Diary is a kind of diary, a writing mode that records our lives and emotions, mostly impersonal, and generally records what we do every day, just like we keep a diary in a notebook. The difference is that periodicals are published in the virtual space on the Internet, which further improves efficiency and saves time. The following is a diary I carefully arranged, and I want to be the best inspirational space for women. Welcome to share!
Cai Lan, the youngest creator, filmmaker, gourmet, writer, host, etc. He likes to eat, drink, travel around, chat with people, and write books ... He has always lived a chic life. Jin Yong said that he is a real chic person and a first-class romantic figure in the world. This is the author of May You Be the Best Woman.
I can't resist my son's repeated requests. I went to the online bookstore to buy him the most popular online fantasy martial arts novel Fighting the Sky, but I happened to meet this man named Cai Lan. His books are very popular. So I couldn't help but be curious and bought a trilogy, and "May you be the best woman" is one of them.
On the cover of the book, the title of the book is written impressively, and next to it is a line of fine print "My favorite woman is a woman who strives for progress". I think this kind of progress in the author's mouth is by no means the supreme pursuit of rights and money, and it must have unique significance. After a careful look, I guessed it. In the eyes of an old man who is over 70 years old and can't live without women all his life, has read countless women and thinks he knows enough about women, the progress of women has other meanings. Coincidentally, I also agree with these ideas.
A woman who pursues progress must be a woman who pursues beauty. Like my point of view, he also thinks that plastic surgery has firm breasts, upturned hips, towering nose and pointed chin ... which is not beautiful and will only make people sick. Xiu Xiu, handsome and comfortable to look at, is a beauty. If you add appropriate speech, understanding and supercilious, she is an elegant woman. Wearing makeup, blindly pursuing famous brands, being coy and pretentious will eventually be classified as vulgar.
Beauty is indeed the pursuit of most women all their lives. Being beautiful can take a lot of advantages, but if you are not kind, mean and smart, it will be boring at once, with a beautiful face and a snake-like stomach. Which man is willing to marry such a woman? Instead of wasting time on plastic surgery, intrigue and gossiping about others, it is better to cultivate one's morality, study and travel to increase one's knowledge, enrich one's connotation and broaden one's mind. As the saying goes, plastic surgery should be done first. Even planting flowers and grass, playing the piano and flute or embroidering and walking birds are elegant and indifferent lives. A woman who is not tired must have an old face.
A woman who pursues progress must be a lovely woman. Lovely women are never hypocritical. They are very real. They don't have to say what they don't want to say, but they are never so hypocritical as to be full of lies. They regard lying as drinking cold water, and lying is not red behind. Lovely woman is independent, free, rational and full of interest in life. No matter how boring and obscure the days are, they will live a picturesque, orderly and interesting life in their hands. Lovely woman is very caring, considerate, tolerant and generous, and exudes an optimistic and open-minded temperament. She always faces the ups and downs in life with a positive attitude. She is patient and resilient, and always heals all the pain. Think about it, this lovely woman is still far from me.
A woman who pursues progress must be a woman who pursues spiritual sustenance. All appearances and youth are so short-lived, and passing away is not terrible. The most terrible thing is the inner pallor and emptiness that comes with the passage of time. These have nothing to do with career achievements. The body on the earth is always easy to place, and the most difficult thing is to have spiritual sustenance. Maybe it's tea, maybe it's towards the distant, or it's humming to music. No matter what kind, as long as you are willing to work hard, spend time and enjoy, you will get something to send, love and feel extremely happy. That's the incomparable pleasure of life on the surface of people. It is precisely because of these sustenance that life becomes full, fearless and somewhat free and easy.
In his book, Cai Lan lists some shortcomings of Hong Kong women. Men and women's faces lack women's gentleness, their words are rude, they don't understand women's manners, their mouths are wordy and love discipline, they only pay attention to their careers regardless of their families, and they are sloppy and hypocritical and selfish. He compared women in Hong Kong with women in Chinese mainland, Japan and Taiwan Province Province, and his words projected contempt and disdain for women in Hong Kong. I have never been to Hong Kong, and I don't know Hong Kong women. I am not a man, and I lack the right to know and judge women. Besides, I'm not like Cai Lan. When I meet all kinds of women, I can't help but taste and play, so I'm not qualified to judge. But, one thing, I don't like these women in his mouth.
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: What best reflects a woman's taste is not her clothes and hobbies, nor the car she drives, the books she reads or the decorations at home, but what kind of man she falls in love with. Even if she has elegant taste in other aspects, if she falls in love with a bad man, she will fall short and eventually get hurt. All indifference and openness are just self-proclaimed strength. It can be seen that choosing what kind of man to accompany is an invisible but tasteful thing. We are talking about women, but in the end we can't get around the topic of men. For the taste and quality of life, it is very important to polish your eyes.
According to Cai Lan, as soon as the above words come out, there will be a lot of old maids or strong women jumping out and cursing endlessly: What does a woman's taste have to do with a man? But no one can avoid and deny that women's happiness and happiness, taste and manners, temperament and self-cultivation are inextricably linked with men. Beauty needs a source of appreciation, and happiness needs a harmonious relationship between men and women. A gourmet man can make a woman more lovely and beautiful, while a love rat can ruin everything for a woman. Without happiness and happiness, a woman's beauty will lose moisture and nutrition and wither quickly. Emotional nourishment is better than any cosmetic disguise, and what money can't buy is often the most precious. But sometimes it depends on fate. Some people close their eyes and meet high-quality men, while others choose love rat after all.
The best woman is by no means measured by the present secular standards. She is neither a bully woman in the mouth of a strong woman, but she thinks she has made money. All men are losers in her eyes, and all women are inferior in her eyes. Nor is she a good wife and mother in the eyes of housewives. Apart from her husband, she is a child, financially dependent and emotionally dependent. The best women are capable and courageous in their work. She may not be a woman in power, but she is financially independent. At the same time, she plays the role of a good wife and mother, treating the family wholeheartedly, raising excellent children and accompanying excellent men. She skillfully balanced all the roles in the world, played complex roles well and lived a clean life. This is the best standard for the best woman.
Pursuing self-liberation and personal life is no reason to avoid family responsibilities. Any best woman should be a smart woman. On the surface, it looks calm and ordinary, but it has incomparable perseverance and determination. They use low-key to fight against noise, and use personal progress and inner cultivation to brush away the dust of material things. They don't compare, show off, be proud, feel inferior, and live their own lives willfully, without surprises or happiness.
This is the best woman in my heart. It's not that I don't care It's always good to get as close as possible.
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