I think it is best for a girl to fall in love three times in her life, no matter when she falls in love.

for the first time, accept the pursuit of others.

No matter whether it's seed of love or infatuation, the failure rate of girls' first love is extremely high, and it is easy to undermine their self-confidence and even cause emotional grief. From then on, they are disheartened and it is difficult to rekindle their enthusiasm for their feelings.

Therefore, the first love is best to accept the pursuit of a boy who has a good impression and enjoy the beauty of love. It can be spoiled and willful, and it can be unreasonable. Moreover, the first love is generally very young and ignorant of feelings, and generally it will not go to the point of talking about marriage. Two people can squander their youth, but they can't affect their studies, and they can't have physical entanglements.

the second time, pursue the person you love.

if you meet someone you love, chase him, and of course you can seduce him to chase you. There are not many two of a kind in life. People who fall in love at first sight often take the initiative. If you give up because of shyness or other reasons, it is easy to produce a psychological shadow. From then on, this man will become Bai Yueguang in your heart, and even compare his future boyfriend or husband with him. In fact, he is not so perfect at all, but he will become a mountain that other men can never surpass. It will hurt when you think about it, which is very unfavorable to your future love life and family happiness.

Once the person you like becomes a lover, there will be all kinds of ups and downs. If you have a lover, he will fall from the altar, and there will be such a man who has bad habits and bad habits, that is, he will break up later, that is, he will feel a little sorry and will not forget it.

This kind of emotional advice is to talk about love for a long time until you are bored. Even if he breaks up, you don't have to be too sad. If you are deeply in love, the person who falls in love first will lose. For girls, you have to go through marriage, mother-in-law relationship and even child support. If you love each other too much, it is easy to make too many concessions, which will make you feel wronged and it is difficult to get a happy marriage.

the third time, the marriage partner.

If you want to get married, you have to find someone who can spend a lifetime, and you must not settle for it. If a person pursues you, you will hesitate to say yes, that is, you are dissatisfied with him and can't accept it, or you have a good impression on a person, but you are unwilling to confess to him, which shows that you are not confident enough in him and yourself.

The choice of marriage partner is based on love, but there is not only love, but also tolerance, respect and trust. Only when you have a mature mind and the conditions for getting married is it suitable to find such a person. At this time, the feelings should be two of a kind. No matter who pursues who, who accepts who, you will have a feeling of hitting it off without reluctance. I am waiting for you, and I think it is you.

At this time, I can see the importance of the first two loves. I have experienced love and being loved, and I also understand the different performances of the man who gives love and the man who accepts love. As long as I am not too stupid, I can always find someone who likes and loves me.

That is to say, the first two times of love are about finding feelings, one is the feeling of being loved, the other is the feeling of loving, and the last time is about finding happiness. Of course, some people think that I can succeed from the first love, and there are such things, but I often experience more twists and turns and disasters. Only two people can go on together hand in hand, and one person can't retreat. If you have experienced the failure of love, you should follow the trilogy step by step to find your own happiness.