How to respect and understand each other in love? This is not a problem ~ as long as you love each other, you will always be the only one in your heart ~
Whether it is friendship or love, how should we treat each other? Sincerity, tolerance and mutual understanding.
How should a knight explain in love? If you want to know what love is, let's take a look at my understanding of love, hoping to help you. If you have time, you might as well look at the understanding of love by celebrities, such as Tagore, the farthest distance in the world. The furthest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, but when I stand in front of you, you don't know that I love you; The furthest distance in the world is not that you don't know I love you when I stand in front of you, but that I can't say I love you when I miss you. The furthest distance in the world is not that I can't say I love you, but that I miss you so much that I can only bury it in my heart. The furthest distance in the world is not that I can't say I miss you, but that I love each other but can't be together; The furthest distance in the world is not loving each other but not being together, but pretending not to care when you know that true love is invincible; The furthest distance in the world is not the distance between trees, but the branches that grow from the same root, but cannot depend on each other in the wind; The furthest distance in the world is not that branches can't depend on each other, but that the stars look at each other without intersecting tracks; The furthest distance in the world is not the trajectory between stars, but even if the trajectory meets, there is nowhere to find it; The furthest distance in the world is not that there is nowhere to be found in an instant, but that we are doomed not to meet before we meet; The farthest distance in the world is the distance between fish and birds, one in the sky and the other in the depths of the sea; "To the Oak Tree" Shu Ting If I love you, I will never show off on your tall branches like climbing bluebells. If I love you, I will never learn from spoony birds and repeat monotonous songs for the shade. It is not only like a fountain that has brought coolness and comfort for many years, but also like a dangerous peak, which increases your height and sets off your prestige, even sunshine and even spring rain. No, these are not enough! I must be a kapok near you, standing with you in the image of a tree, grasping the leaves underground and touching each other in the clouds. Whenever a gust of wind passes by, we greet each other, but no one understands us. You have your copper branches and iron stems, like knives, swords and halberds; I have my red flowers, like a heavy sigh and a heroic torch. We share cold waves, storms and lightning, and we share fog, haze and rainbow, as if we were separated forever, but depended on each other for a lifetime. This is great love-not only your great body, but also your position. The first step of the land is to "see and see" the living Buddha in Cangyang Gyatso. Look, or you can't see me, I will have no sadness and love there, or I will have no love there, or my love will not increase or decrease, or my hand will not give up in your hand or let me live in your heart. When you are old, Ye Zhi is silent and happy. My hair turned white, and I was sleepy, taking a nap by the fire. Please take this poem down and read it slowly, recalling the softness of your eyes and their heavy shadows in the past. How many people love your beauty, hypocrisy and sincerity when you were young? Only one person loves you, the pilgrim's soul loves you, and the painful wrinkles on your aging face hang down. It whispered sadly the disappearance of love by the burning stove on the mountain overhead, and walked slowly, hiding its face in a group of stars. In a word, love means that two people cherish each other, are loyal to each other, and can find happiness in each other. Even if the novelty has passed, I know in my heart that the other person is my own dependence, because I am not lonely because of the existence of the other person. Remember, no matter what suffering is, it is not worth being an obstacle to love. Believe in love, support love, and bless you with love.
How to become mature in love? CCTV is looking for the most beautiful country girl. Your mother is on the list every day. The reason for being on the list is that the villagers gave her free gifts. Your mother is free. What's the plan? Why don't you jump on your mother and play?
How to respect women and respect an object is to regard this object as this object. What do you mean by "treat this object as this object"? Since building a thing is this thing, there must be a reason why it is this thing. Accordingly, there are laws to follow in all aspects. According to Marxist philosophy, things run regularly. We respect something, that is, we should treat it as it is, and we can follow its principles to deal with related problems without being rude.
