knowledge of her love process.

Cici always falls in love on and off like that, and she is frustrated again and again. Is it because she is not good enough?

On the other hand, Cici, like her name, looks watery and has a very good figure. The eye-catching rate when walking in the street is less than 1%, or at least 8%. There are many boys chasing such an excellent girl. In fact, there is no shortage of boys who are worthy of Cici and as dazzling as her. But if you insist on one object at a time, you will never be able to solve the problem of "within three months"

What's more, to a certain extent, the relationship between falling in love and "whether you are outstanding or not" is not very relevant. You are excellent, and you are only a necessity for falling in love, but once you are in the vortex of feelings, you can sit still and hold on to your feelings, and pay more attention to other factors.

Or is it that Cece habitually "works", pampers and pampers, and is stubborn in love, making boys stunned and definitely proposing to break up?

Not really. Cece has a very good temper. She has a tutor in all aspects of dealing with people. Very rarely, she mainly shows a charming and self-expression temper, and most of them have nothing to do with the word "Zuo".

but cece must look at the idea of falling in love like a slow-growing girl? Even like primary and secondary school students who have never entered the relationship, they have always attached their feelings to happy imagination. Once they have just started a relationship, logical thinking collapses as quickly as quicksand in the desert-

"Wow, love is so beautiful, so this is the meaning of life."

"No wonder my heart was empty before. It turned out that life was always flying. Falling in love was the place where my mental state belongs."

Cece told me that, and I firmly believe that it is also an appeal that many girls who are newly in love often swing in the air. Under the call of this kind of heart, most girls will involuntarily regard falling in love as their life, which gradually leads to the idea that all happiness in love is earned by their own labor. Two people together are originally the result of happiness. Why bother to deliberately manage their feelings?

Yes, everyone read through the stories of the princess and the prince since childhood. They came together happily. This is the ultimate happyending. Who cares about the daily life of the princess and the prince together? Nobody even thought about it.

Therefore, people who read through fairy tales are easily deceived by the results. They think that when two people come together, their feelings will be smooth sailing, and they don't have to deal with anything. Everything is a happy ending, and there is no frustration. Even if there is friction, it is only a little bit of starlight, which is not easy to endanger happiness at all. Girls just need to be safe and enjoy everything that comes out of their feelings. Is everything so happy?

The result of fairy tales is not the result of falling in love. Feelings are not fairy tales. Two people coming together is only the first step, and the 25,-mile long March has just begun!

Actually, I think what I tell you girls who don't feel enough about love is that they don't have to be "greedy", clean up their feelings, and feel that everything in love is taken for granted, so they are not diligent, have not actively invested, and just stand still quietly and enjoy all the beauty that comes from falling in love.

The comfort of falling in love is a big forbidden area for girls. Once you are too comfortable in love, but you regard this kind of comfort as a habit, feelings usually just begin to develop in an unexpected direction.

Comfort looks really happy, just like a cute bear jumping into a honey pile and a mouse falling into an oil bottle. It's more than comfort. It's really the most beautiful gift from God. You can eat and drink freely, and a lot of _ sources are indulgent and inexhaustible.

but? Intoxicated by this kind of comfort, the bear forgot the grab of the nearby hunter and beast, and the mouse ignored the situation that he jumped out of the oil bottle again and was deeply trapped since then.

At first glance, the affair of falling in love seems arrogant and ungrounded, but anyone who can really understand the essence of falling in love through the situation can clearly realize that the affair of affection is essentially the same as everything in daily life: if you want to get it, you have to work hard.

and the best way to exert oneself in love is to treat this relationship as a hard-won source and try our best to operate it, so as to take this opportunity to create a lot of benefits.

Yes, the source of love is always limited, and everyone's love will not be smooth sailing. There will be friction among people, a collision in their living habits, and even disputes over trivial matters. Outside people, there are also all kinds of worries, such as each other's homes and third parties.

Even if you feel that everything is OK now, please try to realize that falling in love is not a house game. If you want to get the ultimate and lasting feelings in the end, you have to run a marriage, run in with each other and tolerate each other until you have a heart in love.

One day, you will find that you have experienced so many frictions, attacks and even love and killing each other on the long road of love, but if you communicate together, deal with each other and find ways to deal with it, it will not be easy to prevent everyone from enjoying happiness and sweetness.