matchmaking

matchmaking, also known as matchmaking, is to make men and women * * * bond with each other through matchmaking.

Generally, it is the man's business to invite media. If the woman is also interested in marriage, both parties can send people to visit each other.

sometimes, the woman's condition is dominant, and she can even entrust a matchmaker to introduce her, so that the man can "insert the door backwards", which is called "adoption by adoption".

In ancient times, matchmakers were also called "Yue Lao" and "Hong Niang".

matchmaking really requires a skill.

The matchmaker should not only be familiar with the basic situation of men and women and their families, but also be able to basically and accurately reflect the situation to both men and women and their parents, and try to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses as much as possible, so that both sides can fully understand each other's strengths, thus making them happy to reach a marriage agreement.

that is to say, if you want to have a baby, you need a matchmaker's mouth.

To be a matchmaker, you should be diligent in running errands. From the day you start to match men and women, you should always go back and forth between men and women to convey each other's wishes and demands and prevent unexpected accidents.

It is customary for both men and women to entertain the matchmaker.

the matchmaker must guide the next day, calling it "round media" or "media".

The amount of money to thank the media depends on the economic situation of the host family, but no matter how much, it needs to be sealed with red paper, which is called a "red envelope".

wintering

The winter solstice, also known as the winter festival and wintering, originated in the Han Dynasty, flourished in the Tang and Song Dynasties, and has continued to this day.

Qing Jia Lu even says that the winter solstice is as big as a year.

this shows that the ancients attached great importance to the winter solstice.

People think that the winter solstice is a natural transformation of Yin and Yang, and it is a blessing given by heaven. On this day, the government of the Han Dynasty held a congratulatory ceremony called "He Dong", which was a routine holiday.

In Yanfu area, the winter solstice is generally called winter, and it can be divided into big winter and small winter. The small winter is the day before the winter solstice, and people are used to eating beans and millet cooked with red beans and red melons.

On the winter solstice, people make cakes and steamed cakes, and large families kill pigs and sheep and take their married daughters home for dinner.

it is widely spread among the people that "it's a big winter and a happy new year", "Eating bread in winter is too cold, not too cold; Eat cake in winter, and it will not be burnt if it is too cold.

after thousands of years of development, the winter solstice has formed a unique seasonal food culture.

Wonton, jiaozi, glutinous rice balls, red bean porridge and millet cake can all be used as winter festival food.

"Winter solstice Asian New Year's Banquet" includes eating winter solstice meat, offering winter solstice balls, and worshipping winter with wonton.

Eating wonton on the winter solstice started as a sacrifice to ancestors, and then it became popular on the winter solstice. There is a folk saying "Winter solstice wonton noodles on the summer solstice".

Eating dumplings is also a traditional custom in the winter solstice. "Round" means "reunion" and "perfection", and eating dumplings in the winter solstice is also called "winter solstice group".

In the north, there is a custom of eating dog meat and mutton on the winter solstice, because the weather enters the coldest period after the winter solstice. Chinese medicine believes that mutton and dog meat have the effect of aphrodisiac and complement, and people have the custom of tonic on the winter solstice so far.

In Shandong, there is also a saying that "dumplings are not served on the winter solstice, and no one cares if their ears are frozen off". Therefore, on the winter solstice, every household must eat dumplings.