As far as respecting women is concerned, if we can treat women based on the ethics of saints, regulate women's behavior with the specific requirements of three obedience and four virtues, and do behaviors that are not in line with ethical norms, it is truly respecting women. Gai "The Doctrine of the Mean" says: "Destiny is nature, frankness is Tao, and cultivation is teaching". The popularization of justice has endowed everything and people with justice. Is it the best? This is called sex. And characters follow their nature, so they all have their own ways in their daily lives, and they are the ways. On the other hand, sages respect people because they are walkers and think that the law belongs to the world and the law is for teaching. If the ritual punishment belongs to politics, this is also correct. As far as men and women are concerned, although men and women are both human beings, there is no difference in the reasons why people are human beings. However, reason is metaphysical and intangible, and there is nothing to do. Therefore, the metaphysical principle must be hung on the metaphysical qi. Qi, as a physical thing, is a tangible thing, which has its own rigidity and softness of yin and yang. As the saying goes: "It is easy to have Tai Chi, and Tai Chi gives birth to two instruments." Tai Chi is metaphysical, and Yin and Yang are metaphysical. Metaphysical principles can only be attached and expressed by metaphysical qi. As far as the character's life is concerned, all the life of the character must be based on this principle and this spirit. The yang of qi is male and the yin of qi is female. As far as the functions of Yin and Yang are concerned, they are masculine, feminine, active, static, divergent and convergent. In this way, the difference between men and women, from superiors to subordinates, and from masters to slaves is not obvious? Although the principle of covering people is the same, but the nature of gas is different, then the principle existing in gas can not be different. Yes, it is what Song Ru said: "One reason is different." The reason is that both men and women are human beings, and they are given the same reason, and there is no difference. Those different people, between men and women, have both rigid and healthy qi, so those who are reasonable can't be different. Therefore, their human responsibilities are different, ranking up and down, master and slave successively, depending on the reasons. "Book of Rites" says: "Men come first and women later, so it's just a matter of firmness and softness". If we borrow Marxist philosophy, it is the relationship between universality and particularity. As far as universality is concerned, since both men and women are human beings, the commonality of people, that is, the reason why people are human beings, is that men and women are the same. As far as particularity is concerned, although the principle is the same, the specific manifestations are different. There are both masculine and feminine temperament, so those who are in a rational spirit cannot be different. When it comes to the order of interpersonal relationships, there are certain differences between men and women, such as the order of rank and the difference between master and slave. If we use Hegel's theory of contradiction, the originator of Marxist philosophy, Yin and Yang are both contradictory and unified. As the contradictory sides of the unity of opposites, Yang is the dominant aspect and Yin is the subordinate aspect. The solution of the contradiction ends with Yang as the dominant party and Yin as the subordinate party, and finally forms the integration of Yin and Yang. This is what China's traditional philosophy said: "Yang must win Yin". It is natural to respect yin and inferiority, and it is also natural to respect men and women. Generally speaking, the fundamental reason is out of human nature and heaven.
Generally speaking, men and women are subordinate to each other. When it is implemented in the interpersonal relationship of daily life, it must be accompanied by specific normative measures, which is the ethics of saints. The so-called "cultivation is teaching". As far as female virtue is concerned, the basis of female virtue is respect and obedience, and its main purpose is three obedience and four virtues. Three obedience: follow the father before marriage, follow the husband after marriage, and follow the son when the husband dies. Four virtues: female virtue, female speech, female merit and female appearance. Influenced by it, the Beggars' Sect is gentle and modest, and it also follows the rules. The sage said, "Women are easily influenced by others. There are three ways to go, but there is no tyranny. I dare not do it myself. The fatwa will not leave the boudoir, but only between feeding. " When we treat women, if we can keep in mind the teachings of saints, strictly regulate women's behavior according to the ethical requirements of saints, and do not condone frivolous behavior because of selfish love, then we truly respect women. As far as women themselves are concerned, if a woman can follow the ethical code, abide by women's morality, make moderate concessions and maintain herself, dare not do anything that violates the ethical code, dare not do anything that violates chastity, be diligent in housework, teach her husband and children, try her best to be a human being in front of her parents and try her best to be a mother in front of her husband and children. There is no shortage of people who should follow and obey them in daily life. If husbands are like this, is there any glory of women's dignity? Respect is our behavior, and dignity is the result of this respect. Only respect has dignity. And respect, especially self-esteem. If people can respect themselves, their personal dignity will naturally stand, and so will women.
Or some feminists refuse to accept what I have said, accusing the saints of being superior to women and asking women how to insult or discriminate against women in their daily lives. This is a big mistake. The inferiority of "men are superior to women" is different from the inferiority of "despicable personality". The latter does have personality insults, while the former does not. For example, Confucius is a saint and his personality is the most perfect, but Confucius has never been an emperor in his life. According to the etiquette system of respecting the monarch and honoring the officials, Confucius was also humble before the monarch. Do you think this is an insult to Confucius' personality? Besides, we have no intention of discriminating against women. If you think this is discrimination against women, you are actually discriminating against yourself! For example, if you think that asking women to do housework is discrimination against women, in fact, we have no intention of discriminating against women by asking women to do housework. If you think so, you actually look down on yourself doing housework, so you think so. And you feminists flaunt your sense of equality, but look down on this and that in practical matters. Is it contradictory?
In a word, if we really want to respect women, we must treat women according to the moral norms of saints, so that we can give full play to our talents in our daily life. As for bourgeois feminist theory, it is heresy. Yang respects women, but actually belittles them and isolates them from human nature. All my female compatriots, don't quit?
I wish my female compatriots a happy holiday.
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The March 8th International Women's Day has arrived, and the status of women and gender equality in society have aroused public concern. Some experts believe that the media itself has certain "gender discrimination", and it has a greater responsibility to respect women. Feng Yuan, a former media reporter and coordinator of women's rights and gender issues in China Office of International Action Aid, believes that there is a lot of "gender discrimination" in the media. "First of all, words and sentences have not been censored, and languages full of sexism and gender stereotypes can be seen everywhere, such as remarriage, widows, big men, weak women and virgin land."
