From the day of birth, women have been overcoming loneliness and men have been overcoming failure.

This sentence means that in the relationship between men and women, women pay more attention to the satisfaction of emotions, while men pay more attention to the satisfaction of self-accomplishment. Women need to be pampered and men need to be worshipped. If you want your husband to love you and love you, you need to do the following according to his needs:

First, explore the advantages of your husband, praise him and praise him.

it may be normal for every husband to be nagged by his wife, because after marriage, those shortcomings that can't be seen at first will be exposed, and women are eager to change each other, so they will remind their husbands all day what he did badly. However, men are "holding on, playing backwards" animals. The more you criticize, the more frustrated he is, the more unhappy he is, and the less he wants to change.

At this time, the wife should see the advantages of her husband from the heart and praise him. When a husband cooks once in a while, he must praise him for his delicious cooking; When he takes a baby once in a while, he must praise how he can take it so well; When he occasionally helps you with some housework, you must praise him for his thoughtfulness ... You should observe some of his actions in life and appreciate them naturally and timely. A small compliment can cheer him up.

compliments are effortless, but your husband will be more considerate of you.

Second, give him room to make decisions and trust his ability.

Men like to pursue power and dream of being heroes. In life, they all want to be the pillar and pride of their family or the whole family. Nowadays, the more insecure a woman is, the more she makes herself independent and strong, and she is slightly stronger in the family. Or women feel that they should share the pressure and responsibility for men, so they become particularly hard and admire the whole family. At this time, men will not be grateful, but feel more and more useless, and conflicts between husband and wife are more likely to occur.

At this time, as long as you give him the space to make decisions, he will be very responsible and will work harder. Smart women usually give credit to men, so that their husbands will have a sense of accomplishment, and at the same time they will feel that they have this ability because they have married an excellent wife and will love you more.

Third, look for similar topics and cultivate similar hobbies.

Being able to play together is also an important demand of men for marriage. Husband and wife get along with each other for a long time, and they are very familiar with each other. Without mystery, they are troubled by trivial things in life every day, so they become careless about many things. They are unwilling to take the initiative to understand and care about each other, turn a blind eye to each other's interests and hobbies, and hold on to each other when they find each other's shortcomings. There are fewer and fewer topics and more and more quarrels between husband and wife.

In normal times, a wife can exercise, watch movies, keep a pet, cook food and travel with her husband. Even though there are great differences in personality between husband and wife, as long as you look hard according to their preferences and characteristics, you will certainly find their * * * same hobbies and topics.

Fourth, pay attention to the life of husband and wife.

A study by the University of California shows that the area of male brain that controls sexual consciousness is twice that of female brain. Men think about that every 52 seconds on average, while women only think about it once a day. This shows that men's demand for husband and wife life is higher than that of women. In addition, married life helps men release stress.

If you want your husband to love you all the time, as a wife, you have to care about your image in front of men, and at the same time, you should manage your husband and wife life as an important thing. Only by facing up to his needs can the relationship between the two sides become harmonious and happiness be achieved.