Why is there tofu soup rice at the funeral?
According to folklore, during the Warring States Period, Le Yi was very filial, and his parents liked to eat soft food, so Le Yi made tofu from soybeans for his parents. Parents eat it every day because they live longer. After his parents died, Le Yi invited the neighbors who attended the funeral to eat tofu, hoping that everyone would live a long and healthy life. This led to the custom of eating tofu soup rice, which has been passed down to this day. On the other hand, Liu An, the king of Huainan in the Western Han Dynasty, advocated the art of immortals and offered beans every day, hoping to live forever. During this period, he invented the method of making tofu. After his father died of illness, according to etiquette, he had to stop cooking and turn off the fire within three days, so Liu ate cold tofu for three days. When others don't look at him, they see him stuffing white things into his mouth and think he is eating chicken bone marrow goat cheese, so they say he is impolite. Liu An gave a banquet to thank the guests after the three-day funeral, thanking all the hangers-on, and specially prepared a cold tofu during the dinner to tell the truth. From then on, the custom of dutiful son eating tofu as a cold food in mourning and thanking guests with tofu after death was formed. According to the folklore circulating in Jianghuai, once upon a time an old man gave each of his three daughters-in-law a liter of soybeans. The first daughter-in-law and the second daughter-in-law get their food back. The third daughter-in-law planted soybeans in the field and harvested new beans. Three years have passed and I have accumulated a lot of soybeans. Grandfather praised Third Grandma for her ability and made her take charge of housework. The third daughter-in-law grinds soybeans into tofu and cooks many delicious dishes to honor her in-laws. Grandpa said happily, "After one hundred years, you will give me tofu." After grandpa died, the daughter-in-law cooked with tofu. After the news spread, the custom of eating tofu rice at the funeral gradually formed. All the above statements are based on indirect data or speculation, so why the custom of eating tofu soup rice is still a mystery.