I think the expert's statement really hit the nail on the head and pointed out the important harm of some media today. We have repeatedly stressed the need to improve women's social status, respect women's personality and so on, but in fact this is often not the case. All kinds of discrimination against the female class are mainly manifested in the "gender discrimination" of the media. In many media reports about women, they use words carelessly, and discriminatory words can be seen everywhere. When some TV and books report women, the shots and pictures are unreasonable, and what should not be reported is also reported. Also, I like to exaggerate some personal situations of women. It can be said that I can't wait to dig out everything left in the corner to attract the attention of the public.
In addition, as far as our society is concerned, there are some unfairness to women, such as occupational discrimination, low social status, and problems that should be solved have not been properly solved. There are indeed some professional women who can't do it because of their physical conditions. However, in many occupations that women can engage in, employers artificially set a higher threshold for women, shut them out, and some even limit their appearance and height. In real life, women's social status is actually not as high as that of men.
When March 8 came, experts raised this question. This should arouse the great attention of our whole society. How should we respect women, really improve their social status and make them enjoy the same treatment as men? This problem should be discussed as a long-term social problem, and practical solutions should be put forward, instead of just talking about it orally, or shouting for a while around March 8, and then no one cares.
Since some experts have raised the issue of "gender discrimination" in the media, we should start with the media's respect for women. All kinds of media should attach great importance to this aspect when reporting women's issues, try their best to overcome discriminatory words and avoid all kinds of shots that hurt women's self-esteem. This work should not be too difficult.
More importantly, it is necessary to truly put respect for women and improve their status on the agenda of party and government organs at all levels in social practice, with emphasis on implementation. This requires not only the formation of a good social atmosphere, but also the introduction and implementation of relevant supporting policies. Especially in women's employment, rights protection, social security and many other aspects, we should let them enjoy equal or even superior treatment with men. Gradually improve and tend to be reasonable.
Respect women and safeguard their legitimate rights and interests. Never confine yourself to March 8th, but care about them every day, so that women can really hold up half the sky.
How to respect the poor and others is to respect yourself!
First, learn to respect others. As the saying goes: As you sow, you reap. You respect others everywhere, and the reward is that others respect you everywhere. Second, be ready to help others and be willing to contribute. Helping others is not necessarily material help. Just lifting a finger or caring words can make others feel moved for a long time. If you can help those who have hurt yourself, you can not only show your broad mind, but also help to "turn your enemy into your friend" and create a more relaxed interpersonal environment for yourself. Third, be generous and tolerant. In interpersonal relationships, there are sometimes contradictions, bad feelings, constant cutting and confusion. What shall we do? "Meet with a smile and forget the hatred." Learning generosity and tolerance will win a "green" interpersonal environment. "People are not sages, to err is human." Don't dwell on other people's mistakes. The road of life is getting wider and wider because of generosity and tolerance, and narrow thinking will only push you into a dead end. Fourth, we must get along with people sincerely. There is a saying: to be popular, honesty is a treasure. Deceiving the world with lies and empty words, or duplicity, or duplicity, or intrigue, are bound to be spurned by people. Therefore, we should always tell the truth, do honest things and be honest.
How should love cherish so as not to hurt each other? what is love ? The meaning of love is very broad, which can be friendship, affection and love ... among them, perhaps people are most interested in love. Then I might as well talk about love. Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, and sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people really have eternal love? How many people have been looking for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling of commitment, love may be the feeling of life and death together ... love is an endless topic. When you love someone, your heart will be afraid and uneasy. You don't know how the other person feels. You should hide your feelings, because you are a reserved person. Maybe your first love is the shadow in your heart. You dress him in dream clothes. You are addicted to the illusion of dreams and don't want to wake up. You wandered around for a long time. When you know each other's feelings, everything disappears, because you have come out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you embrace has lost its luster, and your life is full of gray. When I have no experience of loving others, I think, "loving others is a kind of happiness." When I was loved, I thought, "Being loved is a kind of happiness!" " But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable and their desires can only be passed on by her. Nothing can go deep into her heart. Just like a decadent and gloomy flower, it has a desperate posture but looks up with its true face and smiles at all cruelty and humiliation. Dark green, no tears. Such a flower that always blooms in the dark, who doesn't believe in tears, is doomed to be lonely all his life. Often in a crowded sea of people, I feel that the extension, sound and smell of many strangers are chaotic and noisy. And calm down and look, listen, and find it difficult to fill. With love and being loved, there is a struggle in the emotional whirlpool. With love and being loved, there are more corrections in the emotional world. Love and being loved take the wrong train, love and being loved are indissoluble bonds, love and being loved are restrained, and love and being loved are helpless ... For a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, the vast land is different. Walking on the road forever, all love will suddenly find out what is here.
Satisfied, please adopt.
How should I choose in love? Love is like a war. When you go forward and backward, you shouldn't lose your mind. You should be careful about your gains and losses.
Love can't be irrational. Losing your mind means losing yourself, losing yourself, what to love others with, and how others love you.
Love is nothing to be confused about. Listen, see and feel, and the lingering warmth and sweetness will keep pouring into your heart.
You don't have to say or be demanding. Love is love, it won't follow your heart, but if you feel it carefully, you will be intoxicated with that kind of happiness.