For the rest of your life, love yourself
Chen Sujin
"It's not easy for people in this life. I have been very independent since I was a child, and I am a good girl in the eyes of my parents. When I grow up, I get married and do my best to teach my children. Now my daughter is working abroad and married. My husband's work is also very ideal. I helped my mother get rid of her illness. Now in October, she is free to live in a seaside apartment in Sanya like some elderly people who are migratory birds in Northeast China. I thought about it for a moment. I have been living for these people for most of my life. Now I am applying for retirement because I want to love myself in the rest of my life. "
"I especially cherish every warmth you gave me, and I really love you! I will be strong and sunny in the rest of my life, and I will remember your kindness! "
At the round table in a medicine room, in the coldest weather this winter, at the node where there are less than two weeks left in this Spring Festival, and in the fragrant heat of chicken soup, my colleague for many years, beautiful Ah Juan, just said with gratitude ...
I said that every normal life goes from baby to old age, but everyone's life can't be copied casually.
Just after the Spring Festival in 221, A Juan told us that she would go to Linzhi, Tibet to see peach blossoms alone. Several of us were shocked when we heard her plan. The reason is very simple, age, altitude sickness. However, A Juan still set off for Tibet without looking back. She flew to Lanzhou alone, took the train to Xining, then took the train to Lhasa, and then took the tour bus to Linzhi. From the video she sent back, we didn't see her fatigue and illness. On the contrary, the smile of a sunny woman in the same frame as the snow-capped mountains and sacred lakes conquered us, and also touched those of us who always said that we were going to Tibet but were too slow to take our steps. After coming out of Tibet, she went to Chengdu with her backpack. She went to the magical Jiuzhai along the high mountain valley next to the Minjiang River, and went to the place where she wanted to go but had no time to go in the land of abundance. She walked fearlessly, and she walked confidently and happily ...
Before that, she accompanied her husband in northern Xinjiang and Boxer to help Xinjiang, and she immediately fell in love with the simple folk customs there. She felt that she was living in northern Xinjiang. And the people there really didn't stay enough, so, after finishing the task of aiding Xinjiang with her husband, in the autumn of 221, she, alone, set foot on the road back to northern Xinjiang ...
Once upon a time, she was just delicate from the outside, but I didn't expect her to be so strong and independent in her bones.
When her mother was paralyzed in bed with stromal tumor, and the local hospitals, provincial hospitals and even the famous hospitals in Beijing were helpless, she didn't give up! She and her husband are always looking for everything that might save her mother. Finally, on the recommendation of a friend, she used the special point-to-point medication in the Navy General Hospital. Her mother miraculously stood up and regained all consciousness, and she can fly to Hainan every year in late autumn to enjoy the life of coconut wind and sea rhyme. A Juan said that if she went with her, I would take her to the airport, and I would contact Hainan to pick her up on time. If I don't have a companion to go, I will accompany her there by myself. She and many people in the apartment for the aged and vacationing are acquaintances who have lived in the past few years and have a good time! A Juan said that as long as my mother can play one more day, she will be happy. I let my mother live comfortably in her later years because of my daughter.
At ordinary times, when we see A Juan talking about her daughter, she is also smiling. A Juan has a daughter as independent as her. In the second year of high school, I insisted on going abroad, went to Canada, studied languages, went to high school, went to college, applied for a job, first went to the tax bureau, and then moved to PricewaterhouseCoopers to Deloitte. My life goal was clear, I kept learning, and I kept trying to create a life. I married myself abroad and married an Asian young talent of my age. A Juan and her husband were very satisfied with it, as long as her daughter lived happily. She said that her daughter has lived up to her efforts as a mother for her over the years ... < P > Speaking of her husband, A Juan is also proud. The husband is chosen by herself, so she has to be kind to people! She does this and that at home. She can make everything simple by herself, but for her husband, that must not be sloppy. She supported all his decisions, and she helped him stick to his ideals. She once produced a menu map with every label in Zhang Hecheng. We didn't know that she could cook so many dazzling foods before. In this way, people often invited Mr. Wang to get together in those special restaurants on weekends, and the two of them ...
A Juan's carefulness and thoughtfulness are more and more appreciated by us. Let's say that for this winter lunch, she chose to go to a restaurant to try a meal, which was not as good as the legend imagined, and then came to this medicated diet. She came to see the ingredients herself, and she was satisfied, so she invited us ...
In the story of time, every family has different chapters, and Ah Juan is trying to tell her own story.
One night the other day, she sent me a micro message: Please take a bath and treat yourself to some food.
I laughed myself after reading it. Isn't it common to take a bath and eat by myself? A Juan used "please yourself", and suddenly found that the style of painting was different from usual. There was a kind of respect, a kind of attention, a kind of care, and a kind of self-respect. In short, there was a kind of joy in my heart ...
Love yourself for the rest of my life.
From now on every day ...