San Mao said: "Love will not last long unless it falls into the real life of dressing, eating, sleeping and counting money."

Indeed, true "love" is often revealed from every detail in life. Compared with asking a man if he loves you, the answer is just a verbal promise, which can be true or false, while the real one can't lie but is hidden in every detail of life. As the saying goes, "See true love in details."

Especially when only you two are together, pay attention to his attitude towards you, and you will know whether he has you in his heart or not, and whether the relationship between you is good or not, such as eating together, traveling together, or even going to the supermarket together in ordinary life, and you will find the answer from these relationships.

Just like there is such a hot topic on a forum on the Internet, about "Why do women like to take their husbands to the supermarket?" The best answer below is "The supermarket is the true face of life. Going to the supermarket with a man can best test his love for you. "

Therefore, whether the relationship between two people is good or not, whether a man loves you or not, is good for you. Actually going to the supermarket together will give you an answer!

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I remember reading such an article before. I had dinner with my husband, Mr. Guan, and my friend Xiaoli, and then went to the supermarket to buy ingredients. Before entering the supermarket, Xiaoli's husband said to her husband, Mr. Guan, "Let's go to the coffee shop next door for a cup of coffee and let them buy it at the girl's house."

After listening, Mr. Guan replied, "No, my wife seldom goes into the kitchen and doesn't know what to choose." I'd better go and have a look with her, and I can help by the way. " Because of her husband's refusal, Xiaoli's husband felt a little embarrassed because he didn't have anyone to help him, so he went to the supermarket together.

After entering the supermarket, when the author and her husband were still discussing, I saw that my colleague Xiao Li had quickly selected all the ingredients.

I can't help but praise Xiaoli's ability. Unexpectedly, the other party sighed: "This is not a husband who can't do anything. You should practice hard."

It turns out that Xiaoli's husband has been reluctant to accompany her to the supermarket because he thinks that the kitchen, cooking and shopping in the supermarket are all women's business. So basically all the housework at home is done by her alone. No matter how busy she is, her husband will not help. Not only will he not help, but he will always find fault. Once the food doesn't agree with him, he will blame Xiao Li.

Maybe there is no harm without comparison. Xiao Li thought that every woman who came into the family was like her, but when she saw that Mr. Guan was so concerned about his wife, she suddenly felt so sad. A man who only leaves all trivial things to his wife really can't be called a qualified husband.

Yes, it can be seen that the author's husband, Mr. Guan, usually goes shopping with his wife and supermarkets, and then they share housework together, so their feelings are particularly harmonious and loving. Instead, Xiaoli's marriage, all the trivial things in the family are supported by one person, behind which is his wife's bitterness and grievances.

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Although going to the supermarket is just a very ordinary thing, we can see the degree of mutual cooperation between husband and wife in marriage. The husband is willing to take the initiative to help, and the happiness of the family that shares the responsibility with the family that is only the "hands-on shopkeeper" at home is of course self-evident.

If you don't believe me, you can look around you. Men who love to go to the supermarket and share housework together have a higher marital happiness index.

Just like knowing a girl, Xiaoyi, not only has a good family background, a beautiful life and a high education, but also has a point that she is "gluttonous". She is a famous foodie in her circle of friends, and her favorite dishes are notoriously difficult to cook.

It is said that her husband Jun Gao cooked this dish with Fu Xue, a five-star master, in order to catch up with her level at that time. It is because he is so devoted to Xiaoyi that he stands out from so many suitors, captures her heart and wins her beauty.

After getting married, Jun Gao not only didn't slack off, but preferred to stay in the kitchen and entertain her with some delicious food. And she chooses ingredients from the supermarket, washes them and cuts them back before cooking. Even in the end, she even cleaned up all the tableware, all by herself. Almost everyone will visit their home, and they will envy the good life in Xiao Yi. I don't know how lucky she is to have married such a peerless husband in her life.

At this time, Xiaoyi's face will show happiness that can't be concealed. Instead, she laughed and scolded Jun Gao: "It's all his fault. Cooking is so delicious. Since I married him, I have gained more than ten kilograms. " And because Jun Gao is very kind to Xiaoyi, Xiaoyi also loves Jun Gao's parents very much, and buys them a lot of food, clothes and a bunch of nutrients from time to time, so there are basically few contradictions in their family, which is particularly warm and loving.

Perhaps in real life, many men take it for granted that women should be born around the kitchen, including going to the supermarket to buy things, cooking and washing dishes, etc., all of which should be women's responsibilities. Why else would you marry her?

However, this is actually wrong. Family is two people together, so housework should not only be a woman's business, especially going to the supermarket to buy food and cook, three meals a day. Men blindly shirk their responsibilities and become shopkeepers, which will only make women more and more unbalanced, more and more disappointed with you and more and more chilling.

To tell the truth, only when men are willing to participate in trivial housework in the family can women feel men's care and concern, just like Liu Qingyun, the winner who often meets the news because he buys food in the supermarket.

As a big star, it's easy to send flowers and various brand-name bags to his wife Guo Aiming, but he disdains to send them. He would rather spend most of his time wandering between the vegetable market and the kitchen, cooking the smell of fireworks for his wife, but it can also show his love for his wife and cherish his family.

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After all, what are "love" and "marriage"? How to manage the relationship between two people in order to love and be happy forever?

In fact, taking off those so-called romantic and gorgeous coats is nothing more than trivial things such as daily necessities, and the vegetable market and kitchen are the places that can best highlight the essence of love. Those who are willing to spend their time and thoughts in these places are the ones who really care about you. They will not only cook simple food, but also manage your feelings.

Think about it. One person goes to the supermarket to buy things for the sake of shopping, but when two people go to the supermarket together, it will become a romantic business and an investment in love.

I have seen such a young couple shopping in the supermarket. They are talking and laughing, and will stop at the tasting booth to have a taste. I heard a woman say to a man, "If we keep trying, we can save dinner." The man pinched her face and praised, "You are really a housewife."

Maybe he has just entered the society and is still financially embarrassed. He didn't want to spend a lot of money on food, so he went to the supermarket and ate in the promotion area. After tasting it, the man approached the woman and said, "Do you want to eat it again from the beginning?"

The woman shyly tugged at his skirt and said, "Forget it. If someone finds out, it will be embarrassing. " The man specifically replied, "Why don't we go home and change clothes and come back to eat?" . Two people say that finish, walked away with a smile.

Even after so many years, if you ask me what is the most romantic and beautiful love scene in my memory, the first thing that comes to mind is not an amusement park or a hotel, but the scene of the ordinary but sweet couple in the supermarket.

In my opinion, the most romantic and beautiful place between lovers should not be just a cinema or a coffee shop, but a market full of fireworks, because that is the place closest to our real life and the place that can best test a person's true feelings.

If someone is willing to accompany you to visit this place, it can also prove that he is really willing to spend the fireworks life with you and share the trivial things in life with you. Those men who only like to be very much in love with your cinema or coffee shop may only have romance in their eyes, but they can't afford the clutter of real life.

Didn't Haruki Murakami, a famous Japanese writer, also say that "when you treat seemingly boring little things in life with an interesting attitude, you will get a small but certain happiness, so that you feel that life is beautiful."

People who treat their feelings with care will never think that going to the supermarket is a trivial and complicated matter, but will regard it as a small fortune in life, because it is a good opportunity to communicate with their partners and enhance their feelings.

Therefore, the relationship between you is good or not, depending on how earth-shattering vows each other has, or how romantic surprises each other has. Just take him to the supermarket, because the test of the relationship between two people, whether he really loves you, is hidden in this seemingly trivial human fireworks.

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