A long time ago, the old people always said: This is all in the womb (somewhat derogatory). At that time, I couldn’t figure out what it meant. I naively thought that babies were born in the mother’s womb! You don’t even have to say this!
Later, I gradually realized the meaning of the phrase "belt in the womb" from life. The so-called fetal belt means that 80% of the child's temperament, demeanor, and work style (of course there are also various factors of the later growth environment) are very similar to a certain person, such as the child's parents, or the grandparents. Comparing it with grandparents, or someone in the family, makes people laugh!
Yingying’s mother is very picky about food. She always tosses a bowl of ordinary noodles, including onions, ginger, garlic, and green vegetables, all on the edge of the bowl to eat while others are eating. If you don't pay attention, you will throw it away; when eating fish, you are most afraid of eating the fish skin, so you tear off the skin and put it aside; whether the eggs are fried or boiled, you don't even look at them.
Yingying’s mother has been squeamish since she was a child, and loves to cry when she feels a little wronged. After getting married, her early pregnancy reaction became more severe. Her eyes were always red and swollen. She especially loves to eat snacks. I don’t know if Because her zodiac sign is rat, she doesn’t like to be seen by others when eating. She often hides things in various places. Sometimes she even forgets where she hid her snacks. She also likes to mess around with things and always falls behind when going out with her family. At the very back.
Yingying’s mother started to like spicy food in the second trimester of her pregnancy. Red and spicy beef noodles and Malatang are her favorites. She usually only eats half a bowl or doesn’t want to eat them, but when she sees beef jerky You have to eat a big plate of noodles. Malatang is not spicy if you don’t get beads of sweat on your forehead.
There is a well-known saying: "Dragon begets dragon and phoenix, and mouse's son can dig holes." This sentence means that like mother, like daughter, children inherit the characteristics of their parents in addition to their appearance. In addition, children will inherit their parents’ temperament, personality and hobbies. This is not superstition and has scientific basis.
Yingying is now nine years old. Not only does she look exactly like her mother, but her temperament and personality are exactly the same. The funniest thing is eating and hiding snacks. The resemblance to her mother will make you stunned. She will make the whole family stamp their feet anxiously when she is grinding. She also loves to cry at every turn, and the tears will flow one after another and cannot be stopped.
Yingying’s father was in trouble: “Yingying, can you stop crying!” Yingying’s parents were worried about this problem, and they quarreled with each other many times, even on the verge of divorce. edge. In order to make Yingying cheerful and lively, Yingying's parents often take her to the children's amusement park so that she can get in touch with other friends; they let her learn to play the piano to develop her hobbies; In order to let her develop the habit of not being picky when eating.
But these problems in Yingying's body seem to be in her bones. In the past two or three years as she grew up, no matter how hard her parents tried, it seemed to be of no avail, and instead became more obvious. .
When Yingying entered the fourth grade of elementary school, her class teacher began to call her parents frequently, saying that she was having a hard time doing homework. Her classmates in the self-study class had already completed three or four questions and said that she would always be stuck in On the first question, she ate snacks in class. The teacher called her to the office and she didn’t say anything. Fortunately, her big tears fell down in clusters. In the eyes of the teacher, she became a student with a lot of problems. ! Yingying's mother avoided seeing the teacher, so her father had no choice but to go to school. When he came home full of anger to teach her, his daughter burst into tears, and her mother cried too...
After reading the story above, we all know how difficult it is to pull a child! I heard the old people say: If you don’t give birth to a child, you don’t know what pain is. If you don’t take care of the child yourself, you don’t know what pain is and what is difficult! Especially if you give birth to your own child, the upbringing is very difficult, so you have to grit your teeth and endure it. You must know that the word "endurance" is like a knife!
Young pregnant mothers should know that the umbilical cord of the embryo is connected to the mother’s blood and is one with the mother. The baby in your belly is the most critical period, which lasts for ten months. , every reaction of the pregnant mother will be directly passed on to the fetus.
Young pregnant mothers, are you a little delicate during pregnancy? You are pregnant alone, are you a busy family? Are you particularly picky about food? You won’t eat this or that, which makes your husband miserable and makes him die! Did you know that the baby in your belly will learn all these problems, and the baby may be born with the same habits in the future, leaving the foundation to make you miserable!
If you want to give birth to a healthy baby, it is very important for pregnant mothers to adjust their mentality and manage their emotions well. In fact, the child's emotions also correspond to the expectant mother's emotions.
If the pregnant mother is not afraid of difficulties, the baby will be braver!
Tell me, does your baby have a "good temper" that was "brought in the womb"?