2. No matter how beautiful a thing is, once it has no result, don't pester it, you will be tired after a long time; A thing, even if you remember it again, if you can't catch it, you should let it go at the right time, and it will break your heart for a long time.
3. A big house is big, and a small house is small. There is no shortcut to life, and it tests our perseverance and patience.
4. Don't be so sensitive, and don't be so soft-hearted. People who are too sensitive and soft-hearted will definitely have an unhappy life. You have to think about anything casually said by others all day.
5. Finding your own mistakes is enlightenment; Correcting one's mistakes is achievement. Found all the mistakes, which is insight; Corrected all the mistakes, which is perfection.
6. Many times, we regard it as an unforgettable memory, but others have long forgotten it. Instead of dwelling on it, it is better to look down and look down. If you can't be the master of your mind, you will inevitably become a slave to your emotions.
7. A person always looks up to and envies the happiness of others, only to find that he is being looked up to and envied. In fact, everyone is happy. However, your happiness is often seen by others.
8. Many contradictions between people come from arrogance; Everyone thinks that they are smarter, more knowledgeable and more correct than others, so they despise each other and contradictions gradually arise.
9. Too much consideration of others' feelings is a kind of disapproval of yourself. When you are thinking about "what others think" in everything you do, you are actually giving up on yourself. People who always live in other people's eyes are equal to those who have never existed.
1. Don't care what others think and say about you behind your back, because these words can't change the facts, but they may disturb your heart. If the heart is messed up, everything will be messed up. People who understand you don't need to explain; People who don't understand you don't deserve your explanation.
11. There is no road that does not bend, and there are no flowers that do not thank. The road to success will not be smooth and broad, the realization of one's dreams will not be smooth sailing, and life will be unsatisfactory in nine cases out of ten, but these are temporary. Flowers bloom and fall, the tide rises and falls, and everything will come to an end.
12. people should be calm, and if they talk too much, they will lose. It's better to talk than to look at yourself, and it's better to listen and forget when you complain about others. What can interfere with you is often your own concern; What can hurt you is often your own hard feelings. If you are peaceful, no one hates you; If you don't investigate, no one can disturb you.
13. People who live a confused life are easy to be happy; People who live a sober life are easily troubled. This is because sober people look too real, and when they look too real, they will have troubles everywhere in their lives; However, a confused person, who cares little, finds the great taste of life because of his simple and rough life.
14. We are often deceived by what we cling to; Who we cling to will often be hurt by whom. So we should learn to let go, look down on everything, don't care, don't care, right and wrong don't matter. No matter what you lose, don't lose a good mood. -Master Xingyun
15. Have hope and happiness will come to you; If you dream, opportunities will cover you; Persist, and happiness will always accompany you; Be sincere and peace will follow you; If you have good thoughts, the sun will shine on you; If you have a good heart, warmth will surround you; Be grateful, and noble people will favor you.
16. No matter how well you do it, some people will say it is not good. No matter how bad you are, someone will praise you. When others say hello, you may not be really good. On the contrary, people say that you are not good, and you are not necessarily really bad. As long as you have a clear conscience and live up to your own conscience, you don't have to cling to the judgment of others.
17. lift a thousand pounds, let go of two or two, let go of one thought, and feel at ease. The so-called letting go is to let go of those selfish desires and evil thoughts in my heart, and let go of those meaningless persistence and stubborn paranoia. Knowing how to let go will make life more perfect. Don't take gains as joy, don't worry about losses, let nature take its course and let it be.
18. We are all passers-by, and many people are out of our control. Such as the time of departure, such as separated people. There are three points in the word "heart", and there is no point that is not jumping out. The more you try to hold on, the faster you leave. Everything goes with the fate, and the deep fate gathers together, and the shallow fate goes with it. In life, the pain will leave you as much as you underestimate it. I am happy because I look down; I am happy because I am pessimistic.
19. There are three things in the world: one is "your own business", the other is "other people's business" and the third is "God's business". Trouble comes from: forgetting "your own business", caring about "other people's business" and worrying about "God's business". To be happy is simple: do your own thing, regardless of other people's business, and don't think about God's business.
2. The needs of life are like eating, and you can only eat two bowls of rice. If you eat two bowls more because of the smell of food, you will not enjoy the benefits of eating more normally, on the contrary, it will bring pain because your stomach can't bear it. It can be seen that getting is not necessarily enjoying. Don't compare with others, learn not to be greedy, not to be extravagant, to be peaceful and quiet, and to be content.
21. What do you mean by letting go? That is, one day, when you face your past embarrassment again, you hate the angry person, quiet inside, stop thinking, face it calmly and laugh it off. Even when others repeat your past misfortunes in front of you, you seem to be listening to other people's stories, and there is no ripple in your heart. Put it down, that's all.
22. The so-called happiness never has an accurate and eternal answer; People who eat delicious food in golden pots and silver spoons are not happy; Rough clothes and cloth shoes. People who have poor food and simple meals have not seen misfortune; A flower and a drop of water in this world may become the source of happiness; Happiness has never had anything to do with wealth or status; The happiness of people lies in the happiness of the heart; Happiness lives in your heart, and feeling happiness is actually happiness.
23. People are simple when they are young and complex when they grow up; When you are poor, you are simple and rich in complexity; Simple when down and out, complex when in power; Gentleman is simple, villain is complex; Look at yourself simply, look at others complicated. The world is actually very simple, but the human heart is very complicated. In fact, the human heart is also very simple, but the desire is very complicated. People are happy when they are simple, but few people are happy; People, when they are complicated, suffer, but those who suffer are bustling.
24. You are staying in bed and he is exercising, so he is healthier than you. You cope with work, he works hard, so he becomes your leader; You are finishing today's plan, and he is planning next year's plan, so he has more opportunities than you; You are making excuses, he is solving problems, so he is more successful than you; You are spending, he is managing money, so he is richer than you; You are calculating your own interests, and he is considering the interests of the other party, so he has more connections than you.